India • Age 70
Joined myLot 7 years ago
Passion for Making a Difference
Ram Bansal's Responses
dipak06 @dipak06 (913) • India 28 Apr 13
I am thinking to join article writing websites and while searching through the internet i got a few...but confused with which site should i start. Since i am a newbie in this area,i don't know what site will be the best one for an...
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Ram Bansal I have written articles on a number of article sites, and have contribute more than thousand articles. But in my experience, all are unfair to writers in their own ways. Firstly, their payout thresholds are high and they don't allow authors to reach them...
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jaiho2009 @jaiho2009 (39001) • Philippines 7 Apr 13
PLEASE! Before hitting that ! THIS IS NOT A POLL QUESTION/ NOT A PROMOTION EITHER. I knew one or two MyLotters who got married (in my 4 years of mylotting) But, haven't heard a MyLotter who attended a MYLOTTER's...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 18 Mar 13
And I replied, well, that is better than being deserted by husband like you've been. And so that is me...should I have kept quiet? lol It started with her coming to my place telling me that she intends to fight with my...
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Ram Bansal People have more intense interests in others' affairs rather than than in their own. I am separated from my wife without any legal battle or divorce, people go on advising me on going back to my wife without seeing their own relationships with their respective...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 21 Jan 13
So my maid had four kids, one died ..of cancer. Left with two sons and one daughter, she was literally forced to bring up the daughter's daughter by the daughter ...simply because she couldnt afford adequate dowry. Ok..so...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 19 Jan 13
Yeah..so we make all those senior lawyers as judges...and we assign them various places in the city and there is a telecast of proceedings. The judges argue amongst themselves about right and wrong, and fairness...in each...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 18 Jan 13
I think I believe him. I mean which good girl would want to study and work? Good girls dont work, they remain good by becoming a burden on their family for dowries. There is no litmus test for good girls, right?...
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Ram Bansal Term 'good girl' is highly subjective. The Supreme court advocate may be affording to keep his girls locked in his home for safety from his clients and opponents. But practical life exposes all of us, including men, women and boys, to hazards of crimes which...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 16 Jan 13
Just some doubt... Terrorists might have done that ...to get even...and tell their trainees, your death will be avenged ...if they kill one, we will kill two of theirs... And we are presuming it is Pak's armed forces... I...
vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 13 Jan 13
There is an alarmingly high rate of rape reports after December 16, 2012. I wonder if these cases have surfaced with the hope that the government would do something about rape laws, or because rapists realize that whatever the...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 11 Jan 13
Ok..we have laws... There is nobody to follow them. We have public toilets that some agency tries to keep clean and collects charges for keeping them clean. But the truck drivers, and homeless on the street are not going to use...
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jaiho2009 @jaiho2009 (39001) • Philippines 9 Jan 13
I've been to a public market this morning with my teenage son and buy for our weekly consumption. On our way to the parking lot there's three young boys who ask for coins. My son handed them Japanese cakes that he bought for...
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Ram Bansal Begging has developed as a respected profession by the beggars at least and they do their business at their own terms, not of the donors. And many beggars are richer than middle income persons. In real terms, everyone expecting a donation to live on is a...
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jaiho2009 @jaiho2009 (39001) • Philippines 5 Jan 13
In this real world that we live in, "happy ending" does not always mean "and they lived happily ever after" Yes, not every happy relationship ended with getting MARRIED. AND....NOT ALL MARRIAGES- ENDS WITH A HAPPY...
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Ram Bansal A happy ending may even be getting rid of each other.. or the un-marriage.
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 4 Jan 13
Ok..here is this well meaning lady in my life. She truly means well for me. But she is given to age old ideas of family being family even if wrongs are done, and that wrongs need to be overlooked for the sake of "family". And...
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Ram Bansal I too face such problems from my friends and relatives who poke their nose in my family affairs. My response to them is always tough 'since you don't know anything about my family matters, it is not your concern to advise me on that'. Some understand and don't...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 27 Dec 12
Well, you could be writing an exam and what would your responses be... Yahoo..you write on a topic..you dont get to see immediate reactions, you comment on a topic that somebody else has written. Chances that somebody cares two...
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vanny @vandana7 (68621) • India 26 Dec 12
One of my neighbors has a child who is yet to turn one. Of late, my maid started working with them, and she has been bringing the baby over. For some strange reason, the child has taken fancy to me. So when he comes to me, he...
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Patsie Hatley @Hatley (164469) • Garden Grove, California 15 Dec 12
I often am waiting for the elevator when my young friend Ben who is in a wheelchair with severe MS joins me,WE laugh as we ofteh ride up together. But after breakfast this morning he called to me'"I will ride with you" and I...
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pankajgarg @pankajgarg (798) • India 4 Aug 11
We as Indians were proud of our nation especially because we are on of the world's biggest democratic country actually the biggest as the population of India now is the largest in the world after China (which is not a democratic...
Venkataraman @venkataraman_vc (5294) • Chennai, India 2 Dec 12
Lately, I'm seeing commercials saying about Cell Nutrition or Cell Nourishment. Almost every food supplement talk about Cell Nutrition. (Even some edible oil commercials also talk about Cell nutrition.) I really wonder, have...
jaiho2009 @jaiho2009 (39001) • Philippines 18 Nov 12
For the first time I did it. Been sitting the whole day doing report and reconciliation with past due and balances. Imagine from 7 in the morning till 6 in the evening.... with foods in front.. Ohh... my head is...
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