ravend

@ravend (659)

Malta • Age 37

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Quothe the Raven... nevermore

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I have been made redundant.

ravend @ravend (659) • Malta 20 Jul 11

Here I am- I am trying my best to move ahead in life, and after 6 months at my first job I was fired. I am desperate... I feel at loss... how do I fill up my time now? Thanks.

help

life

unemployment

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ravend I still have a part time job to fall back on... but anyway I am feeling desperate because I figure I wouldn't be able to pay my bills.. just as I had started to have some modicum of independence.

22 Jul 11

Do you believe on this?

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 22 Jul 11

I discussed on instant marriage which I attend. I think this is happened because God already fixed them both as husband & wife. Everyone says God makes the couple. Some time we are trying the matching couple for our child in...

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ravend NO matter who you marry;whether it is arranged or they fell in love, a marriage will require a lot of hard work. There are so many distractions in today's world that it is almost impossible to not be distracted. :).

22 Jul 11

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I'm Having Smoked Salmon On Bread For A Late Lunch. You?

beingwell @beingwell (3625) • Thailand 20 Jul 11

Hi there my friends! I just had a banana for lunch which made a so hungry after just a couple of minutes. Good thing there's smoked salmon and cheese spread in the fridge. So I toasted 3 pieces of wholewheat bread, and viola! My...

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ravend Its a Mediterranean Salad made from peppers and aubergines. :) Its awesome

21 Jul 11

I'm Having Smoked Salmon On Bread For A Late Lunch. You?

beingwell @beingwell (3625) • Thailand 20 Jul 11

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ravend I had a Caponata for lunch. :) Very awesome

20 Jul 11

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feeling worthless

gabbyjoe1973 @gabbyjoe1973 (28) • United States 20 Jul 11

I have been out of work for some time now and I have been feeling very depressed lately. Sometimes I dont even know how I am able to get out of bed on mornings. But what I do know is that despite the fact that I have felt like...

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ravend Your post inspired me. I am in a similar situation. Out of work; my parents both too sick to work. I feel the same; as if I am fighting a hopelessly lost battle. Don't give up. We're all in the same cranky ugly boat.

20 Jul 11

What's the real meaning behind "Friends w/ Benefits?"

femmeandglam @femmeandglam (15) • Philippines 20 Jul 11

If you have watched No Strings Attached already (Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman), it's very similar to the upcoming movie of Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis, Friends with Benefits. These past few weeks, I just noticed that...

ashton kutcher

falling in love

friends with benefits

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ravend The two have to be really mature. I had such a relationship. He was highly neurotic; all his issues and problems ended up being a burden on me... and I had to literally take care of them; whilst he wasn't even taking me seriously... Epic Fail and waste of...

20 Jul 11

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I have been made redundant.

ravend @ravend (659) • Malta 20 Jul 11

Here I am- I am trying my best to move ahead in life, and after 6 months at my first job I was fired. I am desperate... I feel at loss... how do I fill up my time now? Thanks.

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Am I Being Too Picky?

miessy24 @miessy24 (235) • Philippines 19 Jul 11

When I got a crush on a guy, I tend to observe his ways and sometimes I just like the whole being and ignored the flaws. With all the funny bones I felt with the sweet moments of exchanging text messages, calls and teases from...

courtship

guys

too picky on guys

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ravend I have the same problem. I think with me it is more a case of being afraid of relationships. :)

20 Jul 11

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Mum and dad prejudice to me

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 21 Jun 11

It wasn't when I was born. They love me very much when I was a kid especially dad pampered all the way. Until I got an illness in 1997 all the attention was move to my younger brother including buying him a bicycle, money, car and...

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ravend Dar wonghoiyee, my hear goes out to you; you seem to be very sad and lonely. I suggest that you look for support; a counsellor could help you. After that; I suggest that you try and work it out with them. Try leaving home; but dont do it badly or witha...

21 Jun 11

Could parents peep their children's diary?

lilyfang1991 @lilyfang1991 (164) • China 21 Jun 11

Hi, everyone, the thing that parents peep their child's diary happens from time to time, people have differnt opinions on this matter, and each has their own reasons, what is your view about it? besides, do you think that parents...

children

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ravend If you are worried; than yes. BUt whatever you do do not let them know you saw. Act discreet; don't lose their trust. DOn't let them know you broke their personal space, they need after all; their area and space where to develop into their own persons.

21 Jun 11

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Private Pain

leateagee @leateagee (3667) • China 21 Jun 11

As I have shared to you guys earlier this week, I was stressed by being back to work. Anyway, thanks so much for all the encouraging words. I was touched by the responses. I value all the people who took time and gave me great...

heartache

pain

private pain

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ravend I try to manage all my private pains; but eventually I ruin it all cus I get an emotional burnout. Always try to look for help, if you feel you can't do it alone.

21 Jun 11

The wonder of vinegar

laglen @laglen (19759) • United States 21 Jun 11

I was reading a discussion about line drying towels. A lot of the responses to make the towels softer were to put vinegar in the rinse water. This got me to thinking about all of the different used for vinegar. There has to be...

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ravend We use vinegar for jellyfish bites, to decrease the sting. We always go to the beach with a bottle of vinegar in fact.

21 Jun 11

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Why always open minded people face bad

jillon @jillon (3) • India 11 Jun 11

I always think why these open minded people face bad image upon them. This is the reason I got recently that from my experience is that everyone dont like to be open and they always hide everything from others. I also face this ....

open mind is not good sometimes

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ravend Ope minded people provide a challenge. That is why they are hated. :) Easy.

19 Jun 11