how many of you are in SA?

I'm a new user of MyLot. And i'm not quite sure how it works. Do people really get paid. How many of you are South African users?

when and how do you know if you're ready to love again?

I broke up with my boyfriend about 5 months ago. it's like he has left with a big part of my life, because i don't have friends anymore, i do not have a social life anymore, i'm not a happy party...

how do i keep him coming for more?

is sex on the first date destroy the chances of him coming back? I guess i push men away, by calling them all the time and i sometimes appear to be too clingy. So i met this cute guy this weekend....

Now who really cares about getting married in this day and age?

Now this goes out to the ladies out there.Or even men! If you're married or engaged, please don't get offended, in fact, exclude youself from this topic. I'm sorry. Now, to the single and 'still...

I can never understand men

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years, chilled a while, gave myself a few months to heal and get over him. So I thought I was ready to date again, when I agreed to go on a date with this...