refilwe

@refilwe (13)

South Africa • Age 40

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Sonething Everyone who has a website/blog needs !

Kowgirl @Kowgirl (3490) • United States 27 Dec 07

I am so excited to be able to bring you all this great information about a program that will help everyone who has a website or blog earn some extra money. It is the first of this kind to be on the Internet. As we all know...

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refilwe i dont quite get what PM mean, can you please respond to this with a link or something? thank you.

28 Dec 07

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Become a copy editor? Or is this silly?

makelifehappy @vera5d (4005) • United States 27 Dec 07

After much deliberation and a bit of inspiration I think I would really enjoy being a copy editor. I could do something like that from home very easily. What completely baffles me is that I have been qualified to do this for...

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refilwe Hi, i'm a sub-editor/copy-editor for one of the independent newspapers' publications in SA. it was my first journalism job and i enjoy doing it so much. its like you are a word engineer, you fix it all up and its a good feeling to see the headline that you...

27 Dec 07

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when and how do you know if you're ready to love again?

refilwe @refilwe (13) • South Africa 9 Feb 07

I broke up with my boyfriend about 5 months ago. it's like he has left with a big part of my life, because i don't have friends anymore, i do not have a social life anymore, i'm not a happy party girl i used to be. and guys i've...

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i think my boyfriend is cheating me!

naadia @naadia (828) • India 8 Feb 07

i have a deep relation with my bf.it started 1 year ago.he was my best friend once.they we take that relation to a step ahead.everything was fine till last month.now he is not caring me,he is not talking much with me,but always...

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refilwe My dear, that definatelly sound like a cheating boy friend. you say he is changing, it means something is definatelly keeping him busy and occupied. I see you say he has time for other girls, but just not you. this is soo sad, i'm sorry, i know exactly how it...

9 Feb 07

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Going through chemo..

NobodysFallenAngel @NobodysFallenAngel (7) • United States 5 Feb 07

This is my fourth diagnosis.. I am really starting to get frustrated with my body.. I am 23, and feel like I am 90. I go to the gym, I eat right, and I take my pills like I am supposed to. I go to chemo every friday, and it seems...

depression

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refilwe I feel what you're going through, it is tough. And i want to tell you that you have been nothing but brave. Carry on like that and sooner than you know things will be OK. focus on getting better for now, love will automatically follow. Stop beating yourself up...

6 Feb 07

Now who really cares about getting married in this day and age?

refilwe @refilwe (13) • South Africa 18 Jan 07

Now this goes out to the ladies out there.Or even men! If you're married or engaged, please don't get offended, in fact, exclude youself from this topic. I'm sorry. Now, to the single and 'still looking' ones, give this some...

love

marriage

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how many of you are in SA?

refilwe @refilwe (13) • South Africa 17 Jan 07

I'm a new user of MyLot. And i'm not quite sure how it works. Do people really get paid. How many of you are South African users?

mylot payments

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refilwe Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. You are the onlyone who replied so far. Are we allowed to exchange e-mail addresses?

17 Jan 07

how many of you are in SA?

refilwe @refilwe (13) • South Africa 17 Jan 07

I'm a new user of MyLot. And i'm not quite sure how it works. Do people really get paid. How many of you are South African users?

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I can never understand men

refilwe @refilwe (13) • South Africa 16 Jan 07

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years, chilled a while, gave myself a few months to heal and get over him. So I thought I was ready to date again, when I agreed to go on a date with this guy i work with. our first...

men department

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refilwe very well said. The thing is we sometimes make excuses for people. We just keep hoping that everything works out in the end. It is also good to hear what we should hear, at times. I'm done with him.

16 Jan 07

I can never understand men

refilwe @refilwe (13) • South Africa 16 Jan 07

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