relkide

@relkide (39)

India • Age 56

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Who is our best teacher ?

tudors @tudors (1556) • China 10 Feb 09

In our modern society,it is universally known that parents educate us in the earliest periods.However,it is not compeletely dependent on their parents for their qualities. And I subscibe to the opinion that parents are not the...

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relkide Even though parents thought us something in the initial stage of our life, many a times they can't be our best teachers. Its our mistakes and experience guide us a lot in our life. Parents are supportive in some way.

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what are some of the beautiful things you have seen in your eyes?

annjilena @annjilena (5618) • United States 29 Jan 09

many people have seen the grand canyon,some people have travel all over the world what have you seen through your eyes.there are many pretty places i have not seen and want to see what is the most beautiful spot in your country...

what the most beautiful thing

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relkide Daily I look out of my window and see the lightings outside my house as it is in a hilly area. I need not go anywhere to admire the nature.It's next to my window.Daily I go for a walk in that hilly area and see the beautiful tress and gardens and it's a great...

2 Feb 09

Have you ever got mad with power?

nirose @nirose (384) • India 2 Feb 09

Lets think have you ever gotten mad with power, nomatter how or where. Maybe at school, home. You were give some power over something and utilized for your own benefit or used it unwisely.

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relkide The word "power" itself is so powerful in whatever lifestyle it may be. No matter the place whether it is house,office,school,college,or politics.Power has something to do with it. Some command power with respect, some with hooliganism and some out of love.It...

2 Feb 09

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Are You Confident In your Relationship?

Queenperk @Queenperk (192) • United States 25 Jan 09

When is it okay to be confident in your relationship to say that you have the other party on lock ( he or she is not going anywhere)? Let's just say everything is great in your relationship I mean everyone has problems but...

safe

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relkide Eventhough I am confident in our relationship there is no trust between us,but still our relationship will be there. Day by day our love between us is decreasing and stil we compromise just our kid. So our relatioship will remain.

2 Feb 09

Whom Do You Love Most In your Family????

xubi999 @xubi999 (26) • Pakistan 30 Jan 09

Yesterday I was thinking whom do i love most in my family??? although every time i think like this the answer comes out to be everyone But I Yesterday thought that there's got to be one in these six,one of my two brothers,my...

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relkide Since ours is a single child family I will choose my son as my entire life revolves round him. Whatever decisions I take it will be for his sake. My husband takes the second position in my life.

30 Jan 09

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What age do you think is the best to be? Why?

Lindery @Lindery (853) • Latvia 30 Jan 09

When we are little we want to grow up faster, we think and believe adults have an amazing life. Once we are adults in our memories we go back to past and remember how nice it was to be a kid. But in real, I feel comfortable in all...

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relkide I think the age group between 20-30 years is the best. At this age you attain a maturity after struggling so much in your teenage.Most of your decisions will be right. You recieve a good identification after you get your job, girl friend, marriage etc etc. You...

30 Jan 09

Do you speak up with your partner or always hear him speak up his problems??

relkide @relkide (39) • India 29 Jan 09

I have seen many couples where one speaks and the other hears.The one who speaks doesn't allow the partner to speak up his/her wishes and thoughts.I don't think this is fair. Both should have equal shae in discussing a problem....

equal share

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Family or frieds for quality time

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 27 Jan 09

Do you feel that you want more quality time with friends or family? Or is it divided pretty equally among the two. I know that I would like to set more time aside to have fun with my family members. The friends would have to...

friends

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relkide Even though the quality time has to be shared with both, the first option is for family as this is your shelter at the end of the day. Only if the atmosphere is good you can enter your home peacefully. So it needs more attention.

28 Jan 09

which would you hear first? GOOD NEWS or BAD NEWS?

tudors @tudors (1556) • China 28 Jan 09

hey, my lotters, if you are going to be told one good news and one bad news, which one you would like to hear first? and why? As to me, i'd rather finish the bad one because it will spoil my mood and then the good news will...

clear

finish

good news or bad news

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relkide If you are a positive attitude person then you will hear the good news first and then the bad news whereas a practical person will hear bad news first and then the good news.Since I am a practical person I will hear the bad news first and then compensate it...

28 Jan 09

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what is your greatest FEAR in life?

kaitan @kaitan (46) • Japan 26 Jan 09

Someone asked me this question and I couldn't answer directly.I have to think twice because there are two things that came out of my head. Am I afraid to die?or I'm afraid to lose someone special?I think ,both..How about you?What...

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relkide Insecured life is my greatest fear. As life is unpredictable we need the security to lead it. Confidence in life will help us a lot regarding this issue.

27 Jan 09

"through good and bad times you've got a friend."

GIRLBITS @GIRLBITS (228) • Philippines 24 Nov 08

Share some memorable stories that will make you laugh, cry and realize the true meaning of friendship.

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relkide yes I have a friend who helped me when I met an accident. I started hating my relatives as nobody came to help me. MY friend - childhood friend, helped me by cooking food for me and she really nursed me. My true friend - Thanks a lot. I love you and I will...

27 Jan 09

do you believe in luck?

becnh83 @becnh83 (806) • Philippines 27 Jan 09

maybe there is luck but being industrious really plays a big part of it....dont you think?....

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relkide Yes, I believe in luck. Even if we are talented and industrious, sometimes we face misfortune. I see many people who are less talented than us in a higher position. I always blame that as unlucky. In other words its your destiny that decides your fortune.

27 Jan 09

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How you rate yourself when you are shopping? Shopaholic? window shopper? or..?

phalz81 @phalz81 (106) • Singapore 11 Jan 09

I met lots of type of shopper, including my friends, my inn-laws, my siblings. Whenever I hang out with them. I feel some of them even frugal and do not dare to spend money, we call them window shopper? only seeing but never ever...

habit

hobby

shopping

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relkide I think I was a mild shopper like you before. But nowadays I started becoming shopaholic. I know I do this out of boredom and stress.I can easily find out the difference in me. I don't know when I will be normal.

23 Jan 09

Close friends

kometer @kometer (151) • China 22 Jan 09

Having a lot of close friends is a wonderful thing.When you are happy,they can share your happiness,when you are sad,they can make you feel better.Do you have many close friends?

close friends

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relkide I had three close friends when I was studying in college. But after marriage I couldn't get in touch with them. Recently I met two of them. Among them one kept avoiding me - I could feel the differnce. But the other one is my same old friend with the same...

23 Jan 09

what is the happiest moment in your life?

relkide @relkide (39) • India 23 Jan 09

I think this discussion will make some of you think about the happiest moment of your life and will help you feel relaxed. It could be anything like your wedding day or any incident. I always like to be independent so according to...

independent

salary

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Do you always trust the one whom you love???

anjaykay @anjaykay (50) • India 21 Jan 09

Have you ever come across such a situation where you lost your trust to the person whom you love or you have never come across such situation and always trust your partner??It is said that in a relationship, Trust is more...

love and trust

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relkide Yes, it is true that trust is more important between the partners.where theres is no trust your better half becomes "bitter off". The love factor slowly diminishes and the conflict rises.Then after life becomes hell,since you have to continue the life for the...

23 Jan 09

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How to kill the time???

relkide @relkide (39) • India 21 Jan 09

Hey! Can anybody suggest me to pass my time. Apart from surfing,doing household work,reading,watching TV what are all the other options to keep the time moving. Because of boredom I am getting stressed out.I am already in my 40's....

household

time pass

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how will life be without money?

shanemre @shanemre (357) • Saudi Arabia 8 Jan 09

Some says that money is the root of all evil. Money makes the world go round... when money talks, everybody listens... But then, imagine life without money. How will life be like without money? How will it be like if we can get...

evil

money

see no evil

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relkide Now the world can't go back to the past where money was not used. But when we imagine life without money, it is really crazy. A vendor giving you the things just like that, a jeweller shop owner selling his jewellery just like that - oh! it's really crazy...

20 Jan 09

In What Color Do You Relate Your Life?

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 13 Jan 09

Our life is full of mystery. We have experience a lot in life. Happiness, challenges, disappointments, loneliness,etc. Now, I just want to know in one color do you relate your life? And why did you say that is the color that you...

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relkide According to my observation I feel that the choice of my color varies according to my mood and life style. When i am stressed I go for yellow or light green. When I am in a happy mood I go for blue or green. Sometimes I go for brown, but I couldn't predict my...

14 Jan 09