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echoforever @echoforever (5180) • United States 20 Feb 13

I don't actually know if there is anything wrong with me. I'm sure some things are. I just can't think of a better title. This summer My mom was diagnosed with a new kind of cancer and was told she may not live. Its been a...

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rizzaspeaks Guess I understand what you feel. My mom is bed-ridden for years now. I always pray for her to be well and live a normal life again, but it's not yet happening. I almost lose my faith but then I realize, it's a test our our faith. We are tested through the...

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kprofgames @kprofgames (3091) • United States 20 Feb 13

Back in 2010 saw a person briefly and I mean briefly (was only a few months). I knew wasn't going to work out and to be honest I knew why all his past relationships didn't. In simplest terms...he's an idiot. In the last few...

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rizzaspeaks I guess it's a bait. Once you accept the package, he will have a reason to see you again. Don't you think he's some kind of a psycho or what? Just be careful, this kind of move in not worth your trust.

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hotsummer @hotsummer (13835) • Philippines 20 Feb 13

It's just too hard for me or just too time too consuming i guess that's why when i attempted to play a guitar that I gave up easily. Maybe i just lack the interest so that's why i was easily discourage. I guess all who tried...

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rizzaspeaks I agree with you that lack of interest will only bring discouragement. And adding to that, is lack of time and dedication. My interest started when I was 13, I wanted to know playing guitar just like my other classmates who had their own bands. So I learned...

20 Feb 13

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 6 Feb 13

More and more people are suffering from depression and others have bouts of depression every now and then. What do you do when you are depressed? I'm starting to feel really down about all that is happening in my life. I can't...

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rizzaspeaks Guess I have been there before, it's the time when every thing never makes sense and I have no one to turn to. So, I got into a blogsite and start writing. It feels great when you write something and you can feel other people's concern on you. I had friends...

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chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 6 Feb 13

So, do you believe that sometimes there are people born with bad luck or are with good fortune? In chinese fengshui, your date of birth, and time signifies what fortune / kind of life awaits you. Don't you notice that sometimes...

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rizzaspeaks Well, maybe yes. There are things that are not meant for you no matter how hard you wanted them. I believe in good and bad karma as well. Yet I also believe that no matter how our stars describe who we are, we have our own choices to fulfill in life. Being...

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Jessie086 @Jessie086 (36) 17 Jan 13

I'm Chinese. I live with my husband's mother. They are many problems since my son came, she just want to control all the things even my son's education. I can't bear it. Do American live with parents?

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rizzaspeaks Guess that's the bad thing of living your in-laws' house. It happens to all, regardless of your nationality I think. I believe that marriage means new life, new family. So now that you're still living under the same roof with your in-laws, you will somehow...

19 Jan 13

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 19 Nov 12

While I was searching for something I have seen the site wherein a guy had created a song #Amalayer then he even made the conversation as the lyrics to the song....

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rizzaspeaks Some say it's a bad example and a bad move, but in my opinion it's creative. Mikey Bustos is an artist btw, and he has a good voice actually if you have heard him sing some classic songs in PP. They say his video is not even a thing to be proud of and you...

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Mavic123456 @Mavic123456 (21898) • Thailand 18 Jan 13

When I was a little girl (as if I have grown tall… ) whenever I was asked what would you like to become when you grow up… I will always and very proud. “I want to be a house maid overseas”. Then people would laughed so...

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rizzaspeaks There was a time when I was a kid and my scold me, I was too proud to say "i will leave this house"..then they will all laugh and would even say "come, i'll help you pack". I used to watch movies with actors leaving and they will be begged not to leave, so...

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Emre1206 @Emre1206 (41) • Turkey 4 Jan 13

Everyone has a different technic to cope with stress and anxiety.I usually listen to some relaxing music such as classical of blues. What do you do when you get stressed?

anxiety

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rizzaspeaks It depends on where I am when I experience it. If I'm in the office, I just squeeze my stress ball and a 'lil surf on the internet to forget my work stress. If i'm at home, I sleep or eat or watch movies or play pc games. If I'm in public, i would hag out...

19 Jan 13

namiya @namiya (1713) • Philippines 18 Jan 13

Every time we meet she doesn't run out of topic about her husband’s womanizing. Much as I want to empathize with her but honestly I could not but strive not to show it for I too get stressed out hearing similar stories though...

friend

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rizzaspeaks If she's asking your opinion, tell her first that you can only base your opinion on her story and not on their story and that she should not blame you if you give an advice. It is her choice to follow it or not. If she really wants an advice, tell her "if...

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celticeagle @celticeagle (158680) • Boise, Idaho 16 Jan 13

Lastnight my granddaughter happened to call and I answered. She wanted to be sure that the door would be unlocked so that she and her boyfriend could come in and 'warm up'. BS they were going to spend the night. They come over and...

enabling

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rizzaspeaks I can see an ungrateful child in your story. Some kind of a prodigal child perhaps. However, I don't want to judge all of her 'coz there might be reasons why she ended up like that. I mean, generally, a person's character is not built by him/her alone. It...

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks Good for you Lampar. You said it pretty well, it is a way of rewarding the persons who gave selfless time and interest in your subject. We don't need to rush in picking the best response anyway :)

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks Yes, it also depends on how urgent you need the answer to your discussion. But it's always fair to choose the best response after giving everyone the chance to respond:)

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks That's good. It's not about who gives the best words, it is who have touched and made us realize the answer to our discussion. Afterall, it's about sharing knowledge and be of help to others:)

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks That's right. It depends on how consider a response to be the best. The helpful and sensible it is, the valuable it is.

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks Yes, it can bridge friendship :)

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks That's the common problem we have-choosing the best. Mylotters are just too good to respond to anything:)

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks Yes. But choosing the best response should be based on our own choice and not others' choice, so it's fine to pick what we think is the best- it's our discussion anyway. And as you've said, it's a simple way of showing appreciation and make them feel happy:)

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks Yes, there are really times when the answers are too good and we find it hard to pick the best one. But I guess that's the purpose of having the option to mark the "best" response. There can only be one to be considered as the "best", the one that topped the...

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rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 3 Dec 12

I have notice the "mark best response" sign a long time ago but I was not really aware that not choosing a best response would leave my discussion in my "unresolved" discussions until I clicked on it. I haven't choose best...

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rizzaspeaks Hi there! Guess that's the best thing about being here - to help and solicit views. I like the thought of soliciting opinions from people we don't know and see. It's simply giving and sharing advices without judging who the person is. Giving recognition is...

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