scottmitchell

@scottmitchell (32)

United States • Age 43

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Guys, would you mind it if your girlfriend has mostly male friends?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 27 Feb 07

There are some guys who are way too jealous. They dont want to see their girlfriend hanging out with other guys. Could this be insecurity? What are your views on this? I'd really like to know...

insecurity

jealous

relationship

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scottmitchell Triesha Gaye, your profile says you are from Dominican Republic. Did you move from Jamaica?

29 Aug 12

What do you think about my friend's situation?

chicgale @chicgale (2982) • Philippines 15 Mar 12

I met this woman at the restaurant with her american fiance. And now, her fiance asked me to teach her soon to be bride a basic English so I gotta meet this girl everyday. So, to make the story short, this woman is pregnant. She...

girlfriend

inlove

relationship

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scottmitchell There is a 1 in a million chance that the guy will actually marry your friend. There is also a 1 in a million chance that he will be faithful to her. Their relationship started as him using her as a free (you know what.) What is the chance she can be more for...

16 Mar 12

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how far can you go with this??

kaeirole @kaeirole (668) • Philippines 19 Feb 12

everybody wants, not only a long lasting relationship but, a happy relationship.. happy, not for the whole period of the relationship..but happy despite of the ups and downs, both are still holding each other.. but what if you...

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scottmitchell Uh, it's such a ridiculous situation, but it does happen sometimes. It would naturally be an inner fight accepting it, but there is no other option is there? Letting her go would be inevitable, but would take time.

20 Feb 12

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Love in the past

jeanpearl @jeanpearl (3) • Philippines 16 Feb 12

If you have a love in the past that still distracts you until now..will you go your way to find this person?

love

past

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scottmitchell No, as there are plenty of other ghetto talking, psychopathic, self-centered, self-proclaimed goddesses in the world if I so had the desire to add a tormenting annoyance to my life. :)

17 Feb 12

Delete photos after breaking up with someone?

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 12 Feb 12

Would you delete all photos after breaking up relationship with someone? I think some people would say it would be better deleting all those pictures so as not to bring back or remind us of all those painful memories. But i think...

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scottmitchell I like this response. Good idea

13 Feb 12

Delete photos after breaking up with someone?

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 12 Feb 12

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scottmitchell Well, if someone for example deceived me in the beginning for who she really is and waited until I gave my heart to start showing her personality disorders, insulting and cunning personality, etc (lol) it might be best to just delete everything as I realize I...

13 Feb 12

what determined you to start your current relationship?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 2 Feb 12

I'm just curious...we all have a reason that determines us to start a relationship: it might be boredoom, fear of loneliness( when you decide to start a relationship with someone aldo you don't really like that person just because...

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2 people

scottmitchell Just feeling the need to survive failure of something very dear. Needed love I guess

2 Feb 12

Guys, would you mind it if your girlfriend has mostly male friends?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 27 Feb 07

There are some guys who are way too jealous. They dont want to see their girlfriend hanging out with other guys. Could this be insecurity? What are your views on this? I'd really like to know...

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1 person

scottmitchell It's the trust that makes a relationship, even if things feel a little sketchy. Do you mind if your guy talks with other women friends? Just asking because usually people that want to do it, really hate it when the other does it. Just sayin...

2 Feb 12

Internet Relationships: How real can they get?

michan @michan (212) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Virtual relationships are now so common. This isn't just about love relationships. This includes friendships and everything. COuld a TRUE relationship on the Internet exist? What can you say about people involved in online love...

friendship

love

online relationships

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scottmitchell Just be careful if you think it could evolve into more. Ahh... the internet is awesome. I love it. But, don't go throwing your heart just to anything out there. I've learned...

2 Feb 12

My ex wrote me a letter. Should I write back?

thyst07 @thyst07 (2079) • United States 24 Feb 07

We broke up when I moved to a different state. I moved on fairly quickly- he still hasn't. We did say we'd keep in touch, but I'm not really sure what to say to him. He keeps talking about how he misses me and that if we hadn't...

boyfriend

distance

letters

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scottmitchell Yes, turn your back, regardless. If you notice a trend after 5 years or more, then look at yourself and just hope that it is possible for people to change

2 Feb 12

who can help me?

zhisheng2005 @zhisheng2005 (301) • China 16 Feb 07

I feel that I have fallen into love with agirl,of course I don't tell her I have that feeling. Beacause she has just part with her former boyfriend,I don't know how she feel and I don't dare to break the silence to speak out my...

love

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scottmitchell True, and words cut like a sword. I vote for "actions"

2 Feb 12

Doing the little things

charms88 @charms88 (7538) • Philippines 6 Mar 07

One stormy night many years ago, an elderly couple entered the lobby of a small hotel and asked for a room. The clerk explained that because there were three conventions in town, the hotel was filled. The clek, who lived in...

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scottmitchell Yes, humans have generally had to design many words that start with "self" Selfish, self-centered, self-justifying, etc

2 Feb 12

What is love?

jigishap @jigishap (595) • India 26 Feb 07

Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.

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scottmitchell Imagine someone saying they will forever love their partner and their partner is perfect and saying they can always resolve things for the strong love they share and then in the same day, hmm.... they end it. It would be ridiculous, no? I like your answer...

2 Feb 12

What is the 1 most important thing you've learned from past/present relationship

samsonskola @samsonskola (3357) • United States 23 Feb 07

What do you think is the one most important thing you have learned either from a past relationship or a present one? Why do you feel that one thing is the most important?

life

love

relationships

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scottmitchell Yes, true. At least try to reconcile. Imagine a girlfriend or boyfriend pointing out faults every day. The other would REALLY have to love you to stay in that.

2 Feb 12

How jealous are you!!?? EX-GIRLFRIENDS.

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 4 Mar 07

Sometimes I think about my husbands exgirlfriend and get very jealous. I do it because I have bad self esteem, and then I accuse him of wanting his ex girlfriend more than me. They were even together for three years, and I've only...

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scottmitchell I'm glad to see someone with your strong opinion of this matter. I agree with all you say. A girlfriend would only drive him crazy with accusations always when he decided to love her and give his heart.

2 Feb 12

Have you reached your life's dreams?

successcmc @successcmc (107) • United States 4 Mar 07

There are so many things to do in life - so many challenges. For example, our goals are being healthier and happier every day, becoming financially free, more in love, helping others to achieve their dreams as well? Where are you...

achieving

lifes dreams

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scottmitchell I can't even imagine where such perfected processes would have landed you after 5 years. If not to the goal yet, you will be. You're amazingly smart and talented

2 Feb 12

Is it better to blend in or to stick out?

reaperz @reaperz (1266) • United States 10 Mar 07

What I mean by this is, if everyone all agrees on something, would you agree with them even though your opinion is different? Alot of people out there would choose to blend in with the crowd. Right? I probaly would too. What would...

blending in

sticking out

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scottmitchell :)

2 Feb 12

what is your lifes greatst dream

ranikrishnan @ranikrishnan (1683) • India 21 Jun 07

everyone have a dream, big or small. but i feel sharing it will keep us inspired and thinking of it more often. share this dream of urs. as for me i want to become a world famous writer known to bringing about great changes in the...

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scottmitchell Awesome dream. I can relate. Hopefully, since this post 5 years ago you met someone that wants to help inspire you with that always. Better yet, hopefully you met someone that makes YOU his inspiration and you both will never let go of what you have.

2 Feb 12

how much age gap is there between you and your partner?

xquisite @xquisite (156) • United States 24 Jun 07

me and my bf are 3 years apart, him being older. it's really nice cuz he knows what he's doing, and i still feel lil immature at times. how about you? are you the same age as your partner, or are you older/younger? how do you like...

age

generation gap

relationships

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scottmitchell True and women are more mature than men, normally so I'm sure that worked well. Us men are like kids well into our 40's maybe. :D

2 Feb 12