shanty2nov

@shanty2nov (12)

India • Age 39

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I can't meet my mom's satisfaction.....

xylee112201 @xylee112201 (108) • Philippines 11 Jan 07

Sometimes i hate being the only child in the family...coz i'm the only one to be expected to be like this and that, to do this and that... For all my growing up years, i believed that things you wanted to do should be upon your...

family

mom and daughter

relationships

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shanty2nov Its nothiin to worry,quite natural.Everybody goes through such emotions while growing up.And you might also argue in the very same manner with your daughter hwen she reaches your age.Try to supress your anger and churn uot something positive from such...

12 Jan 07

god

sandy70 @sandy70 (26) • India 11 Jan 07

Did God create man or man created God.I think man created God.As we became civilized, we felt the need for having a superior all powerful concept that has answers to all our questions and someone who will punish those who will not...

who created god

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shanty2nov Well i firmly believe in the idea forewarded by Erich Von Daniken.As per his book 'In Search of Ancient Gods' he introduced the concept with proper evidence that--gods was nothing but interspace travellers or in more user friendly language 'aliens'.He studied...

12 Jan 07

At what point do you throw away your pencil?

brokentia @brokentia (10389) • United States 11 Jan 07

I had to laugh at my son!!! He has this OCD pack rat thing. He doesn't want to throw anything away. So, periodically, I have to help him go through his closet and throw away the usless things. This is common occurance with my...

pack rat

pencil

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shanty2nov Well i was exactly like your son when i was a kid and to some extend i still prefer keeping things even after they have lost their utility a long time ago. Reason for such a behaviour??? I dont have the slightest clue.My mom used to clean my room when i went...

12 Jan 07

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do you like being alone?

gexi1987 @gexi1987 (329) • China 11 Jan 07

i have once consider myself as a person afraid of being alone.when friends or family is getting together,i alway have fun and the sense of security.but recently i feel myself prefer to be alone.i indefatigablly spend eight hours a...

people

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shanty2nov Well if you feel like bein alone than its god for you.But,ideally speaking it shouldn't be the case.A person is best defined by his interactions with the outer world and other persons.If possible you should do away with this habit and indulge in activities...

11 Jan 07

I am a 22 years old girl , I have problem in relationships , Ask for help !

kotad6 @kotad6 (209) • Pakistan 11 Jan 07

I am a 22-years-old girl, I together with my boy-friend for about one year. But recently I feel our feelings and notions go far and far. The same thing we always have different ideas. The day before yesterday,i even seen him with...

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shanty2nov First be confirmed about the fact if he's ur boyfriend.Now consider the fact that if he can cheat upon you then you can also cheat upon him.Dont indulge yourself in relationship hangovers.Be brave and firm about whom you should love and whom you shouldn't.If...

11 Jan 07

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What do you usually do on your birthday?

emilieespino @emilieespino (963) • Philippines 11 Jan 07

Do you go out with friends, hold a party, or just spend it quietly? It's my birthday today. I didn't plan anything at all. It seems I've reached the point when it's not that special anymore like when you were a kid. Just said my...

birthdays

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shanty2nov It depends on your age.Someone of my age will party as hard as possible.ButI feel the ideal way is to evaluate the past yr in terms of mistakes,good n bad deeds,people to whom u ve been nice to and vice-versa,loosened commitments(if any)...and obviously learn...

11 Jan 07

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When the friend of your partner makes passes at you...

Shar11 @Shar11 (419) • United States 11 Jan 07

What would you do if the best friend of your spouse or partner made inappropriate advances towards you? Would you tell your partner? Or would you simply just tell the friend it's unacceptable and threaten to tell your partner...

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shanty2nov first of all one should tell the friend its simply unacceptable and if he still persists with his advances then threaten to tell your partner should they do it again.If anyone initiated such advances towards me,I will shower more love and effection for my...

11 Jan 07

Do you beleive that a woman can love both two guys at the same time?

cachekitten @cachekitten (463) • Philippines 10 Jan 07

I am married now...I love my husband. We are almost 4 years living together but until he cant apply to work and i am the one working for our family.He always go to gambling and drinkling.I know he loves me,we dont have kids...

guys

love

woman

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shanty2nov Dont switch relationships.At the end of the day you will remain empty-handed staring at two defeated relationships.....one of a loving,but irresponsible husband and the other a virtual relationship without any positive realistic hope for the future. Be with...

11 Jan 07

If you dream.....you can realise it

shanty2nov @shanty2nov (12) • India 11 Jan 07

many of us live in a virtual life..... ..a life that we feel never existed nor could ever exist.Most of us live their usual life....earning,marrying,kids,..etc.But what about the dream that filled your mind once.I ask the...

I'm confused about what to do in my relationship... plz help.. thx

dragonflyfli @dragonflyfli (5528) • United States 10 Jan 07

I am married for a year now. We had a wonderful relationship and 2 babies. totally in love. He got a new job but it sucks . not like we thought it was going to be. good oportunity turned bad. Its caused stress in our...

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shanty2nov Your first priority at this hour should be your baby.The fact that you are having trouble with your relatoinship should not interfere with the pleasures of motherhood.The yet to be born is the future.Now comming back to your marriage,if your hubby is creating...

11 Jan 07