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shar_25 responded to a discussion called Do you care about your pillows? in health.
1 month ago
I sunbathe my pillow regularly and also change my pillow cover quite frequently its a good practice for hygiene issues. I do not have any such allergy problems thankfully. But still I replace my pillow in every 6-8 months, when it becomes sort of flat and I do not feel comfortable sleeping on it.

shar_25 commented in a discussion called "Books and Friends should be few and good"...Do you agree? in friend.
1 month ago
I think all of us have faced this situation at least sometimes in the life. I too have been a victim of getting back stabbed by people I thought were friends a lot of times. I too became cautious and very choosy when it comes to making friends. Even than, there still have been occasional disappointments even now. I think its very difficult to judge people! Thanks for your response.

shar_25 commented in a discussion called "Books and Friends should be few and good"...Do you agree? in friend.
1 month ago
You are lucky to have a few close friends. Totally agree with you, respect and understanding are the base of every relationship. Thanks for responding.

shar_25 commented in a discussion called "Books and Friends should be few and good"...Do you agree? in friend.
1 month ago
Its all about give and take. You are right in saying that when you expect a certain qualities in a friend, you should have the ability to meet his or her expectations too. Thanks for responding

shar_25 commented in a discussion called "Books and Friends should be few and good"...Do you agree? in friend.
1 month ago
Thanks for your response Sid. Well even I don not get the connection with books, but the quotation is like that.

shar_25 commented in a discussion called "Books and Friends should be few and good"...Do you agree? in friend.
1 month ago
Thanks for your response, thea.

shar_25 commented in a discussion called "Books and Friends should be few and good"...Do you agree? in friend.
1 month ago
You are one of the rare few who has the guts to admit that the fault might be from your side too. You aren't just blaming it on the people who go away from you. That is really very appreciable!! Thanks for the response.[em]happy[/em]

shar_25 commented in a discussion called "Books and Friends should be few and good"...Do you agree? in friend.
1 month ago
So well said. Thanks for your response. Rwrathall.[em]happy[/em]

shar_25 commented in a discussion called What is that one wish you have.... in questions & answers.
1 month ago
I can understand your pain of staying away from your husband. Although there are no genies in real life, I still pray for your wish to come true!!! Thanks for the response.

shar_25 commented in a discussion called What is that one wish you have.... in questions & answers.
1 month ago
Genie or no genie, may your wish come true. Is that online friend reading this!!!! [em]happy[/em] Thanks for responding.

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Sashmira
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4 years ago
I like her very much as a friend, she is very helpful and kind as a person, though we haven't met each other personally yet, we met on net but I am quiet sure she is a sweet girl overall..:)
Sashmira

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Interest Rankings are a way to measure how well myLot users are perceived by the community within a particular interest.

How can I view my interest rankings?
Interest rankings can be viewed on your profile page. You can get to your profile page by clicking the link below your avatar on the left menu. Once you are on your profile page, click on "my interest rankings" in the left menu.

If you have not already made changes to your profile page, you can also find your interest rankings in the right side of your profile page under the section titled "my interest rankings".

If you don't see the section on the right side of your profile, you can add it by following these steps:

Click on the "edit profile" button on the left menu.
Click on "add content" in the upper right.
Now in the first drop-down box, select "Sortie".
In the second drop-down box, select "Interest Rankings".
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Select the column within the container where you want it to display and click "add item".
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Level - This is a calculation based on your ranking for this interest compared to everyone else who is ranked in this interest. The more positive ratings your discussion responses receive from other users, the higher your level will be, compared to other users in this interest. The higher your level, the better.
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The best way to increase your Interest Rankings is to contribute positively and often to discussions within a particular interest.

Note that Interest Rankings are calculated once a day, so you may not see changes for up to one day.