shell2784 started a new discussion called Well... in people.
6 days ago
My 2 girlfriends that I have talked about previously have informed me that they will stay thru the winter - but only because they all ready got the fuel tank filled. At 33 years old (daughter - has NEVER had a job, SSI employee, so to speak) and 49 years old (mom... started collecting ssi when she had the daughter) they can't handle the responsibility of getting 2 or 3 days a week. So come s...

shell2784 responded to a discussion called I love my parents! in family.
1 week ago
I sure as heck didn't have a close relationship with my parents during my teenage years either... or really before that as they divorced when i was young... and pretty much just fought after it too. We've gone to hell and back mea nd my mom as well as me and my dad. We went months and even a year i believe without speaking, the whole nine yards. My Mom and I are the best of girfriends now! W...

shell2784 responded to a discussion called She wishes to have another baby in family.
1 week ago
Regardless of my financial situation, I want 2 children and only two children. Whenever I have my 2nd one I'm getting tied together or whatever they do (lol) never to give birth again. One child is pretty hectic... but then at two kids there's a parent for each kid... so still pretty hectic, but manageable. Then you get to three kids? The oldest one has decided to see if the burners really d...

shell2784 responded to a discussion called Make long love life in relationships.
1 week ago
I think that making a long love life is more work than people are ready for. I know I'm 25, and my generation, I feel, expects everything to more or less be handed to them and easy. When they encounter problems in their relationship, instead of working thru them with their partner, they end it instead. My husband and I have only been together a short time. But we know that in order to keep o...

shell2784 responded to a discussion called Moms, this one's for you! in mother.
6 days ago
I know that after just the contractions with Joslynn making me want to scream I was NEVER going to try and do it without medications... and they got me medicated just in time (thank god) b/c I really don't think that I could have pushed for 4 hours without them!!I'll take a dozen syringe needles before I'll attempt it naturally! lol

shell2784 commented in a discussion called Fords, Chevys, Dodge, Toyota????.
1 week ago
I know what you mean with feeling the power of a motor! We have a 7.3L Deisel Ford and I LOVE it! I joke with my husband all the time that I fell in love with his truck first so I decided to give him a try:) It sounds like you don't have it anymore? What did you up/down grade to? lol

shell2784 commented in a discussion called Well... in people.
6 days ago
If you'd like an ear full - then by all means put in a friend request. lol

shell2784 commented in a discussion called Well... in people.
5 days ago
Yeah I agree. I think I'm going to tell them that I can't afford for them to do laundry down here anymore - and i think I'm going to enjoy MY car a little bit more. And a few other things. It may be for the best in the end. But the reasons she gave me were just... I don't know. She said "its not convenient for my friends to come here" Its 10 miles from where she lived before - she wants to g...

shell2784 received a best response in the discussion Putting ourselves in another's place. by Pose123.
3 days ago
Okay - well this is getting a littler personal. But based on the first few lines... about putting yourself in someone else's shoes kind of thing.... a few years back I dated this guy who just happened to be on parole.... but anyway, we were together a few months and things just weren't working and one day he decided to pick me up and slam me on the ground... against my wishes his step father ca...

shell2784 received a best response in the discussion Abusive relationships: When to just say "when"! by rogue13xmen13.
1 week ago
Without reading your post - your title "when to just say 'when'"... is the exact moment you're being treated like sh!t and feeling as if you're being emotionally abused. Honey... I've been there. And the day that the lightbulb kicks on in your head and says.... hmmm - he's lieing a lot, and he's really been putting me down, about everyhing. He's picking fights about absolutly nothing... " Its n...