shikiraclare

@shikiraclare (79)

Age 50

Joined myLot 14 years ago

Life is like a box of chocolates, you don't know what your going to get

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Looking on Ebay for a car

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 19 Jun 10

I thought that i would take a look on Ebay for a small car for my daughter,something like a KA, corsa or even a clio.I noticed that there were more classified ads than there were private sellers, hence hardly any cars to bid...

bids

car dealers

cars sale

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shikiraclare Hi there again, I've been reading all the posts for your discussion and even though ebay is great for brilliant cheap deals, I would never buy a car from there for two very good reasons: 1) Could be a stolen vehicle and if anything went wrong with it...

28 Jun 10

what 'd u do If u woke in middle of the night & found someone hovering over u?

Crazy_Poster @Crazy_Poster (751) • India 28 Jun 10

What would you do if you woke up in the middle of the nigh and you found someone hovering you,watching you? As per my opinion, even If it was my mother,father or sister I would still scream,I do not normally scream but in this...

night

scary

watching

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shikiraclare I really enjoy reading and responding to your discussions, they are so entertaining. This is what happened to me ten years ago and is a true story: I lived in Canada for six months with a boyfriend and we stayed at his grandmother's house in Toronto that...

28 Jun 10

Are you scared of spiders???

Rosie @rosie230 (1696) 28 Jun 10

I am sitting here contemplating going to the bathroom (had too much water - you get my meaning!!), but contemplating because, my son rushed out the bathroom telling me that there was a big black spider that has just...

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shikiraclare Hi there again, I'm laughing at your situation right now, but only because I know what it feels like to be bursting for the loo and you can't go because of some creepy crawly. Spiders are okay if they are not striped orange and black - then I would most...

28 Jun 10

I'm experiencing a massive change in our relationship

chaycekhithi @chaycekhithi (27) 28 Jun 10

When we are just boyfriend and girlfriend. we we're so Happy. as in super happy. We talk a lot, we love being with each other everyday, we laugh and cry together, we always go out to the mall, we show each other how much we love...

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shikiraclare What a painful situation to be in? I definitely agree that talking can help resolve some things between you both as well as bridge some gaps that have been left wide open since you have had your baby. It is a known fact that men can feel threatened and/or...

28 Jun 10

Do you bare a grudge?

Rosie @rosie230 (1696) 28 Jun 10

I am for the most part a very laid back person. Many friends of mine over the years have even commented on that, by telling me that if I continued to be a laid back person that I would actually fall over lol... but no...

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shikiraclare I don't really hold any grudges but I have done in the past for some things but then it just eats away at your energies so it doesn't achieve anything in the end. Just recently though I was in the process of buying a second-hand sofa from a friend of mine...

28 Jun 10

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What's in your bag?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 22 Jun 10

Not to pry or anything. Lol. Just curious... My duty bag contains: My cell, wallet, keys, f.powder, l.gloss, tissue, c.free, t.brush, steth, bp ap, dig. thermometer, penlight, bandage scissors, band aid, white flower, salonpas,...

bag

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shikiraclare What don't I carry in my bag? - Everything but the kitchen sink! Mostly the contents of my shoulder bag contain basic essentials like my house keys, phone and bottle of water but I also put my mail in it if I haven't got time to open it at home, so is often...

28 Jun 10

some parents never learn at all.

syankee525 @syankee525 (6261) • United States 28 Jun 10

last night we found out our nephew put a gun to his head but lucky enough his dad had called him in time, and stopped him. to feel you in about my nephew life. mom and dad had him out of wed lock. when he was growing up both...

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shikiraclare Surprisingly, not all children do turn out like their parents as they grow up but in this case, it seems likely that your nephew is reacting to the relationship issues between his parents and behaving the way he does as a cry for help? Extended families are...

28 Jun 10

why is it?

annabel_nov @annabel_nov (85) • Philippines 27 Jun 10

why is it that some people likes to gossip? why is it that some people likes to create story to malign a person? are you that kind of person? do you want to discredit the integrity of a person by creating a story? how will you...

gossip

question and answers

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shikiraclare There is innocent idle talk and there is malicious gossip - It's important to note the two differences as not all talk is meant as harm to another person. Someone who just likes to ramble for the sake of it and about anything and everything, are often just...

28 Jun 10

i failed in my exam..i am depressed now..

vinothkumar08 @vinothkumar08 (474) • India 28 Jun 10

guys i failed in one of my exams.. i feeling depressed.. i feel like my life becoming dark, so can you help me out. give me some inspiration so that i can do better in my future exams ...

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shikiraclare The Great thing for you is that you have another chance to resit them in the near future, so this means being better prepared. In all Exams it's important to keep looking at the question whilst you are writing and always make small notes on a separate piece...

28 Jun 10

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How Are You Earning Money?

BizzyB @BizzyB (58) • United States 26 Jun 10

I would like to know how others are earning money today, especially through this economy. I've earned money and continue to earn through a variety of things I do, other than my primary job. Visit Bizzy B's Freebie Finds, the...

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shikiraclare I am registered with dooyoo - a review site that is simple and free to register, but you need to do a lot of writing to get the monetary rewards, I earned the maximum £50 ($100) last month but it took me about six weeks to write all the reviews, but they are...

27 Jun 10

what activities do you do when sadness sets in?

Crazy_Poster @Crazy_Poster (751) • India 26 Jun 10

Generally I cant see Sadness in my family members and my friends' eyes. So It also has impact on me and my life.Generally In this kind of situation I always try to keep myself busy in some work or activities.Generally, I watch...

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shikiraclare It's really amazing to hear from a man who has such strong feelings, it makes you so much more of a man than many ego-status types who are cruel and often enjoy seeing people in pain, so it is really refreshing and honest of you to discuss things on this site...

27 Jun 10

Children and Television

Babygirl198400 @Babygirl198400 (11) • Canada 27 Jun 10

Do you feel parents are relying way to much on television to raise their children? Being a parent myself I know of several parents who sit there children infront of the television ALL DAY I don't mind letting my child watch some...

children

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shikiraclare Any caring parent would limit their children watching television to at least 4/5 hours per day (split into morning and afternoon)- certainly no more than this when children are creative and need interaction through stimulating activities. However, I imagine...

27 Jun 10

Do you think footballers wages worth millions of dollars a year?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 16 Mar 10

I agree,they are talented, work hard to reach high performance, work to remain on top, but somehow is not to much to pay so many millions for running after a ball? Do you think they really deserve such high salaries, when...

make money

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shikiraclare Any financial reward for a talent should not always come in the form of unquenchable numbers of money; footballers are skilled strikers and defenders and have been around ever since the sinking of the Titanic in 1914 in England at least (don't know about...

27 Jun 10

I know that it was naughty but....

oldchem1 @oldchem1 (8132) 27 Jun 10

...I just couldn't resist picking up one of our nightly hedgehog visitors!! I couldn't remember if I had filled the water trough up in our hedgehog house and when I went to check I found this little visitor. I had to give it...

handling

hedgehog

spikes

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shikiraclare It's great that you have uploaded a picture of Mr Spike! - i's like to know how to do this myself when I am discussing something equally as interesting? I get very sentimental over creatures of all kinds, I even picked up a moth today by the wing and set...

27 Jun 10

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Would you change your given name? If so, what would you change it to and why?

StephanieAnnC @StephanieAnnC (4274) • United States 24 Jun 10

Sometimes, I hate my name. I just feel like it's so...boring. Then again, it could be worse. I would pick something unique or maybe pick a name that is common, but with a different spelling. [b]So, if you had the chance to...

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shikiraclare I did change my name about ten years ago now because I didn't like my first name (Clare) so have kept this and use as my middle name instead so haven't stopped using it, just prefer to keep it somewhere in the middle! It cost something like £30 for me to...

27 Jun 10

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Why Ireland has NO SNAKES... is it Magic, or simple NATURE's trick?

consultrainer @consultrainer (4992) • India 26 Jun 10

I know, it is surprising to most .. who have read the information about Saint Patrick, and his CHARMING and commanding the snakes to cast themselves into sea. There are also scientific explanations about this. Now, this...

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shikiraclare The mythical Irish Snake has always been a Celtic invention often inscribed on tomb stones and building structures during the time that Vikings had come to claim parts of the country but didn't succeed. Ireland does have garter snakes just as Britain does...

26 Jun 10

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What Were Your Favourite Books as a Child?

karen1969 @karen1969 (1779) 26 Jun 10

What were your favourite books as a child? I loved reading and remember going to the library with my Mum. I would often borrow The Very Hungry Caterpillar and the Ant and Bee books in the 1970s and early 1980s. Once I got into...

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shikiraclare I've finally joined! - how do I add you to my friendship list? Also to answer your question, I really enjoyed reading Topsy and Turvy (I think that is what they were called) but went out of circulation after the early eighties. Most of the books I read were...

26 Jun 10

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