shiqimeng

@shiqimeng (25)

China • Age 35

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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destiny or choice??

reanne @reanne (83) 24 Feb 09

do you believe in destiny or choice in loving a person?

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shiqimeng Since i haven't got a boyfriend now ,i believe my Mr.Right is just waiting for me somewhere .I believe destiny,somehow.

24 Feb 09

Why are there so many versions of IELTS

Dadexter @Dadexter (438) • Pakistan 21 Feb 09

I am preparing for IELTS Test. And i have found IELTS books on the net. There various versions of IELTS (IELTS 1, IELTS 2, IELTS 3, IELTS 4....) Whats the reason, why are there all these versions? Should I follow only the latest...

english

english language proficiency

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shiqimeng The Cambridge version ,my teacher let me buy that version .I'm a university student ,if you are the same level with me ,buy it ,haha!

22 Feb 09

Will you love a fat girl ?

shiqimeng @shiqimeng (25) • China 14 Feb 09

Many persons say that appearance is not that important but will you love a fat girl ? I'm tired of losing weight and i just want to be a fat but happy girl .But it isn't easy /

fat girl losing weight love

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shiqimeng Thank you so much that when i saw what you wrote here for me .I'm really encouraged by what you said . Yes ,you are right i must love myself first ! To be happy ,to be confident ,to love myself ! Happy mylot!

22 Feb 09

State of your state

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 20 Feb 09

For all you who live in the US how is your state doing? We're in trouble in Oregon, now the Governor wants the school teachers to work for nothing for five days. Would you do that for your state? Aren't you just a little put off...

questions and answers

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shiqimeng Maybe the economic stimulous plan is just on the way helping all the Americans ,so ,don' worry about it

20 Feb 09

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Feeling better.

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28717) • United States 20 Feb 09

Have you ever been really sick, and then one day you wake up and suddenly you're perfectly fine? I've been pretty sick since Tuesday. It started off as a bad sore throat, then my ears began to hurt, and my neck where my lymph...

feeling better

sick

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shiqimeng very glad to hear that you are feeling better now ! You said it was astonishing that you felt like you were never sick at all .Yes ,i often have that feeling after i recover from bad cold or something .Our body system is really magic !haha Wish you...

20 Feb 09

Is friendship really lifelong?

ronyronyrony @ronyronyrony (12) • India 19 Feb 09

We make friends to be with us forever ,but does that actually happen! Do u think friendship becomes situatonal after a certain period or atleast in certain cases if not always . Why does this thing happen ? Why do people whome we...

friend first or me first

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shiqimeng The friendship itself will absulotely be not changed during time .But the relationship between friends will changed during time .For me ,if i haven't kept touch with my close friends for long time ,i will feel an atmosphere of uncomfortablity with him or her...

20 Feb 09

Friend . . . Enemy

sanctified @sanctified (151) • Philippines 12 Feb 09

Everybody needs a friend, we all could agree with that, but don't you think we also need an enemy? Well, I have attended a "How to be successful" seminar and the speaker surprisingly mentioned that we need enemy as much as we need...

enemy

friend

success

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shiqimeng I'm not sure .Friends are important to me .But i really don't know whether i need an enemy in my life to stimulous me working harder ?

20 Feb 09

Is IQ important?

dik_an @dik_an (475) • Malaysia 20 Feb 09

Hello myLotter! I did my IQ test few years ago to count my Intelligent Quotient and already forgot :D. I do not know what exactly the meaning of IQ but what I know is, the higher your IQ, the smarter you are. I do not believe...

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shiqimeng Hard work is as important as IQ,i think . For me ,i am not that smart or talented ,but ,i tried my best when i was in senior school and finally i was accepted by a famous university in our country . So if one works hard in his or her study ,he or she...

20 Feb 09

do you need money to be happy??

GAUCI123 @GAUCI123 (1042) • Malta 17 Feb 09

Well sometimes I think, money is everything, you cannot do nothing without money. However I feel that being rich dosen't mean that you are happy and have all what you need. I see very rich people that are depressed, and they don't...

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shiqimeng well,it's really hard to say .Money is so important but it can not offer us all the happiness. Just to be a happy and wealthy person is the best ,haha

19 Feb 09

Will you love a fat girl ?

shiqimeng @shiqimeng (25) • China 14 Feb 09

Many persons say that appearance is not that important but will you love a fat girl ? I'm tired of losing weight and i just want to be a fat but happy girl .But it isn't easy /

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shiqimeng yes ,love is everything ,but i still can not find my true love and i always wonder if it is because i'm too fat ,hah ~

19 Feb 09

Will you love a fat girl ?

shiqimeng @shiqimeng (25) • China 14 Feb 09

Many persons say that appearance is not that important but will you love a fat girl ? I'm tired of losing weight and i just want to be a fat but happy girl .But it isn't easy /

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shiqimeng yes ,you are right ,just to be what you are and who you are ~i will . Wish you happy with your boyfriend !

19 Feb 09

new and creative ways to loose weight

tracie1758 @tracie1758 (507) • United States 19 Feb 09

so the boring and every day ways to loose weight aren't working for me. i need to find some new ways. i am starting today by lunging every where i walk in the house. followed by stair sprints this after noon while my daughter...

weight loss

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shiqimeng i'm a fat girl ,hah !In the long fight against the weight ,i find that there is only one efficient way to lose weight -to eat less ! Four months ago ,in November ,yes ,i started lose my weight at the beginning of November .I almost ate one banana one day...

19 Feb 09

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How often do you exercise?

jaymeeliz @jaymeeliz (505) • Philippines 19 Feb 09

I exercise everyday, seven days a week. I used to be overweight and so out of condition, now my day isn't complete when I don't exercise. Now I have been feeling such a great improvement in my health. I also find that exercising...

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shiqimeng Almost never recent days !haha,but when i go back to school i will exercise twice a week for i will attend PE class in college ,so i am so lazy and i am always a fat girl !But i don't really care.No matter how often you exercise or whether you exercise ,health...

19 Feb 09

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Will you get married with a person you don't love?

Jennyaijua @Jennyaijua (85) • China 19 Feb 09

I have a friend,the girl he loves has gotten married with another man,so he married a girl he does't love.He even does't like to talk with his wife though she loves him so much.In order to get rid of his pain,he often got...

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shiqimeng No, never !Love is the most important thing in my life .I will never marry anyone that i don't love even when i am in trouble .Nowadays a lot of girls around me get married with the rich men who are even as old as their fathers or someone they never fall in...

19 Feb 09

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I need your help guys. I'm totally in need of encouragemment.

jamborieman @jamborieman (563) • Philippines 18 Feb 09

Well... guys I really need your help. I think this happened to a lot of people already. Right now, I'm so confused on what course to take... I'm totally confused. Were you confused to when you were in college ? I'm failing one of...

college

course

help

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shiqimeng Don't worry about it .Just smile ,just give yourself a big smile . The sunshine is always appearing after the rain .So everything will just pass away . What you have to do is to find the course that really fits your interests and then focuses on what you are...

19 Feb 09

Where should she sleep?

berbar @berbar (17) • United States 17 Feb 09

My daughter is eight years old, and gets scared of the dark. She sleeps in her own bed here at home, and seems to be getting used to it, but when she stays at her fathers house on the weekends she sleeps in his bed with him,...

scared sleeping

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shiqimeng You don't have to tell her dad about it .When i was little ,i had the same situation with your daughter .I didn't sleep alone in my room until 10 years old for i was scared of the dark . Now i am 22 years old and am a university student .It doesm't matter...

19 Feb 09

i feel so guilty....

maissj @maissj (111) • Philippines 18 Feb 09

my husband and i were married for almost 5 years now, and we are happy and still in love with each other, my husband is a very wonderful guy, understanding and thoughtful and he's always trying his best to make me happy, but these...

guilt

help

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shiqimeng Don't be too worried about it .Just take it easy .Everyone will have a awkward time ,you know .They will feel upset ,worried .Don't take it seriously . What you have to do is to have a good nap and to cook for your husband and then say "i love you "to him...

19 Feb 09

what is your favorite place in this world?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 17 Feb 09

I believe that many of us had traveled to other countries, besides the states. So, what is your favorite place you ever been to other than your state home? My favorite place is China. It is a developing country, and I can see it...

places

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shiqimeng Of course the place i like best is my hometown Dandong .It is a beautiful and quiet small city at the north of China .Though i am in Beijing now ,i never think that Beijing is better than my home .Home can offer me the most comfortable climate and living place...

17 Feb 09