@shubh1937 on myLot

trish32 @trish32 (1471) • United States 7 Jul 08

I've noticed a rash of what I consider to be abusive behavior involving parents, particularly mothers, and their very young children, infants, even. One instance was a young mother, who appeared to be a teenager, slapping her...

abusive parents

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shubh1937 Thank you for your clarification.Now I understand it better. Yes, Younger generation in all fields are impatient so as in parenting.I do not blame them.The whole atmosphere is vitiated.Life has become dificult and stressful. -------maybe they became parents...

14 Jul 08

trish32 @trish32 (1471) • United States 7 Jul 08

I've noticed a rash of what I consider to be abusive behavior involving parents, particularly mothers, and their very young children, infants, even. One instance was a young mother, who appeared to be a teenager, slapping her...

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shubh1937 You may have experienced such cases but pl. do not generalise your conclusions.

14 Jul 08

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esantos @esantos (21) • United States 12 Oct 07

I have a friend who gets abused physically and mentally by her husband. He swore he would change many times. He still hasn't. Should she stay with him in hopes of his change or leave him.

wife

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shubh1937 Leave him. Immediately. He is a habitrual liar.He knows he can not survive without her and thats why pretends he will change.This is a kind of emotional backmailing.Your friend falls prey to his acting . He is a hopeless case and your friend is nursing wrong...

14 Jul 08

cream97 @cream97 (29087) • United States 13 Jul 08

My husband talks about God over and over.. He says that he spends so much time with God. And that I don't . He says that he is not an abusive person. He says that God did not make him to be abusive.. He called him by his first...

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shubh1937 I call her stupid becuse after she mises him, loves him after all that has heppened ok I am really sorry - I should call her emotional fool. OK.

13 Jul 08

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m18j7crystal @m18j7crystal (184) 26 Jun 08

I just wanna know...

why

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shubh1937 because it is inherent nature of man/woman. There would be no progress if people aren satisfied way they are. No TV, NO Computer, No car, No freeze, no promotions in the job....

13 Jul 08

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 12 Jul 08

My typical day begins at around 7:30 AM. I seldom sleep past that time, even on the weekends. Once in a while I sleep past that time and this morning I got up at 9:30 AM. For me that's quite late and since I was having company...

life

mornings

people

questions and answers

sleeping

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shubh1937 Discipline in life is good but then change too is good.If you once in awhile sleep lste nothing wrong in it. Sleep depends on so many factors.Take advantage of week ends most people do that.Nothing unusual in it.Do not let such trifle matters upset you.

13 Jul 08

cream97 @cream97 (29087) • United States 13 Jul 08

My husband talks about God over and over.. He says that he spends so much time with God. And that I don't . He says that he is not an abusive person. He says that God did not make him to be abusive.. He called him by his first...

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shubh1937 believe me he has no information, he is just trying to put fear in you. Barking dogs do not bite.You are stupid, foolish lady to say you love him. What's wrong with you dear ceam97 ? (I am sorry to use these words )Leave him at once.Go to police and complain....

13 Jul 08

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bellaofchaos @bellaofchaos (11538) • United States 7 Jul 08

Ok I want to know what is the first think that attracts you to a person? Is it only looks? Is it a combo of looks and something else. Please do tell!!!

attraction

attractions

drawing you near to them

friends

love

relationships

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shubh1937 Yes. let me say first thing I notice is looks.Pleasent,smiling, relaxed look- not beautiful or handsome in customary meaning but than so many other factors determine my connection and urge to establish reletionship. Common Interest,readinnes to help,sharing my...

8 Jul 08

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 7 Jul 08

As you may or may not have noticed, I have been absent from mylot for a short time. It wasn't anything to do with the site, but rather more on a personal level. I was going through some difficult times and there were several...

absence

friends

thank you

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shubh1937 I am fine. Thank you for asking.It is indded nice of you to say Thank You I Hope you are back to to your old self.Maybe very near it -but now that he journey has started you will reach soon.Frankly I am new and and have not mised you for the simple reason that...

8 Jul 08

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poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 2 Jul 08

I have a friend and whenever she's bored, she loves to take my mobile phone and look at the text messages and photos inside. Initially, I was quite uncomfortable with it as I thought that's invasion of privacy. However, after a...

friend

text messages

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shubh1937 Not without my express permission. Without it , it is bad manners and I will very plainly/Bluntlky/franklly tell him/her that.

3 Jul 08

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sunying @sunying (74) • China 22 May 08

Have you ever been cheated or berayed by your friends? What will you do when you are cheated?Will you forgive him or her?Would you like to share your answer here?

friend

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shubh1937 NINE times out of ten I will break friendship.I will ot experiment after cheated once.Habits die hard and his habit of Cheating will continue even if I forgive him.With one I will continue if I know reasons why he cheated and only if I find him reasonable. I...

3 Jul 08

cjgrooms @cjgrooms (4456) • United States 30 Jun 08

This is a hypothetical question. If someone has always been hateful and nasty to you for years and all of a sudden they started acting nice would you trust them? I think that i am a cynic because i would be suspicious until they...

trust

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shubh1937 Generally virtues and vices of a person does not leave him.They both ( Person and his charactar) survive toigethjer but sometimes only sometimes people change, due to their selfish motives or your neceesity to him, or due to realistion.But be cautious,test him...

3 Jul 08

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Balozi @Balozi (243) • Kenya 2 Jul 08

Can someone tell me, what is the right size of a matrimonial bed? A 4*6', 5*6', 6*6' or 8*6'? You see the it all arises from the possibilities of when you can't see eye to and one has to put up on the sofa in the living room. If...

bedroom gimmicks

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shubh1937 Never carry on a fight overnight.Bed and bed actrivity should be used to resolve it.New connection will have unknown and maybe bigger problems so go on with the same person and problem, at least you know what is in store.

2 Jul 08

Balozi @Balozi (243) • Kenya 2 Jul 08

Can someone tell me, what is the right size of a matrimonial bed? A 4*6', 5*6', 6*6' or 8*6'? You see the it all arises from the possibilities of when you can't see eye to and one has to put up on the sofa in the living room. If...

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shubh1937 Please let me know your size ( both of you ) than only I can say.

2 Jul 08

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sisco100 @sisco100 (2338) • United States 12 Apr 08

have u ever had a threesome, and wht was it u and two girls, u two guy,( both or men and woman)

sex

threesom

threesome

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shubh1937 Why do U want 2 know? anyway we were 3 of M M M OR G G G of diffrent age.

2 Jul 08

Klarenz @Klarenz (261) • Philippines 5 Jun 08

What if you caught your partner cheating on you? What will you do? Do you still love him or her after that?

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shubh1937 Depends 1. What is motive behind partnership 2. Are you financially independent 3. Do you have children. ~~~~~~~~~~Loving is out of question, living with is after considerations of above us possible, for purely selfish motives.

2 Jul 08

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