simmer

@simmer (70)

South Africa • Age 38

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Soul mate?

dixielol @dixielol (1579) • United States 15 Oct 06

Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not? Have you meet your yet? How do you/did you know?

soulmates

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simmer The guy from prison break!MM hes really hot!

23 Oct 06

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How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer yeah well dont stress about it too much!oh and glad to heard you do actually enjoy your job!

23 Oct 06

How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer jus wanted to say well done!You did the right thing!Hopefully in time she will get over it and you can continue to be friends!

23 Oct 06

How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer sounds like you don't like your job very much?yeah i think most ppls lives are like soapies lol!Im having my fair share of problems too so i know how you feel!

20 Oct 06

How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer Wow that sounds like a cool job!Im a travel agent!Ok well if it helps at all it sounds like just an attraction so it shouldnt go as badly as you expect it!Will you let us know how it goes?

20 Oct 06

do you trust your partner?

heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 18 Oct 06

after some situations involving cheating,and a bad experience with my other relationships,i am having trouble trusting my boyfriend ,and that affects our relationship pretty much..do you trust

partner

relationship

trust

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simmer nice to meet you too! :)

20 Oct 06

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do you trust your partner?

heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 18 Oct 06

after some situations involving cheating,and a bad experience with my other relationships,i am having trouble trusting my boyfriend ,and that affects our relationship pretty much..do you trust

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simmer Yes i agree with you 100%!You know your man and you know whether it is worth fighting for!Everyone makes mistakes and deserves to rectify them!I wish you luck with your man!Shout if you ever need to talk!

20 Oct 06

How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer what type of job do you do?How does she act around you?Suppose you dont really want to talk bout it hey!Too exhausting!

20 Oct 06

do you trust your partner?

heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 18 Oct 06

after some situations involving cheating,and a bad experience with my other relationships,i am having trouble trusting my boyfriend ,and that affects our relationship pretty much..do you trust

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simmer well it sounds like he didnt really feel sorry about it!You have decided to make it work though so no use on dwellin on things!Just be careful!Once a cheater always a cheater!Keep your head up!

20 Oct 06

How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer yeah your right just dont get too boozed and say the wrong thing!is she like head over heels for you or do you think its just an attraction?

20 Oct 06

How to REJECT a girl..

hawick @hawick (645) • Singapore 18 Oct 06

your female friend likes you, but you dont. How do you tell her that without hurting her feelings?

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simmer LOL sounds like you are procrastinating?Thought you were going to tell her today?

20 Oct 06

do you trust your partner?

heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 18 Oct 06

after some situations involving cheating,and a bad experience with my other relationships,i am having trouble trusting my boyfriend ,and that affects our relationship pretty much..do you trust

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simmer Oh ok i understand you now!sounds to me like he is either very confident in your relationship or he is takin you forgranted!Has he said hes sorry for cheatin on you?Made you feel like he wont do it again?Has he tried to prove to you that he wont cheat on you...

20 Oct 06

When you argue with your spouse, do you go to bed angry?

busybea @busybea (930) • United States 16 Oct 06

I try not to go to bed angry with him. Even if I have to wake him to tell him I hate it when we fight.

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simmer I suppose the saying different strokes for different folks would come into handy on this topic!The most important thing is that you keep the relationship alive and never stop tryin to make your relationship stronger!

20 Oct 06

Do you get lonely?

juls2me2 @juls2me2 (2150) • United States 10 Oct 06

what do you do to get rid of that feeling?

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simmer Thanks so much you are a sweetie!

20 Oct 06

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do you trust your partner?

heartonfire @heartonfire (4119) • Denmark 18 Oct 06

after some situations involving cheating,and a bad experience with my other relationships,i am having trouble trusting my boyfriend ,and that affects our relationship pretty much..do you trust

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simmer Oh sorry im abit confussed!Are you trying to say that he has cheated on you before and hes confident you wont do it to him as revenge?Try and explain your situation a little?

20 Oct 06

one thing missing in life

9839014217 @9839014217 (201) • India 20 Oct 06

satisfaction

life

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simmer Care free fun!

20 Oct 06

Do You Always Know What's Causing Your Anger?

ozzieblackcat @ozzieblackcat (531) • United States 7 Oct 06

I don't. Sometimes I feel angry and it takes me a while to figure out why I'm feeling that way. Does this happen to you? Does it take you hours, days, or weeks to finally figure out what's causing

anger

cause

feeling

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simmer Yup i also get angry and have to try and figure out why!I think feelings and emotions are so complicated that it takes anyone a while to figure out what they truely want!

20 Oct 06

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ARE FEELINGS ABSOLUTE??

amitava154 @amitava154 (367) • India 5 Oct 06

if we weren't angry we wouldn't know calm, if we weren't sad we wouldn't know happy....if we didn't love we wouldn't know hate,if we didn't know madness we wouldn't know reason.......so is there no absolute feeling?? we base our...

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simmer I think all humans have those feelings to teach you lessons in life!Your personality helps you control those feelings and do the right thing!Who you are is ur existence not what you feel!What you feel is just abit on who you are?Hope that makes sense?

20 Oct 06

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When you argue with your spouse, do you go to bed angry?

busybea @busybea (930) • United States 16 Oct 06

I try not to go to bed angry with him. Even if I have to wake him to tell him I hate it when we fight.

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simmer I often go to bed angry with my bf!I feel like ppl need time to think things thru so we normally sort it out the next day!Wel try too!

20 Oct 06

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do u both love & hate something?

tvnaresh @tvnaresh (1581) • India 16 Oct 06

my girl friend...:)

fun

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simmer LOL yeah that goes for me too!I think i love and hate generally everything in life!Is that possible?

20 Oct 06