simone0231 commented in a discussion called Help I hate my brother in law!! in my husband. 1 month agoI can sympathise with you 100%. Anyone that says to ignore it has no idea what it is like. I have been with my husband for four years now and it is so bad Im ready to let the relationship go just to be done with his brother. For three of those years he would ring screaming over the phone 'what the f*&^ are you doing with grandma (Im four years older). And all sorts of other obsenities. Because ...