sruthisur

@sruthisur (69)

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Is it wrong to wear black to a wedding?

mamasan34 @mamasan34 (6518) • United States 12 Sep 07

My friend is going to a wedding and asked me this question. Is it wrong to wear black to a wedding if your a guest? I honestly don't see anything wrong with it, but what is the proper protocol? Does anyone know? How do you feel?

black

dress

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sruthisur Its a worldwide practise people follow that they only wear black during death mourning and in many countries its considered as not auspicious to wear black on any good occasion. On the other hand, i also see people wearing black outfits in cinematic...

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Why does crime against kids increases in rate

sruthisur @sruthisur (69) • India 13 Sep 07

Offlate what i see in news are increasing rate in crime against kids. Either its kidnapping, or its physically assaulting, killing, etc etc. Is the parents of the respective children being little unaware and not that attentive of...

pls stop crimes against children

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What would you do if your husband/wife criticize your body?

ladysurvivor @ladysurvivor (4746) • Malaysia 9 Jul 07

A lot of people around the world are very conscious about the way they look. Some people (not all) regard obesity as something to be avoided because it will bring more negative effects than staying slim. A lot of hearts have been...

body shape

criticism

obesity

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sruthisur According to me i dont consider relationship which goes behind the body than the mind. Now to speak on the context if my husband says so, first of all i'll think from his angle why he said so, if i'm really putting on weight and going out of shape, it...

13 Sep 07

Outgoing Indian President ..Dr.A.P.J.Abdul Kalam

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 28 Jul 07

Dr.Abdul kalam who was the Indian president completing his five year term as the president of India has gone back to Tamil Nadu where he was born, brought up and educated to take up his future career as a teacher in Anna...

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sruthisur Indeed Mr.Kalam is a boon to India. His contribution in the field of science is immense. His motivation to the student community is immeasurable. But its due to dirty politics that he himself got fedup and said that he will not be a candidate to stand for...

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How do you vent your anger?

gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 12 Sep 07

What will you do when you get angry? Will you start to shout and scream your heart out? Or will you try to avoid others and hide yourself in your room? As for me, when I get really angry, I will cry. I will go and find a place for...

angry

cry

scream your heart out

shiver

shout

vent your anger

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sruthisur Letting out natural emotions like anger is good in our own way, but we should be little conscious that its not affecting others much, but the reality is due to our anger definitely something is getting affected, either people around us or the non-living for...

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When was the last time you shared an UMBRELLA with someone?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 6 Sep 07

As the monsoon( term used for rainy season in India) showers announce their arrival, the dusty umbrellas come out of their hideouts in Indian homes. You can find colourful mushrooms moving on streets in the rain showers, if you...

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sruthisur I have not shared an umbrella so far with a stranger. But with an aquiantance recently last week, when chennai faced good showers early in the morning during office hours, i got down from my train with an umbrella, i carry it daily cause i'm used to, i saw a...

12 Sep 07

Is Math really that difficult?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 18 Jun 07

Many students are having difficulty in Math. Most of them take up courses with lesser Math subjects. For me, Math is fun. Once you understand the logic behind those numbers, Math would be easy. I've competed in several Math...

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sruthisur Any subject for that matter, it has its own beauty, till my 9th standard i hate maths, cause i never understood the basic concepts behind the problems which i now blame it on my teacher, at my 10th standard i got a very good master who made us feel that maths...

12 Sep 07

Do you LAUGH even when you don't understand the JOKE?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 22 Aug 07

Imagine yourself to be sitting in a Movie hall along with some friends( suppose, not so close ones). You are in no mood to watch the movie, you just came over there because you are too sweet a person to say "No" to your friends'...

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sruthisur To be frank, i will laugh not because just to laugh but because its a basic human tendency that when we see our nears and dears laughing we too atleast have a smile on our face. Unless and until you are deeply sad for some reason that you cannot laugh at...

3 Sep 07

western fashion and indians

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 1 Sep 07

If the so called fashion within the Indian culture will be appreciatable and acceptable? I could see girls wearing skimy dressess in the name of fashion.Last week a girl who was wearing a dress of this kind was criticised...

fashion changes

indian culture

western fashion

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sruthisur There is a good saying "dress to please others and eat to please yourself" this is what i remembered reading your views on fashions. Yes, many girls now-a-days in the name of fashion they do lot of funny things, which they dont even know what exactly they...

3 Sep 07

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Are my advices mean nothing but only such a waste?...tell me!

add_im @add_im (2712) • Philippines 2 Sep 07

How do you honestly feel like someone is asking you some advice, they come to you and talked to you about their matters in life, sorts of problems etc...but then we you start giving your advices to them, I mean in a practical and...

advices

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sruthisur Yes, i too have experienced the same sort of situation, but i realised why this happens, actually when someone is disturbed, depressed or feel inferior only then they let out things to others no matter whether the other person is close or not, for them its a...

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Traveling with your school friends after so many years!

sruthisur @sruthisur (69) • India 13 Aug 07

How do you feel when you meet your school friends after 16 years with their families and arrange a short trip! How exiciting with the very thought isnt it. Yes i'm such a lucky person who have enjoyed the essence of friendship...

too good feeling

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How to tame a destructive kid?

sruthisur @sruthisur (69) • India 26 Jul 07

One of my friend's son is very destructive in nature, i wonder how a 5-7 year old kid is so very destructive, i dont have the experience because i have a girl baby who is very soft and sensible in nature, but the reverse is the...

destructive kids

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Live and Let Live...

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 23 Jul 07

Religious people believe in live and let live What does it mean? It means religious tolerance. take a street, if residents belong to different religion they treat and love one another as human beings belong to one God. As...

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sruthisur Yes, religion-is just a guidance which makes us to lead a healthy and peaceful life, with certain habits which could be cultivated in a group to form unity and make our life comfortable. That's all it is. But people mistake it other way round. We are one...

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Are you aware about the pregnancy time music!!!

sruthisur @sruthisur (69) • India 16 Jul 07

How many of you all are aware that there are special music to be heard during the pregnancy time, Which is very good for the foetus in growing up with good qualities. Yes, from the epic like mahabharatha we are aware of the...

mother to be music

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Why are people killing each other in the name of terrorism?

sruthisur @sruthisur (69) • India 13 Jul 07

I'm feeling sad everyday i open any news channel, all i could view is hundreds of people die in the name of terrorist attack, violence against religious sects, this that etc etc. Why? What for? what is that they are getting out of...

avoid terrorism

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