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CentralPerk @CentralPerk (11) • China 16 Feb 11

me and my boyfriend has been together for 4 years, but i don't know why my parents do not like him right now and do not want me marry him. what should i do?

love

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sunshineme if I were you,I would try my best to persuade my parents.At first,I must know the reason why they don't like him and make sure my boyfriend have the enough confidence to go on with me.Then I will creat several chances to make them understand my boyfriend ,at...

23 Feb 11

sunshineme @sunshineme (21) • China 23 Feb 11

A lot of time, I keep quite and don't say a word ,not for no issue to show .Actually,I have so many things wanna talk with others .I wanna them would understand and respect me .But I find no one have the real patience to listen to...

friends

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sunshineme Your advice is very reasonable,year~I'm not a good listener and cannot sympathize others sincerely.Maybe that's the point.I should learn to love my friends first.Thanks~

23 Feb 11

sunshineme @sunshineme (21) • China 23 Feb 11

A lot of time, I keep quite and don't say a word ,not for no issue to show .Actually,I have so many things wanna talk with others .I wanna them would understand and respect me .But I find no one have the real patience to listen to...

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sunshineme Thanks~I will try to open my heart .I know it's a difficult start but I want my life have some changes and want to live a true and honest life without hurtful deceit

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sunshineme @sunshineme (21) • China 23 Feb 11

A lot of time, I keep quite and don't say a word ,not for no issue to show .Actually,I have so many things wanna talk with others .I wanna them would understand and respect me .But I find no one have the real patience to listen to...

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Chillieman @Chillieman (20) • United States 22 Feb 11

I mean this is rediculous, people these days find it embarrassing to be a virgin at the age of 17 and he hasn't even gotten his first kiss yet, it's painful to see him get all excited when a girl agreed to text him, but they hadnt...

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sunshineme Maybe you would think it's a funny idea,but it's useful to me.I'm a shy girl.Every time boys to me,I will feel uneasy and nervous and cannot say what I wanna clearly .Now when talking to them ,I keep telling myself "Relax!Relax!~" and see them as lovely and...

23 Feb 11

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LordOzz @LordOzz (204) • Philippines 22 Feb 11

Are you aware that the number of virgins left in the world is decreasing and decreasing time-to-time before actually being married. What would you feel if you would only know that your spouse is already de-virginated before the...

virgin partner marriage sex honey moon

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sunshineme (?o?)…To me ,I consider the virgin as the most precious gift to my partner .So I won't pass the boundary before I'm sure he is the one.~~Just a conservative girl's opinion.

23 Feb 11

mairn2008 @mairn2008 (76) • Philippines 22 Feb 11

everytime i hear people say: "what a small world" i keep on wondering "why" if the world is small, why do most of us haven't found what we're looking for?

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sunshineme Haha~what a lovely question!Because we all think the world is big and wide,we cann't find what we wana easily and we work hard and wait for a long time.One day ,some lucky things suddenly happen without our endeavor.Surprise!~hehe,We yell,"What a small...

22 Feb 11

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arsenalliang @arsenalliang (148) 22 Feb 11

I like to learn languages and plan to choose one of them as my foreign language. French is similar to English,I could use English to learn French.Furthermore,I hope that I could make a journey to France after I graduate from...

language french japanese spanish

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sunshineme I think you already have had the best ideal,aren'n you?~(*^__^*) Just do what you wanna and don't give up.Bless you!~

22 Feb 11

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jacklintan @jacklintan (1302) • Malaysia 20 Feb 11

Hi Mylotters, Recently found a new article about parents who own negative behaviour grossly inflicts emotional damage which contaminates their children sense of self. This means parents who abused their children verbally,...

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sunshineme I'm not sure wether my father belongs to "toxic parents",but I'm sure that I hated him so much because of his apathy,selfish and terrible temper.I thouht he didn't have the quality to love family and people,only living in his own world. I grown up without...

20 Feb 11

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saphrina @saphrina (31552) • South Africa 9 Jan 10

Yes, each one of us, loves and respect our families, especially our parents. I love my mom to death and will do anything in my power to make her life easier. I wish you could have seen my dear mom about six months ago. So much...

berlina

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sunshineme hi~saphrina I'm so appreciate of your mother .She is so brave and tolerative .I understand your pain and worries.Because my mom also act as the "desperate housewife".She work hard to make the ends meet ,while my dad always just idle around and do nothing...

9 Jan 10

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careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 8 Nov 09

I'm a girl, I have had a guy best friend before but things change when he got a girl friend. Now I have a girl best friend, she's more like my sister and we get along with each other though we rarely talk as we have our own...

girl

guy best friend

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sunshineme year~i think it's very different.I'm a girl too.I have the same experience as you.But I would like choosing a guy to be my best friend .Because i'm so tired to deal with something like girls'issues.In my mind ,some girls around me are so mean and selfish that...

8 Nov 09

victorywp @victorywp (3524) • United States 27 Oct 09

a man & a woman who died in an accident 20 years ago eventually wed in an afterworld wedding ceremony. the guy's mother said that 5 years ago she dreamt of her son telling her that he had married the woman &...

accident

afterworld

death

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sunshineme It sounds like a litte grotesque.hehe~I cannt force myself to believe it even though it'a true story.Now I wonder if it really exists another world where the dead people live...(?.?)

27 Oct 09

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maximax8 @maximax8 (31053) • United Kingdom 26 Oct 09

A lady was married. She got bored with her husband. She had an affair and got pregnant with twins. She thought her husband was their father but it was her lover. Her husband found out he was infertile. The lady was silly to have...

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sunshineme Oh~I also don't know what to say .I sympathize with her husband .We cann't know how sad he woud be . But this affair had happened .The silly lady must make the decision what she really want .Do her best to get her husband to forgive so that she can rescue her...

27 Oct 09

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janebeth @janebeth (2032) • Philippines 27 Oct 09

i do always knock on the door, i think it is already my habit.. even in a restrooms, office and small houses.. i hate people who don't knock first.. what about you friends, do you also do this kind of...

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sunshineme hai~janebeth ye I'm agree with you.It's very offensive to enter other's room without a permission.I always knock on the door as a signal to let the owner known that I want to come into his/her room .Most people around me all have this basic polite...

27 Oct 09

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BART78 @BART78 (2927) • Canada 23 Oct 09

if theres a person you are avoiding coz she or he is not nice to be around with, who would that be?

a person not nice to be around

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sunshineme year~there always has someone who let me feel disgust.Ihat person would be a nice guy when she talk with you.She will praise you so much ,even yourself believe you are perfect .Then you will trust her and show your private secrets with her.But t at an...

24 Oct 09

BART78 @BART78 (2927) • Canada 23 Oct 09

how do you like your egg this morning, over easy, well done...what do you like to complement your sunnyside up egg, bacon, sausage, hotdog, chips, tomato...coffee, hot choco or tea?

breakfast

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sunshineme I also take oats i the morning,it's very good for your intestinal work.As doctors say ,it's the best time for body drainage in the morning.And the soya bean drink is very helpful to have a perfect skin.I enjoy the unique perfume of soya bean very much whice...

23 Oct 09

mel0007 @mel0007 (16) • Philippines 23 Oct 09

have you heard a song and then after you heard it, it affects your life?

music

music lover

song

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sunshineme ye~there is a song that always can remind me of the happy time with my ex-boyfiend .we walked along the peaceful street hand in hand ,we enjoyed the delicious food together ,we told each other the sincere love in heart.....at that time ,we all thought we find...

23 Oct 09

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