thunderofsins

@thunderofsins (738)

United States • Age 39

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This would be soooo hard...

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 27 Feb 07

Could you even imagine being told that the love of your life, your husband/wife was killed, have the funeral, years later get remarried...and then have your 'dead' husband/wife call you and find out that they are still alive and...

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thunderofsins I have no clue! I know that if he was faking his own death then he'd have no chance and I'd be furious and go through all the proper legal channels to make sure I wouldn't be charged with insurance fraud or anything. If it was a case of mistaken identity and...

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Wearing Mascara

indywahm @indywahm (808) • United States 25 Feb 07

I have not worn mascara in so long I have probably forgotten how to put it on , but my daughter and all of her friends probably go through a tube a week , each of them. Why do they have to wear so much mascara?? Do you go through...

freebies

makeup

shopping

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thunderofsins I can't imagine going through that much mascara! I don't think I have ever "finished" tube - ever! I always end up throwing it out because it is so old, not because it is empty! It is the style now though to not wear face make up and to wear dark eye make up...

26 Feb 07

this is my dog

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 26 Feb 07

This is our dog a boxer, anyone have pics of their dog?

dogs

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thunderofsins Discussions like this - asking people to post images - are banned from mylot.

26 Feb 07

My Man Left Me!!!

missinghim @missinghim (1339) • United States 26 Feb 07

My bf left me this past week and I don't know what to do. We've been going back and forth about me quitting my job. He wants me to quit and I'm not really open to staying home. He feels that I don't trust in him (I'm not showing...

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thunderofsins I wouldn't quit the job if I were you. He sounds extremly insecure. He thinks that you working means you don't trust the relationship?! That is VERY insecure thinking. He should want what is best for both of you, and it sounds like that means that you should...

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Kids are for later................

amrin2007 @amrin2007 (193) • India 26 Feb 07

More and more women are postponing childbirth till they are well into their 30s - for the sake of careers, to secure financail stability, or just to put off kiddie responsibilities.Some decide to have children only when they are...

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thunderofsins It certainly isn't wrong. People should wait to have children until they feel that they can care for them and are "ready" to give up their young single lives for parenting. For some people they may be ready at 20, others not until 40. Parenting is a life-long...

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What is love?

jigishap @jigishap (595) • India 26 Feb 07

Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.

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thunderofsins I think love is more than emotions. It is the concious decision to put someone else's needs and wants above yours. It is the choice to be faithful and loyal to someone and to do what is best for them.

26 Feb 07

what if someone said, that your baby doesn't look like you or the father/mother?

alecs76 @alecs76 (657) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

ever heard this words before? have somebody said that your baby doesn't look like you? or the baby's beautiful, good thing she/he doesn't look like you. or perhaps, the baby must be adopted or maybe he not the father of the baby....

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thunderofsins I havn't had my daughter yet but I don't think it would bother me if someone thought she was adopted. Who cares? Either way she is my child. It is also perfectly normal and natural for a child to not look like one or both of the parents, especially as a child....

26 Feb 07

Should parents intervene in the lives of their married children?

kathykats2003 @kathykats2003 (67) • Singapore 26 Feb 07

I had an experience last month when my brother & his wife had a big fight. My sister in law went back to their home. My parents wanted to fetch her but I told them not to intervene. Do you think I did the right suggestion? Is...

in laws

marriage

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thunderofsins I don't think that someone should go running to their parent's home when they have a fight with their spouse. If it is an abuse situation thats fine, but otherwise they need to stay home and work it out. The parents should be telling her that they love her and...

26 Feb 07

boy or girl?

pinky007my @pinky007my (113) • Malaysia 26 Feb 07

How many kids you want to have? How many boys and girls? Well, one of my fren told me, even she had failed in her first marriage but she wont give up to have more kid for the coming marriage. She already had 2 boys and 2 girls. So...

daughter

parenting

son

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thunderofsins I want one biological child and 1-2 adopted children. I'm having a daughter this summer. My husband and I will adopt in a few years. I don't really care if we have boys or girls, though it'd be nice to have at least 1 of each.

26 Feb 07

Demented

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 26 Feb 07

Has anyone ever really listened to the rock a bye baby song? It is truly demented, why do we sing that to our children?

parenting

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thunderofsins Its just something that gets passed down. Just like kids signing "Ring around a rosie" it is about the black plague and death. People used to put posies in their pockets to try to protect themselves and the "ashes ashes we all fall down" is about how everyone...

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When should we say 'NO' to our children?

amrin2007 @amrin2007 (193) • India 26 Feb 07

We have often seen that childrren these days demand a lot more than they did earlier. Children, being innocent, shouldn't be blamed for what they are doing . But should parents draw a line somewhere? Giving in to demands posed by...

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thunderofsins I don't think a parent should give into a child's DEMANDS at all, ever. The child needs to learn to ask and accept the answer - even when it is "no". I personally cannot stand seeing kids having a temper tantrum for something that they want and I get really...

26 Feb 07

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this is to all women out there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anu @arpita_onlinejob (508) • India 20 Feb 07

my son is 4 months old. i want to continue giving him breast milk till he is 7 months old. i have to join my job back. i had heard of "expressing milk". i read a lot about it on internet and it was written that it is safe to...

baby

feeding

mom

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thunderofsins It is perfectly healthy to express (also known as "pump") breastmilk. It is much better than formula! I will be going back to work between 6-12 weeks after my daughter is born this summer and will be pumping so that she can stay on breastmilk and off of...

21 Feb 07

First doctors appointment yesterday!

starr4all @starr4all (2863) 21 Feb 07

I originally had a doctors appointment two weeks ago. But, due to the doctors emergency it was rescheduled for yesterday (also my birthday!). It was the first time I went the the Circle of Life clinic. It was so nice! With my...

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thunderofsins An ultrasound at ever appointment? That sounds like major overkill to me unless there is a medical reason for it. There hasn't been enough research to show if repetative exposure to the ultrasound waves can be harmful to the baby. Same with the 3d and 4d...

21 Feb 07

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Would you let your spouse go to the Play Boy Mansion?

rlshaw @rlshaw (871) • United States 21 Feb 07

I would if I could go with him... how about you?

men

party

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thunderofsins I don't "let" my spouse do anything. He is an adult person, not a child or a dog. Now - if he asked me if I minded if he went to the playboy mansion I probably wouldn't mind as long as it was for one of their parties (many are actually quite family friendly)....

21 Feb 07

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Do you ever tell your child he was a product of rape.

limosonia1 @limosonia1 (1559) • United States 21 Feb 07

I recently read on a forum that a women wasn't sure if she should tell her son or not. She had been raped and ended up keeping the child. Now she faces having to tell him. The child is almost grown and is now asking about his...

rape

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thunderofsins That is a very personal decision and no one can tell this woman what she should do. If she choses to tell him though she needs to make sure that it is done properly. He should not be told in a way that will make him feel like he is damaged, unwanted or messed...

21 Feb 07

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Do you let your young children anser the door.

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 21 Feb 07

do you let your kids answer the door. we teach our kids not to talk to strangers, what if there is a stranger at the door. can you trust them. do you think it's safe for kids to answer the door these days.

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thunderofsins As long as you are home and aware that they are answering the door and they are answering it for people that they know then I think it is fine. If you don't know they are at the door, or they do not know who is at the door they should not be answering the door...

21 Feb 07

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