tupshi

@tupshi (22)

India • Age 40

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Why are people picky when choosing discussions to respond to?

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 12 Jan 07

Here's what I don't get here on mylot. Why are people so picky when choosing which discussions to respond to. I mean either way they get money, so they should want to respond to as many discussions as they get. But I see a lot of...

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tupshi yaa...but the problem is u cant write anything if the topic is not familiar to u n its no use writing stupid things only for the sake of earning money.moreover some of the topics are quite critical n they need quite a research to write for them

13 Jan 07

how important is INTERNET in your life!!!!

gary87 @gary87 (129) • India 12 Jan 07

this word "internet" has gained a lot of importance in my life after i have earned quite a lot from the net. also its a kind of recreation to all ages. it is also a storehouse of information which can be recovered at just a click....

entertainment

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tupshi u r absolutely right.there was a time when we could hardly get in touch with ppl from all spheres of life but internet has made it possible for us through yahoo messenger.internet has offered 80% good stuff n 20%bad stuff.so it depends on us as to how we use...

12 Jan 07

My friends pick favorites between my children...

imadriscoll @imadriscoll (2228) • United States 11 Jan 07

I have three beautiful children (ages 3,2 & 1) who are obviously different in personality, but equally special. I have one friend who when she comes over to our house will immediately ask where our one year old boy is. If given...

picking favorites

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tupshi u should tell ur friend that if not equally she should atleast not neglect one infront of the other bcoz that way the confidence level of a child comes down.he starts feeling that he is the unwanted one which can even lead to mental break-down bcoz they r too...

12 Jan 07

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Most painful moment of your life.

Keba83 @Keba83 (55) • United States 11 Jan 07

Helll yeah, i was 14 and went on an overnight fishing camp with my friends family, found a giant black scorpion and thought it was kool to tie it up with a string and play around. he waited for his time and got me around evening...

pain

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tupshi it was when i lost my uncle(my fathers younger brother).i was very very close to him.a tumour was detected in the upper portion of his leg n he tried to hide it from others .atlast he got that tumour operated in 1982 n decided not to get married.he loved us...

12 Jan 07

I am a little upset

soldenski @soldenski (2503) • United States 11 Jan 07

I cleaned out my friend's...I post replies on the remaining friend's and then I noticed on one of my friend's profile, that they have not posted one reply in any of my discussion's. I understand that we don't all have the same...

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tupshi look..such a simple thing should not make u upset..at times even i feel why we dont get back the same amount of warmth n affection which we put into a relation but then the fact is everyone has his own set of thinking ,likings n dis-likings n we cant simply...

12 Jan 07

god

sandy70 @sandy70 (26) • India 11 Jan 07

Did God create man or man created God.I think man created God.As we became civilized, we felt the need for having a superior all powerful concept that has answers to all our questions and someone who will punish those who will not...

who created god

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tupshi God was a medium through which we formed the society but unfortunately in today's scenario we r using God to divide those societies.both divine n devil exist within us .the one who reached the ultimate level of divity is termed as God n who attained the last...

12 Jan 07

My Friend Drinks Too Much

kumikosuzuki83 @kumikosuzuki83 (161) • Japan 11 Jan 07

I have a friend and he his a really good friend (not boyfriend!!) but I think that he drinks too much. He is a Japanese salaryman so he works about 12 hours per day and six days a week. When he comes home he says that he...

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tupshi i think he will stop drinking the day when the love of his life will ask him to.i have seen this happen in many cases.i think u should make him drink in control.ask him to draw the limit bcoz i dont think he can stop drinking all of a sudden.ask him to imagine...

12 Jan 07

I Don't Understand Why He is Angry.

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 11 Jan 07

My brother has anger issues and he always has. Most of his problem is that he thinks everyone hates him or is out to get him. Once you make his list of bad people, you can't get off this list. I have officially made his list....

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tupshi this kind of problem is very common amongst depressed n mentally insecure people.they think the whole world hates them n tht they r all alone to fight the battle of their life.u can bring an end to all these by always making him feel tht u stand by him , at...

12 Jan 07

Bad Habits?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 11 Jan 07

My ex had a really bad habit. Whenever we went to visit a someone, he would walk to their refrigerator and look inside it. He did this several times. Nobody thought to question him about this behavior. I thought it rude and...

habits

people

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tupshi the whole concept of bad manners differ from person to person.wht u think bad may not be bad from someone else n as far as the habit of ur ex goes i dont think it can only be termed as a habit n not a bad habit.i think he was very fond of eating which led to...

12 Jan 07

My brother doesn't believe in God. I can't stand it.

IMkindofaBIGdeal @IMkindofaBIGdeal (58) • United States 10 Jan 07

We were raised in church. Our foster dad was a minister and my brother doesn't believe in God. I don't call myself a real religiouse person but I do say I'm spiritual. I cringe when I hear him say that God doesn't exist. I fear...

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tupshi u know what i feel that GOD loves the one who is true to himself n good to the mankind.what if he dosent believe GOD but if is he doing good to the society then he is doing the job of the supreme in his own unique way.let him be an atheist ,just make sure that...

11 Jan 07

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Something gets into the eye

peachpurple @peachpurple (13880) • Malaysia 5 Sep 17

Yeaterday, my son was laying down on the sofa when all of a sudden he was screaming that oimething caught into his left eye. I had told him before never use his bare hands to rub his eyes but he did. Whatever the object was had...

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tupshi Yeaterday, my son was laying down on the sofa when all of a sudden he was screaming that oimething caught into his left eye. I had told him before never use his bare hands to rub his eyes but he did. Whatever the object was had caused a scratch on the white...

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Dealing with addiction....

Shar11 @Shar11 (419) • United States 10 Jan 07

Addiction is a tough thing...There are people addicted to many things. But looking at a few of the major and most damaging addictions, I would say drugs, alcohol and gambling are the main evils... I have been lucky enough to have...

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tupshi i think u were extremely right in doing all that u did.there is a saying that "no one in this world can help u unless n untill u help urself". i think ur friend was destined to die that way n no force could have saved him.dont feel guilty bcoz u did ur best as...

11 Jan 07

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Is It Me Or The Vacuum?

Marlina @marlina (154166) • Canada 21 Jul 17

Is it me or the vacuum cleaner seems to be getting harder and harder to push. We have central vac but I have never liked the motor that we have to connect when we do the rugs. It is a very different one than we used to have in...

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tupshi Is it me or the vacuum cleaner seems to be getting harder and harder to push. We have central vac but I have never liked the motor that we have to connect when we do the rugs. It is a very different one than we used to have in our other house years ago. That...

21 Jul 17

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Can you interpret this dream?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 10 Jan 07

I am continuously dreaming about grandmother who passed away a few years ago. She seems smiling and nodding to me with arms wide open. What do you thing that this dream might mean? I have never dreamed about anybody of my...

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tupshi i think u were very close to her n hence she still exists in ur subconscious mind.i m sure u were very much loved by her and so u dream her smiling at u n nodding you

10 Jan 07

So Sad, Dennis Sold His Three Cars

Erly Maglangit @cacay1 (83223) • Cagayan De Oro, Philippines 20 Jul 17

Dennis messaged me awhile ago informing me that he sold his three cars. He has some doubts about his health and life. One of his reasons is his deteriorating health. He thought about the situation of his car, what if something bad...

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tupshi Dennis messaged me awhile ago informing me that he sold his three cars. He has some doubts about his health and life. One of his reasons is his deteriorating health. He thought about the situation of his car, what if something bad happens to him, his car would...

20 Jul 17

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Should I say no to someone who loves me but i am married

pran2007 @pran2007 (26) • India 10 Jan 07

dear friends, i am in a dilemma. A lady working with me loves me but i am married and happy with my wife and kids. still she loves me a lot and wants an intimate relationship with me for ever. she might get marry again to someone....

relationships

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tupshi simply stay away from her bcoz it will ruin u,ur family n ur children n wht not ....she may be desperate for u but that dosent mean u should cheat ur wife n children..wht wrong have they done to u

10 Jan 07

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How Does One Best Deal With Depression Brought On By The Death Of A Loved One?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28953) • Canada 6 Jan 07

Someone very dear to me recently lost someone very dear to him. I did not personally know the friend whom he lost, but I knew so much of her that she fast became important to me too. Not only did he lose her, but he was the one to...

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tupshi There is a saying "Even this will pass away".I know its very hard to tackle situations when they fall on you in real life.But whenever you go through the pain just say inside your mouth "nothing is permanent,nor is what i m going through".i hope you will find...

7 Jan 07

Okay so my girl friend might be pregnant i need some advice

glasser3 @glasser3 (354) • Hibbing, Minnesota 7 Jan 07

Alright well my girlfriend might possibly be pregnant we arent sure yet but she is showing two signs and so were both kinda worried as to what to do we definately wanna keep the baby if she is pregnant but the problem is we are...

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tupshi first of all i would like to say that u have got a god gifted soul bcoz very few fortunate people can love someone else so intensely and i think your true and eternal love for your girl friend will rub out everything that comes your way.i have never gone...

7 Jan 07

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Love and Like....What is most important.????

Polly1 @Polly1 (12645) • United States 6 Jan 07

Here is something to think about. You can love someone intensely and not like them. You can like someone and not love them. We don't always choose who we love, we do choose who we like. What is most important? We can love and like...

important

love

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tupshi i think the word love and like are very much inter-related because you end up loving someone only after liking him or her initially n you cant simply love someone whom you hate.but then one start loving someone at the very outset without having the liking...

7 Jan 07

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