tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
No the kids are not by him but are his. He do whatever he can for them. No this was not an insult but I had my pass so I understand. Yes he is a neat-freak and im not at all. My home is no dump--lol. Funny because he say the same(a dump) but I can up cloths and paper and put things back to order but if I don't do the floor than its still not clean so I tell him to do it hisself. That might be w...

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
Ok I got to know how to do it calm? I'm not good on that but willing to work on it so thanks. This may be my problem.

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
Thank You! I really needed this insite. I think I need to find that way to talk with him cause when I tried last night he said I was yelling at him. Imma fight to make it work cause things are not all that bad but we have our moments and I have my wants. Nothing in the bed but them three little words and for him to show it. I'll give it to him for last night. He came home cook and clean and ten...

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
I don't look at it as my shortcomings because I do cook, clean, and some more. It's not on me he wont eat it or he don't think I clean good enough for him.

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
I know for sure there is no other women cause he been doing the samething for the last five years. When he don't eat, I wrap it up and have it for myself the next day. I don't have money to waste and I do believe in left=overs.

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
Yeah that's one way to look at it. I will try this, what can it hurt?

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
OK this is my plan after reading and repling to all messages on here. I will try to change some of the things I do and spend more time with him. Talk the night before and see how we going to do things for the next day and try to stay with it. Also, I will not tell him I love him everyday. I will show it more than just say it. This will be a different step for me to take and I hope it works.

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
Going to work is not the problem cause we get home about the same time. There is nothing going on with him or anyone else(cheating) I do know that for sure. All my problems really start to happen after I get the kids to bed.

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
How? I mean I know the answer to my question already but its good to get advice from other.

tyleika commented in a discussion called Am I Strong Or Just Stupid in relationships.
3 weeks ago
This is one of the best responses that I read. I been sitting back trying to get this in order but I know we need help with our communication skills. It could be me just coming off a little loud and him not saying nothing at all. I have faith and we going to make it. Thank you, this is something to think about.