uncutbox

@uncutbox (14)

United States • Age 50

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Should a woman take her husband's name after marriage?

strangegurl16 @strangegurl16 (78) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am getting married in about 6 months, and I am really having trouble deciding on this one. My fiance would be happy if I did take his name, but he would understand if I decided to keep my own. My name is a big part of who I am...

life

marriage

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uncutbox For me marriage is about becoming one with my soul mate. You know how some couples begin to look like each other after a while? It's the same with the name in my book. It's just about belonging to each other.

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Can you ever really get over being sexually abused?

uncutbox @uncutbox (14) • United States 6 Feb 07

I was molested as a child from the time I was 8 until I was 12. There were multiple people but my main abuser was an uncle. I didn't tell anyone until I was in college where I told my fiance. Since then, there have been some...

broken heart

childhood sexual abuse

read book

sexual abuse

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uncutbox I only hope to help other people by being open about my past. Authenticity goes a long way in this world today. No one wants to talk to someone fake.

6 Feb 07

Can you ever really get over being sexually abused?

uncutbox @uncutbox (14) • United States 6 Feb 07

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uncutbox I don't know if it's as easy as controling it. And what exactly am I controlling? Obviously I'm controlling the fact that I am not letting the abuse happen in my life anymore but it still affects me.

6 Feb 07

Should mother spend quality time with Childrens ?? or Quantity time

swapylcz @swapylcz (93) • India 5 Feb 07

Hi there. I am mother of one sweet lil girl. She is one and half yr old. I always get confuss that should I am spend quality time with her by working out side or I quit my work and spend Quantity time with her.??? My finacial...

house wife

mother

working woman

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uncutbox I think when you chose to have a child your chose to change your priorities. Your priority can no longer be to grow yourself as a human. Your responsibility now lays with your daughter. Now your priority can be how to grow her as a human being. You'll be...

6 Feb 07

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Can you ever really get over being sexually abused?

uncutbox @uncutbox (14) • United States 6 Feb 07

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Where are some good places to go in florida for spring break?

weezy250m @weezy250m (1892) • United States 20 Dec 06

Where are some good places to go in florida for spring break?

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uncutbox I read that Panama City Beach, Fl is the spring break capital of the world. It has over 400,000 college students during the month of March. If you go there, take advantage of the free vans that will pick you up and drive you at night. They also have free...

6 Feb 07

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have prayed for long nd there seem to be no answer

efewise @efewise (38) • Nigeria 3 Feb 07

should i give up on god

religion

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uncutbox It's possible that God has answered you in a way you weren't expecting. We often pray to God and ask Him to do somehting in a certain way (heal someone, give us some money, have someone talk to us). We have to be careful not to tell God what to do. We can...

6 Feb 07

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Daily Prayer First Or Read Gods Word First?

bilook1 @bilook1 (152) • United States 23 Jan 07

I believe in taking time with God everyday in prayer and Bible study but what I am having a problem with is that more often then not there will be interruptions this of course is the enemies attempt to keep me a way from personal...

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uncutbox I like to start with a small prayer asking the Lord to speak to me and help me stay focused. Then when I read the Bible as the Lord speaks to me through the things I am reading, I pray about them. Sometimes it will be obvious that I do something the Word...

6 Feb 07

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A friend of mine will get at least 30 days in jail for driving without a licence

Mariazycka @Mariazycka (1) • United States 5 Feb 07

My friend's licence was suspended for a year for driving under the influence of alcohol. He continued to drive to work without a licence and was caught. He is now facing a minimum 30 days in jail. His court date is on February 20,...

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uncutbox Can you say "boy toy"? I think that's what your friend should expect. I guess if it's a local jail and not a state or federal prison then that might be different but I'd expect some man love.

6 Feb 07

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Do you sit at the table during meal times or eat in front of the tv??

greengal @greengal (4286) • United States 5 Feb 07

I like to sit with my family at the table at meal times. I gives me a feeling of togetherness and it also encourages good conversation. It's not possible at all times because a few of us are busy and eat at different times....

eating together

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uncutbox My situation is quite different. We live in a college dorm. My husband is the Resident Director and we have a small 4 room apartment. And we have two kids. We eat most dinners in the college cafeteria. So we eat at a table there and it includes many other...

6 Feb 07

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What if the hokey pokey really is what it's all about?

uncutbox @uncutbox (14) • United States 6 Feb 07

Is life about having fun and being goofy with your friends? Somedays I wish that was the case. The life of responsibility is not near as much fun as the days of childhood games and songs.

childhood

games

songs

How important is it to you for your children to be raised in your religion?

minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 5 Feb 07

We all talk about our different types of religious beliefs and how each other should understand that not everyone is a Christian,Catholic,Jehovah,Islam, etc. But how are we raising our children Is it important for them to be...

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uncutbox I agree with you that it would be very difficult not to bring your children up to what you believe. This is true because children follow the life they see lived out in front of them. This changes some by the teenage years I would guess (my children are 9 &...

6 Feb 07