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usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname It's easier said than done, chiyosan. My main priority right now is my son. By the way my wife has been acting lately, I'm having doubts about if should let her rear my child. I mean, come on, she's got trust and mental issues. I can never rule that one out. I...

20 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname First off, I have to say I have nothing but sheer admiration for women like you, dagami. To do something you believe is beneficial to you, a midst all of society's criticism takes courage and dedication to accomplish it. Kudos to you! Yes, I will try to...

20 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname Yes, and I regret doing that. Fortunately, I have no other sons from other women. Actually, annulment proceedings could go as fast as one year to finish. That's what a lawyer friend told me. We already underwent marriage counselling, but without any...

17 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname You won't know it, unless you try it out yourself. Anyway, it's your call, it's your life, after all.

17 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname Yes! Thanks for your post, rog0322! I appreciate it! I updated my research and found out for myself that lunacy is indeed one of the grounds for annulment. I'm considering of using this fact to my advantage if I have made my mind about annulment. Once again,...

17 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname Ok. I'll do that if it would bring back my sweet better half. Thanks for your advice, SIMPLYD! I hope it works. Come to think of it, isn't psychological incapacity or lunacy grounds for annulment? But, if doctors could bring back the...

14 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname I'm so sorry to hear that, LetranKnight25! Please don't be discouraged because of what happened to my fate. I believe there's someone out there who would love you unconditionally. But, then again, the perks of being single can be liberating. Good luck to you,...

14 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname I did my research about annulment, and it turns that you have to spend at least PhP 100,000 to have your marriage annulled. It depends on the location of the courtroom. Some lawyers may charge as high as PhP 300,000 if it is within the metro. Hopefully it...

14 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname Good for you, man! I wish I had the same fate as you did. I did consider that, jembizz21. And by the way she's acting lately, I'm having second thoughts on living the child alone with her while I go to work. I have thought about it long and hard, and I...

14 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname Nope, my son is already six years old. I know someone who have actually experienced post mortum stress. Man, it's not a pleasant sight. But, I don't think my wife suffered from such stress at all. Thanks for the advice, though.

13 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname I did loved her before we got married. Seriously, I did it for my son to prevent him from being illegitimate. At first I thought everything seems alright. But, after we got married, things started to get ugly. All her good qualities had drastically transformed...

13 Mar 13

ketanm @ketanm (68) • India 13 Mar 13

I saw today that anti-virus program on my laptop is consuming so many resources and sometimes it slows down the laptop and hamper my productivity. Also as I read, the number of new viruses keep on increasing and now-a-days even...

antivirus

virus

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usemyname As fellow linux user, I couldn't agree more with, topffer. All this time that I've been using the linux OS, no virus ever contaminated my computer. Cheers!

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usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 13 Mar 13

I married at a young age of 23. The only reason I married my wife is I don't want our son to be illegitimate. I was so naive at that young age. I could actually acknowledge the child as my own, without ever entering the marriage...

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usemyname I respect your opinion about the subject, ma'am. I have no plan to file for separation since it will only further complicate things. I'm aiming for annulment to nullify our marriage. By the way, we never got married on the church, our local judge was...

13 Mar 13

Firefly @cttolledo (5460) • Legaspi, Philippines 25 Feb 13

Hi mylotters! Do you agree with this? It is atated in our constitution that "Marriage is a permanent union between a man and a woman..." hence divorce is not allowed to our country. Personally I am against it, man have...

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usemyname You do have a point, cttolledo. Ok let's say the mother decided to stay and ignore all the pain that she have to go through with her marriage. But, don't you think the child would also be affected if he/she sees her mother suffering while living together with...

8 Mar 13

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 6 Mar 13

Hello Lotters, I can't believe what i've seen in the video. It happened somewhere in FEU, Manila, in another busy night. but not all of them were playing DOTA, some were internet surfing and some were internet for school...

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usemyname I couldn't agree more with you, LetranKnight25. I'm not judgmental when comes to interacting with other people. But, perhaps, this is one of the good reasons why we should avoid socializing with these kind of people. They're nothing but a pain in the neck....

8 Mar 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 17 Feb 13

Well, not really. I told her she's a bit chubby and invited her to go to the gym. I thought everything was going well, but later on I found out that she was upset. She sarcastically thanked me for telling her that she's fat. Now,...

called my girlfriend fat

confidence issues

insensitive

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usemyname Yes, now I know that fact, sriroshan. I never thought chubby was synonymous with fat. I should have used the word voluptuous instead. I will try saying that to her. Thanks for the advice.

17 Feb 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 17 Feb 13

Well, not really. I told her she's a bit chubby and invited her to go to the gym. I thought everything was going well, but later on I found out that she was upset. She sarcastically thanked me for telling her that she's fat. Now,...

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usemyname She actually told me that she's a bit embarrassed since I am fit, while she's fatter. I tried to contradicting this statement from her since she's not really that fat, I still find her sexy, mind you. I just want her to watch her weight to stay healthy. I feel...

17 Feb 13

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

A friend of mine is selling away her dogs because she's transferring to a new house. The place is not so conducive to dogs, so she decided to sell her beloved dogs. And mind you, she doesn't sell them to just anybody but to people...

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usemyname I take it you are dog lover yourself, rsa101. I tip my hat in your direction, if my assumptions are correct. Kudos to you, my friend. Yes, I completely agree with you. They may be big dogs but they're actually very friendly. My lab usually...

20 Oct 12

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

A friend of mine is selling away her dogs because she's transferring to a new house. The place is not so conducive to dogs, so she decided to sell her beloved dogs. And mind you, she doesn't sell them to just anybody but to people...

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usemyname Some dogs reach the age of up 14 years(I know this for a fact since my aunt's dog recently died at this age). Speaking of the lab, my friend decided to give the dog to for free, courtesy of my negotiating skills and possibly my...

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usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 27 Aug 12

I was totally not expecting this to happen. What do you know, I was searching for something using mylot's search function and the next thing I know this reward screen popped out. Come to think of it, maybe I should...

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usemyname You serve as an inspiration, my friend! I think I'll make mylot as my homepage from now on.

27 Aug 12

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