valerievy

@valerievy (162)

Guam • Age 33

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Book Called "The Secret"

yogeshdhusa @yogeshdhusa (2236) • India 23 Feb 13

I am reading the book called " the Secret" I have completed first two chapter and have got stuck ! the book suggest that universe respond in the same way what we think, so i have started to think in a positive way and only what i...

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valerievy Thanks for sharing this discussion. I have heard about that book as well, but I haven't yet had the chance to read it from beginning to end. I suggest you read a book called "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho though. It's an interesting book about discovering a...

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Code like Da Vinci Code…Do you have one?

Shavkat @Shavkat (137189) • Philippines 25 Jan 13

When we were in high school, my buddies and I had codes to communicate. It sounds corny, but we do. We have moments of being secretive with our silly adventures in school. Like the alphabets created in the form of numbers. It is...

codes

life

people

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valerievy Thanks for sharing this. I can actually relate. My friends and I used to have our own secret code for when we passed around notes in class. So that if ever the note was intercepted by someone else other than us, they wouldn't be able to figure it out. Hehe....

26 Jan 13

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cutting classes

mikemontez @mikemontez (357) • Philippines 25 Jan 13

have you ever try cutting classes? when im in a third year high school student im addicted on playing computer online games its affecting on my study. only twice a week i participate in class, now i dont know what we have study on...

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valerievy Everyone has their faults and mistakes, but you have the power to fix them or at least improve on them. It is up to you on what your main priorities are in life. If this habit of playing computer games is affecting your studies, which are going to affect your...

26 Jan 13

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have you felt you just don't care anymore?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 29 Apr 11

Have you ever felt that sometimes you just don't care anymore? That you have already exhausted yourself and you can no longer stand whatever is happening and your response to the situation is you just don't care anymore. You...

dealing with emotions

emotions

feelings

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valerievy I can somehow relate to that situation every now and then. But I always remind myself or others remind me that everything happens for a reason. It seems like the hardest thing in the world sometimes, that I'm the only one in the world facing whatever problem...

21 Jan 13

Some member criticise my english language

AkamaruKei @AkamaruKei (5204) • Malaysia 14 Dec 12

Ahh some member have criticise my english language with response. That response had been delete. I feel sorry for someone who is comment in that response. I still angry with that person who is make that response. Try to act smart...

mylot

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valerievy Don't let those people put you down. No one should criticize you for your English language. They should instead praise you that you are able to write understandably. I'm glad to know that those people's comments were deleted because if they have nothing nice...

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beaded jewelry business

moneytalk07 @moneytalk07 (4) • Philippines 4 Dec 12

i am planning to put up my own beaded jewelries business.. but I have problems regarding this. First, i have an 11 month old baby girl, taking care of a baby is no joke.. Second, just all the house chores are so...

business

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valerievy There are a lot of places that sell cheap arts and crafts materials, so you can go to those for your supplies and materials to make your products. As for your daughter, maybe you can ask other family members to help you babysit her or even have another family...

9 Dec 12

How much time can you wait your lover, to be with him?

marina @mistika1 (82) • Romania 3 Dec 12

I have a friend who waiting 8 years to be with her lover in real. She meet him online, and wait him eight years to meet him face to face. I can t believe that this can happened, i can t believe that a person can wait so much...

love

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valerievy I think it would be such a difficult thing to do, but it can be done. If you really love someone truly, deeply, and madly, you will wait as long as forever to be with him/her. Love is patient, so just have faith. You can try to keep yourself busy with other...

5 Dec 12

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my embarassing love

yejianzhou @yejianzhou (14) • China 5 Dec 12

I feel so bad for a week because i have crash on a girl . but she have a boyfriend . This make me so unhappy. whats worse , she is my classmate. I cant take control of my emotion . I always find her where to sit ,what her do . Im...

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valerievy How old are you? If you are still young, don't fret too much and settle for her just now. You never know what the future holds. If you stick around too closely to her and not open your heart to other girls, you will only put yourself through pain and...

5 Dec 12

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How can I tell her, she's not gonna get her job back...

jureathome @jureathome (5361) • Philippines 4 Dec 12

A previous employee from my previous company reached out to me asking for help to get her job back. Apparently, even if Im no longer connected with the company, my husband is the newly-hired boss in their department. So, she's...

employee

hiring

job

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valerievy You told her the right thing. It's true that it would have to be up to higher management. And advising her to go through the normal hiring process also keeps her from becoming less of a friend to you as you'll have no involvement in whatever the final decision...

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Started real budgeting and savings plan

jureathome @jureathome (5361) • Philippines 22 Nov 12

Finally, we've got ourselves started with a real budgeting and savings plan for the family. The new job and good compensation plan from the company allowed us to make room for some savings, on top of our current investments. I...

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valerievy Great to read about your successful financial situation. Budgeting and saving isn't always an easy task, so congratulations on getting to this point in your life. I also suggest you invest in money certificates or time deposits if you have money that you won't...

5 Dec 12

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i'm holding off replying to any other discussions started by friends and ...

allen0187 @allen0187 (58438) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

other mylotters for the time being. instead, i'll be starting a couple of discussions myself and reply back to those who respond. for the past couple of days, i've observed that i'm more active in mylot starting discussions and...

mylot

mylot discussions

mylot replies

starting mylot discussions

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valerievy I usually just respond to other people's discussions. But you are right, there are more participation points when you start your own discussion. I should try starting more of my own discussions.

1 Dec 12

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sometimes we love people even when they hurt us so many times?

ap0calyptic @ap0calyptic (921) • Slovenia 27 Nov 12

have you ever wonderred why is it so? Like you're in a fight with your lover, but you can't refrain yourself from texting them the next day and wish asll would be good, even when you werent the one making mistake/hurting another...

life

love

love circle

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valerievy I'm sure everyone's had some trouble with love and relationships. I can relate to how you feel. I have a similar feeling of being down when I get into a fight or argument with my fiance. And then when everything is good between us, the other parts of my life...

1 Dec 12

Mummy I am in Love

sriroshan @sriroshan (2585) • India 30 Nov 12

Daughter who is studying in the college, one day when she return home went to her mother and told her that "Mummy I think I am in Love". Hearing this mother got shocked, but she remain cool. She does not reacted back as she knew...

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valerievy I think she is right. The daughter is still young, and she should focus on her studies. But at the same time, if the daughter is able to maintain a good relationship with someone while she is also able to do well in her studies, then I am all for her. She is...

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Love marriage or arrange?

shalloo @shalloo (65) • United Arab Emirates 30 Nov 12

Is it better to ask parents to decide about your future or we can decide our selves?What i think is that parents are more experienced and they are far more capable then us to decide!But when it comes to love,Its better to tell...

love marriage arrange marriage future parents love

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valerievy I think either a love or arranged marriage will eventually find success. Love marriage involves the couple involved already in love with each other. But usually, arranged marriage takes time; and most, if not all, of the time, the two involved weren't able to...

30 Nov 12

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children should be allowed to make mistakes

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 27 Nov 12

Parents and teachers are always expect perfection from the children.But very few children do the things perfectly. Children can not play,study or do anything without mistakes.They learn from the mistakes. Scolding,threshing or...

children should allowed to make mistakes

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valerievy When the children at the educational institute I manage make mistakes, I scold them right away in a not too strict manner so as not to scare them away. After I politely tell them that what they're doing is wrong, I take them aside and let them know what they...

30 Nov 12

When I grow up I wonne be a .....What did you wanted to be when you was a kid?

Elenakat13 @Elenakat13 (425) • United States 29 Nov 12

I remember very clear like is was yesterday that I wonne to be a none The reason was not that I was a Believer my parents never went to the church with me The reason was that it felt good to know that there is someone watching...

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valerievy When I was a kid growing up, I wanted to be a lawyer, doctor, and teacher.. in that specific order through the years. I couldn't make up my mind, but I wanted to become a successful professional in law, medicine, or education. I wanted to be happy; and back...

29 Nov 12

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