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virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 25 Apr 08

You come in a point of life when smaller girl (16) make you doubt yourself your values in life your thoughts and belief in which you have raised yourself and your kids to be well behaved sucessfull teenagers. Now i have to doubt...

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 10 Mar 08

From my last discussion Should i leave or should I Stay now its come down to Depression. In continacion folks .... What do you do when all your senses are blocked, your heart says one and the mind reasons another and your body...

self defense

huanran @huanran (50) • China 29 Feb 08

How do you find your life-partner? Share us your love story?

find

love story

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virgo73 My story is worth making a bollywood movie, but i will be as breif as possible. Arranged mariage at 18 had my both my kids before 21. Went to live in a country where , Life was a nightmare, no freedom, veiled, under man rule women did not have any right to...

29 Feb 08

ebsharer @ebsharer (5515) • United States 28 Feb 08

tell them yes six times later??? My kids know that if I say NO I mean NO. They know better but if they ask me six more times I am still going to say NO. I know a couple people that tell there kids no six times just to finally say...

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virgo73 Probably they are doing this because they had results with this behaviour before. Our parents did a better job with us in a very old fashioned way and it works so very well. Get the board and lock it up. Get the cookies and keep it away. Pull out the internet...

29 Feb 08

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schummi @schummi (924) • India 28 Feb 08

I love her a lot folks and thinking of marrying her but still not sure...She is so beautiful and of very good nature too.... are u too in the same thought process???

marrying girlfriend

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virgo73 Ask yourself this question? Are you willing to see her face everyday first thing in the morning. Are you willing to hear the same voice for the rest of your life. Do you like her body smell.....for the rest of your life. Is there even a point about her that...

29 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

leave or stay

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virgo73 The worst nightmare is yet to come. The colleges are in our city and she plans to come and stay with us ..... Im in a more difficult situation. Im just resident in Spain and have started job not sufficient enough to support my kids........he will not pay a...

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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virgo73 Thanks your message have given me more hope and I will definately keep that in mind. A stick cannot break a stone only a stone with a stone.

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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virgo73 Thanks, have tried all of those but the moment i don´t support her for her wrongs. Im the worst person on the earth and she is the victim. Im very hurt time and again

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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virgo73 I have struggled in life, lived in Iran, then dubai, then in India and now in spain, ived in the worst and come through so much of emotional, phyiscal torture. Im patience and understanding and have things very clear in life. I fought the worst to have my kids...

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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virgo73 I have told him the same and not just once many times in different ways...its okay for 2 weeks and then back again. We have been waiting for some changes since she was little, growing up with lot of hate and jealousy and now its even worse. I frankly don´t...

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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virgo73 A boot camp is perfect I have suggested that, but the Ex- did not agree. The problem that i see is in the future. She is already planning to do college in our city...which would mean living with us. She has been difficult child since she was little and worse...

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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virgo73 Thanks.

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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virgo73 Subha. I have tried talking to her a million times, with reasons, with examples, as a friend taking her sides.........but the moment i don´t support her when she´s wrong.......blam all goes down the drain for her. She wants to rule our lives. I gave him the...

28 Feb 08

virgo73 @virgo73 (17) • Spain 26 Feb 08

Im married to a wonderfull man surprisingly I would say we are perfect together.We both put from each other side and sacrifice to make each one happy...well this was until my Step Daughter of 16 years came to live with us. He got...

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jewel102 @jewel102 (105) • United States 7 Jun 07

My stepdaughter wedding was last April, I offered her to make all the floral arrangements, her bouquet, the centerpieces, etc. without any charge, of course. One day, her grandma asking her who will be doing the flowers, she told...

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virgo73 You are a Jewel indeed. Your husband´s Ex will never get over what she lost and trust me she will do everything to compare with you. Just laugh at her and see the positive......you are better and that´s why she is still jealous. Hang on to your man and love...

14 Feb 08

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chrislotz @chrislotz (8137) • Canada 29 Jan 08

I have just recently noticed my stepdaughter has decided to move in with us. The reason I say just noticed is because it was never discussed, she is just always here these days. I fell like she is taking over my household and I...

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virgo73 Dear Chris, You are at a point where I was a year ago and completely understand your feelings, thoughts and insecurities. I have a SD who is 16 and came to live with us last year...because her mother could no longer control her until the point my SD beat her...

14 Feb 08

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