FYI --- This is a "whiny" post.  I'm sorry if you were expecting a controversial argument ... maybe next time.
    There were comments made on my previous blog that implied I couldn't handle an argument or criticism because I might be relatively attractive.  I'm flattered, don't get me wrong - who doesn't like complements?  However, I don't think my appearance should hinder, or help, my abilities.  I would like to be judged by my ideas & beliefs if anything.
   I...