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Have you had much changes in your life in the past 10 years?? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life3 years ago

'I am just flipping over the photo album that had my photos taken when I was young, it seems that I had alot of changes in the past ten years,I had been a little naughty girls ten years ago and I am now a mature lady. I was a naive girl before and now I had more life experience, I was interested in dating when I was young but after some unhappy experience I lost the interest.'

How about you?? How is your life now?Are you satisfied wiht your life? Is it better or worse than ten years ago?
How had you changed? Your personality,thinking,wealth,marital status,etc,anything you can think of.
What do you think you need or you want to improve now??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. sweetangel88 (2114)   ranked 1,622 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

I think I have changed alot since the past 10 years. I'm more confident now than I was back in middle school and talk more because I was really quiet. I'm still a bit quiet, tho. I learn to be alittle more responsible and not as naive. I always have been responsibe I just didn't make right decisions. I want to improve my shyness and be aliitle more outgoing, still working on that. During the past 10 years I had my ups and downs but who hasn't?


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

True,our life are filled up with up and down, no matter what happen we have to face it,everyday will be a new day. I always think we have to improve day by day to make our life more meaningful and not waste the time on some meaningless things.

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2. tenali (53)   ranked 10,410 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

yes obviously!! Now in my case much thing are changed, infact improved in just 7-8 years. My views about life, my lifestyle, knowledge about the advanced things. Take the live example, i didn't know anything about the internet previously but now i oftenly access the net!!! But still i am not satisfied with my life until i get what i want in my life. And after some years i will get it


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

No worry,when times go by, you will accumulate more and more knowledge and your life will be better and better.You have to work hard to pursuit your goals to live in a better life .

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3. myLot reputation of 53/100. freebc (1501)   ranked 4,438 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

You betcha I've had changes.

Career taxi driver to truck driver to house husband diagnosed with MS and congenital defect causing legal blindness in the right eye...

And parenting my soon to be 3 year old grandson.

Oh yeah. Just a few changes.

And I'm not finished yet either. I am hoping I can change things more too.

In my heart, I have always wanted to be a political representative to the people of my area. In my mind, this is the ultimate in true public service. And I have always enjoyed serving people in some capacity.

From a youth when I so enjoyed cooking in restaurants to 30+ years driving taxi, I have always loved working with people.

So, I want to go a step further in public service to be elected to do a job for them.

I guess we will have to see about that then won't we.


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

Oh,yeah i read your discussions yesterdat,you asked some questions about how to raide funds in british columbia, but of course I cannot answer it..lol.You are very ambitious, I admire the people who dedicate themselves to support the public.
I wish you sucess.


bostonbroker (4)   ranked 31,453 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

The problem for me is that I THINK I still look the same, but people are starting to mention how I'm "old" looking. I'm 27 and I think I look the same way I did when I was 18 but I couldn't be further from the truth. Its not that I'm really bigger or fatter, or bald or anything so I really don't notice the small "agers". If i look at photos side by side of me when I was 18 and now, its really hard for me to pinpoint why I look older. Its wierd.


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

Hello,bostonbroker, don;t you think it is a godo thing if you do not notice any changes in your outlook?

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. becuttieusa (4691)   ranked 599 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

10 years ago, i am just 9 years old and i had so much fun with my real father.
But ... he passed away and everything in my life change 180 degrees.
I used to me a happy, shy girl who always lean on my father but till now, i more grown up, i learn how to be indepedent to help, encourage my mother and my little brother.
I become stronger and more mature, but in relationship i don't have much experience and i am trying to learn it day by day.
Sometimes i feel i am too old for my age because losing my real father has changed myself so much.


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

Sorry to hear that.I hope you will be an independent girl.You are still very young and you will have experience in relationship when times go by.
Take care

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5. myLot reputation of 83/100. rogue13xmen13 (7217)   ranked 2,046 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

Far too many changes if you ask me. I have been through a lot in ten years.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. scorpiostar (574)   ranked 3,403 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

if talk about ten years of my life I made general changes of my life- delivered a child and get my own living place... there were my main ...


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

Thank you for your reply but..do you still get something elst to say?

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. natrlvr2 (343)   ranked 6,653 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

First I have been through hell and back acouple times in the last 10 years.8 yrs. ago my husband was turning sexually weird(with me) and I was suspecting him of sexually abusing our son.I already knew he was getting too physically and emotionally rough with him.So I never left him alone with him,trying to get proof.But before I got any proof,he field for divorce and the divorce court gave him 50/50 custody.I tried like H in getting supervised visitation.(since ex admitted to being abused as a child and he also was always stoned and drunk)But the court system,vistation mediators and my lawyer did not care.Neither did Child Protection Agency.During this time I was also fighting for disability.So I was going through a divorce and fighting for disabiltiy at the same time and I had NO income other that my small child supoort check.(took 6 yrs. to win my disability claim,I was divorced 3 years into my fight)
There is not much I can change in my life.Other than finding a man for another relationship but 7 yrs. have gone by and I am in no hurry.Less stress-being a single mom is enough emotional stress for me.


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

Sorry to hear that,I hope you will get over it.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. patgalca (6035)   ranked 118 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

Ten years ago I had an 8 month old baby on my hip and suffering with chronic pain and fatigue. I was in the early stages of fibromyalgia. From there I went to five years of litigation and constant pain and stress and weight gain. I now experience less pain and less stress, but still have the illness and its symptoms, I am not dealing with litigation and that baby will be eleven years old this summer. Oh, and I lost 30 pounds. To look back at pictures I can't believe how big I was. My face alone was so fat.

My hobbies have changed as I had to give up bowling due to my illness. I now have this darn computer which keeps me occupied so much of the time, but I have also joined a writing group and accomplished a lot in this life long endeavour. I should have started earlier, when I first got sick, but that was the last thing on my mind.

I don't think I am anymore patient, but I am a lot less angry and have accepted a great many things in life, including realizing what may be bad can actually be blessings in disguise.


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

Take care of yourself and I hope you will get over the hard time.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. misheleen73 (3135)   ranked 28 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

I have been married for 11 years, so not too much different on the "love life" aspect. We have both grown together to make our relationship what it is. 10 years ago the 17th, I was in the hospital having my first son, which was a very difficult process, I had many difficulties. But 10 years ago to this day, I was home with my baby, and marveled by his every little action. I have a better financial status now than I did 10 years ago. We are much better off that way now. It's hard when the kids are very young. I am who I am, and have been for a very long time. Love me or hate me, I am me!! I do want to work on my self esteem and weight though. I am very unhappy with these things right now. I have had weight & self esteem issues throughout my life, so that's not really "new" in the last 10 years.


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

At least you do not need to worry about yoru finance, it is a good news.
For he self esteem and weight issues, I think there must be some ways to solve the problem, no worry.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. Calais (7038)   ranked 1,031 out of 38,357 in life   3 years ago

For sure. We have bought a luxurious house, I have had 2 children, I am more content with life now, wealth hasnt changed..still in debt..lol. More wrinkles,more happier. Life is much better now though.


myLot reputation of 94/100. easy888 (4305)   ranked 647 out of 38,357 in life  3 years ago

Good on you. You have a good life now.
But it is normal for us to get older and get wrinkles:(. but at least you are happier,it is ok.

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