what when your best friend is in love with YOU???

Its happen like that for me before but for me if you are my friend you remain my friends.I did the best explanation that time I love him us my best friend only.Theres nothig more than that I understand what he feel but he can't understand what I feel for him.So were two confused to each other and thats the reason why we are not friend anymore.

that does happen sometimes. i have a friend that was there for me every step of the way and i loved them but i didnt want to be in love with them they were like my brother lol. it is nice when that happens though. you feel so connected. i have had a few friends that got married divorced and then hung out with an old friend and it just blossomed into love.

yes, a good and honest friendship can be a love story too, stap by step.I am not sure that i can accept a relation like this, after frienship ...love, but never say never

I cannot suppose this cause this actually "happend" to me..!lol
Yes its true a very close friend of mine told me that he liked me since 3 years ..!! Now thats pretty big amount of days!!But he told me about this after 3 years when we parted!
Its now our friendship is compeleting 5 years!!
And I still canot make it out whether "I" love him or not But he says he is still in love with me!!
I don't know why I am finding it hard to trust on him!!I don't know why!!
But its good to have loving friends around..!!

personally, i prefer it that way. its not that i'm taking advantage of the friendship. its just that you don't become bestfriends for nothing. you become bestfriends because you share something common.. something special. your lives have already been connected.
in fact, my wife IS my bestfriend. we we're bestfriends for years. then the day came, out of simple confusion (she thought i was courting her), we became lovers. now we share our lives together, not just as friends, but as husband and wife. c",)

that would be very nice if my friend of so many years loves me and ask me to be his wife. marriage is a lifetime relationship and it is very hard to find a perfect partner, a friend is someone who has known you a long time and knows you inside and out. And I trust him with my life before he asked for marriage, so i guess it is the best union between a man and a woman, 2 friends falling in love.

i really would love to be able to love my bestfriend in such a romantic way. i love my bestfriend from way back in college. he was the perfect guy any girl would love ( i know - he is my good friend) but we have lived separate lives. i guess it is meant to be that way. but i really think the best of friends are the best of lovers.

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there's such a thin line between having deep strong feelings to the person whom you are so close with and actually beiing in love with him or her. in my opinion, having yourself fall in love with the person before having him or her as your best friend would most likely end up pretty good. otherwise, its suicidal...

people tend to have their partners less of a friend when they actually have a committment rather than love them more.

Love means when you really like someone and they like you back then you will probably fall in love. Love means to me is something special that 2 people share or people that share certain feelings toward people or 2 I should say. Its a certain feeling that is strong and comes from the heart.