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myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com1 year ago

At Christmas I got a new laptop and went to highspeed because I was feeling
pretty useless.

I needed to find a way even though I'm in bed alot to earn a little money and feel like I'm just a waste of space.

All my life I've worked long extra hours and have done what I can for others...

Then one day I couldn't go one.I was left feeling pretty discouraged.

I joined some email lists to learn what was out there in internet land.

2 months ago a woman I know from another list sent me a referral link to myLot.

I joined because I was typing alot anyway so why not get a buck or two for what I was doing anyway.

One of my first discussions was about wanting to visit Scotland in memory of my Ma's favorite Great Gran.

( http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/857603.aspx )

An incredibly sweet woman answered that discussion telling me she was from Scotland.

It seems so strange that it's only 2 months ago because surely I've know her for all my life....Maybe in a past life...lol..
I was starting to get to know some of the others and was spending alot of time on myLot...enough to dream about it

  http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/884769.aspx

at this point I gained a myLot Angel..Then a couple of others became closer to me..

Now I have a mylot family.

I've been thinking alot about this and I think that these lovely people were sent to be because I needed them desparately.

Or maybe some of you needed me..

Do you think this was fate or just happened this way?

Do you believe that everything happens for a reason?

 
 
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mummymo (10612) response was accepted on 4/27/2007.
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tags:  fate, meant to be, friends, mylot, connection
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. Penguinsangel (2797)   ranked 1,429 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

I do believe very much that everything happens for a reason. Though like I say we might not know why its happened at the time, and may never know. But there is a reason behind every little thing in my way of thinking.

I am so glad you have found such a wonderful Mylot family to help you through such a low time.:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Thanks Hun,I have gotten so much from this site.It's hard to explain it to others that aren't here.Thanks for the response.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. Lauraleigh99 (4104)   ranked 7,570 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

My lot is an awesome place isn't it? So many other sites are scams and they put my lot down. But they have always paid us like they said they would. You can earn money here and meet a lot of new people all over the world


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Yes,I'm very happy to have found it..I sure hope it stays going..so many just are not there one day..

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. kebpete (6874)   ranked 1,285 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

Oh i am so happy for you that you have,som many things that make you happy.You are so right there are so many wonderful people on here,who are always here for you when you need a friend to talk to.We are here for you any time you need any thing.tht are what close friends do for each other,we may not be able to come to your home,but we are as close as pm away and who knows some thing might brings usto meet one day.so just remember friends for life unless my lot goes under.


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

I think we should have a mylot reunion.See how many mylot users could go to one spot on earth but where?


myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (10612)   ranked 85 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Stirling, Scotland - great place!

 
4. myLot reputation of 71/100. Willowlady (9144)   ranked 3,754 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

I think the internet community is helped to find one another through the technology. The world becomes smaller and therefore we get to meet more people than otherwise we would. Am glad for you and hope that you find more like minded people to share your life with. I have a few of my own here also.


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

I have found so many good people(you included) here.I feel like I might be helping some also and that feels good.

 
5. myLot reputation of 90/100. kathy77 (6951)   ranked 2,000 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

Hi Raydene, I do believe that we were all meant to meet for a reason, for everyone really does need a friend that they can lean on and be guided by others and it is such a tremendous love and help that we all need it has been a wonderful feeling having you and my other friends that I have met on mylot I think of them all in different ways but I try to be there for whenever they need me to brighten their day it is lovely to have real true friends, and I guarantee that a lot of your friends needed you as well. xx


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Thanks Kathy you are always so sweet to me...you are a real jewel..Hugs


myLot reputation of 90/100. kathy77 (6951)   ranked 2,000 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Thank you Raydene, you mean a lot to me as well and I appreciate your friendship. xx

 
6. myLot reputation of 95/100. susieq223 (1978)   ranked 531 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

I don't know if everything happens for a reason, but I do think that reason comes from everything that happens. I believe God can use everything and can turn everything to the good. I'm very glad you got the new laptop and high speed and came onto myLot. I think the site gained a valuable contributor and I know I like your posts and feel like I have gained a friend. Nice discussion. Thanks.


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Susieq,I also think of you as a friend..Thanks for being here..hugs

 
7. myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (10612)   ranked 85 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

well since I have gained a fantastic mom out of it and I needed you so much I am sure that it is fate - I thank God every day that my wonderful friend sent me a referral for this site just when I needed it most - and that I have found you and some wonderful friends who have been so supportive and loyal! You are a very special woman ray and if I ever catch you saying that you are useless then I will get very upset with you! I feel very blessed to have you in my life and I am sure it was meant to be! xxx big hugs xxxx


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

I often think of the person that sent me a link to myLot as if she sent me a life raft in the middle of the sea..I was adrift and myLot friends hulled me in.I also am very thankful for you Sweet girl...You are the absolut best...I'm happy to have you in the family...I'm much richer.....Love ya
xoxoxo


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

I fell like when a friend sent the mylot link she threw me a life raft..I was so adrift in the sea of pain and illness that I hated to wake up in the AM...MyLot friends hulled me in and dried me off.And you Darlin are one of the best parts of myLot...I'm so happy to have you in the family..I'm richer for knowing you...Hugs


myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (10612)   ranked 85 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

tears again - you have to stop saying such nice things about me - you'll have me believing it! They sent me a life raft too honey - don't know how I would cope without you! big hugs xx


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

I think we are both on the up side with myLot...
xoxo


myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (10612)   ranked 85 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

definitely are mom - thanks for the br! xxx

 
8. myLot reputation of 99/100. whyaskq (4277)   ranked 150 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

Many people believe that whatever happens, whether good or bad is due to fate or any divine power which is beyond their control. Three months ago, I learnt in a non-religious seminar that whatver happens is never an accident. It was meant to be in the first place. This coincides with a religious teaching that all one's present condition is the result of karma, the law of cause and effect where one reaps what one sows. All things happen because of a cause and the effect will take place when the conditions are conducive for the cause to ripen.

Hence, in my opinion, the person we meet in times of need, the person we harm "accidentally" are all happenings because of the karmic law. So in your case, you must have done a lot of good deeds to enjoy the fruits now:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

You are so sweet to say that and interesting point of view..

 
9. myLot reputation of 97/100. magicalmerlin (1053)   ranked 3,416 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

I am glad that being on MyLot has helped you. I have already 'met' some wonderful people with similar views to my own. I was lacking in confidence and MyLot is helping me build it up again and feel useful.
I don't like to feel that things are already planned in life but hope that we can change things by the way we act. I hope that sowing good seeds brings rewards but I have given up watching the news as it only seems to report the bad things in the world. People like drug barons seem to have so much and good people seem to have so little sometimes I despair. Thank you for your tale of hope.


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

I'm glad it's helping you also.I know what you mean about thye bad guy having it all...hopefully we'll get ours in the next life...That is what I believe..

 
10. myLot reputation of 93/100. gabs8513 (17558)   ranked 667 out of 25,093 in mylot.com   1 year ago

Ray Sweetie I do not believe it is fate that our Paths crossed it was suppose to be for a reason
I mean I just happen to stumble on that Discussion of yours and I don't even remember how
Something led me to it and now we know why
I will always be with you Sweetie whether I am dressed as an Angel (in Jeans) or not, I will be there with you and that is a promise to you
I really hope that you will make it here one Day and I will travel from Essex to Sterling no problem
Love you xxxxxx


myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (10612)   ranked 85 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

You will not be dressed in jeans - it will be a proper angels costume - I know you can be very stubborn but so can I and you will wear an angel costume - ok! lol


myLot reputation of 93/100. gabs8513 (17558)   ranked 667 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

But why can't I wear Jeans you can get Angels in Jeans and if you can't well you know I like to be different I think you and I need to seriously talk about this you know and come to an agreement here as you say we are both Stubborn and no we will not let Gissi vote as he has it in for me right now lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (4820)   ranked 68 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Honey you can wear your jeans as long as you have your halo and wings on..We will expect some wings on our angel dog Gissi too....tee he..
xoxoxo


myLot reputation of 93/100. gabs8513 (17558)   ranked 667 out of 25,093 in mylot.com  1 year ago

Yeah thank you Ray and I will wear the Halo and the Wings
Well Mo you better find Gissi some to hehehe I will let you dress him in a Dress lol

 
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