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myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting 5 years ago

How old were you when your parents let you go out in public wearing make-up? Did you have to have your parents aproval? The reason I am asking is because my hubby and I went to Walmart to get a friend of ours a birthday gift. When we picked it up and went to the till to pay their was a lady and 3 girls with her. All 3 of them were between the ages of 4 and 10. Also all 3 of them were wearing makeup and honestly if they were my daughter I would not have let them out in public like that. Remember Mimi from the Drew Carrey Show? They looked like mini Mimi's I sware it looked like a mini clown convention! My hubby and I then agreed that our now 11 month old can't wear makeup until she's a teenager, and even then it has to have our approval. Do you think that is being too strict? Hope not!


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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. rarrimalion (626)   ranked 1,809 out of 9,011 in parenting   5 years ago

i started in middle school, i think thats a good age because thats when girls are going thru puberty and starting to lose their self esteem and gettng to experiement with makeup made me feel SO much better about myself. I'll let my daughter start to wear it in middle school too...maybe like 7th and 8th grade? I cant believe a 4 yr old was wearing make up tho, thats crazy! Its like sexual objectification of a very young child!


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Hi rarrimalion, thanks for your response! I could not believe it. Their were three girls like I said and I'd guess one was 4, the middle one was 6 or 7 and the oldet 10. I think even the oldest (10 year old) is too young for makeup. I wasn't allowed to wear makeup until I was 14! I think that's a good age. Not sure how old my daughter will be, but it will be while she's a teenager anyhow, not a 10 year old.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. CinderInMySoul (4337)   5 years ago

thats not too strict at all.

my mother didnt let me wear any kind of make-up until i turned 16yrs old. and then i could only wear foundation, powder, blush and mascara. and she showed me how to wear it so it looks NATURAL!! which in my opinion is the one talent young girls these days dont work on. they want to look like little hookers or fashion models with far too much makeup on for everyday use.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Hi CinderInMySoul, thanks for your response. I agree, girls now a days have the makeup caked on or they either look like a hooker or like they should be in the circus (clown). I would never let my child go out in public looking like that. I always thought makeup was supposed to look natural too or accent features not be one big mess!

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. sharon_ (508)   ranked 2,969 out of 9,011 in parenting   5 years ago

I agree,those little girls seem a bit young for wearing makeup. I'd be willing to bet that their probably into modeling. I was about 15 before I was allowed to wear makeup. I was only allowed to wear it "lightly". I don't think your hubby and you are being too strict! Although, you'll probably have a better ideal to what's right (wrong) when your daughter is a little bit older. I think a lot depends on the maturity of the child...


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks so much sharon, I agree. The maturity of the child is a major factor, and I'm glad it's not being strict. I just want her to use a little if she even choses to wear it at all.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. little_angel (1348)   ranked 1,595 out of 9,011 in parenting   5 years ago

Hello PurpleTeddybear
First time i went out with make up was 18 years old, my mom teach me how to wear make up, because i never wear it before that, i don't like wear make up, but now i like make up very much but i like the natural make up.
My mom want me to be a girl no boy like my brother.
Thank you


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks for your response little_angel. I'm glad to hear we are not going to be too strict on it then. That is good to know. I want her to wear the natural kind of makeup too if she choses to wear it. I'd hate for her to look like those girls at Walmart, uggghhhh!

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (24610)   ranked 886 out of 9,011 in parenting   5 years ago

My sister was around 13 when she'd try to sneak out wearing makeup and my parents were not happy about it. I was never interested in makeup and stuff like that. Why should I have to paint up my face just to impress people? I'm 25 and I've never worn makeup in my life, and I never will.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks for your response danishcanadian.
That is great that you don't wear makeup. I hope my daughter is like that. I mean if she wants to wear a bit sure, but I hope she doesn't paint her face up like a hooker and be expecting for me and her dad to just let her go. Not gonna happen!


myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (24610)   ranked 886 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

You might want to share my response with your daughter, and perhaps she'll realize that she doesn't need to wear makeup!


myLot reputation of 92/100. evelynlyp (570)   ranked 1,605 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Hey you are like me. I couldn't be bothered to as well.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

I am hoping she won't wear makeup. I will do that! I'll show her your response and tell her if you really want to wear it that bad wait till your 30 lol.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. mihimolly (4889)   5 years ago

LOL
My mum would have been thrilled If I had wanted to wear make up at 16,she would have been showing me how to put it on etc.
I never have worn any and never will.
My daughter didn't wear any until this last year when she turned 16.
At school we had 2 girls who came into class aged about 14 with eye make up on. Everyone was sniggering all the way through the lesson because they looked so ridiculous.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Hi mihimolly, thanks for your response!
That is great that you don't wear makeup. My only hope is that either she won't want to wear it at all, or she will want to wear it so it looks natural at 20 lol.

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. fazelath (734)   5 years ago

I started make-up in high school,i did not seek my parents permission,i was free to do any think


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

It's good that you waited until high school then atleast. I guess you could have done it sooner but didn't.

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8. myLot reputation of 87/100. sweetsue (655)   ranked 4,090 out of 9,011 in parenting   5 years ago

haha..that's kinda awkward and unusual..I don't know I think that depends on the mother. But as far as I am concern, young age at that shouldn't wear make up yet, I mean not until they are grown up.

I had used make up during high school days only on special occasions and I don't apply any onto my face on regular days. It is only when I started wroking that I apply a little make up. yes, very little make up. Just an eyeliner and light blush on. In fact, I am not really into make up.


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myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Hi sweetsue, thanks for your response. I am hoping that she will be like that. Either not wear it at all or only on special occasions and just a little bit. I know she is going to be beautiful because she is now and I don't want her to ruin that by putting a bunch of crap on her face.


myLot reputation of 87/100. sweetsue (655)   ranked 4,090 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Needless to worry. I'm sure she will be fine along the way because she has a good and loving mom.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks sweetsue, that was nice of you to say! I try my hardest to be the best mom I can be.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. evelynlyp (570)   ranked 1,605 out of 9,011 in parenting   5 years ago

I don't use makeup. I couldn't be bothered to. I prefer to sleep in more than waking up earlier just to have time to use make up. Even now at 22 I haven't ever used make up yet. The only make up I use is lipbalms and ocassionally lip gloss.


The only time there was makeup on my face was because someone put it there like when I need to get ready for my sister's wedding or when I was my cousin's bride's maid.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Hi evelynlyp, I am a light makeup user. I use lip gloss and mascara because I have very small eyelashes. The only time I really put it on is when I go out in public. Other times I wore more then that were for weddings and such.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. honeyangel (1440)   ranked 308 out of 9,011 in parenting   5 years ago

there is no way i would allow my daughter to were make untill she is a teenager,she is 6 now and want t play with the stuff i tell her no not untill she`s older.
this lady should have allowed her kids t wear make up at their ages,they are far to young.


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4613)   ranked 1 out of 9,011 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks for your response honeyangel, those were my thoughts exactly. The oldest was 10 and to me that is still way too young.

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