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myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life3 years ago

It amazes me to think how different things are these days compared to when I was growing up. My children are living in a completely different world than the one I lived in when I was their age.

The song 'A Different World' by Bucky Covington really illustrates some of the differences between now and then. Here are the lyrics, tell me what you think:

We were born to mothers who smoked and drank
Our cribs were covered in lead based paint
No child proof lids no seat belts in cars
Rode bikes with no helmets and still here we are, still here we are
We got daddy’s belt when we misbehaved
Had three TV channels you got up to change
No video games and no satellite
All we had were friends and they were outside, playin’ outside

It was a different life
When we were boys and girls
Not just a different time
It was a different world

School always started the same every day
The pledge of allegiance then someone would pray
Not every kid made the team when they tried
We got disappointed and that was all right, we turned out all right

No bottled water, we drank from a garden hose
And every Sunday, all the stores were closed

It was a different world

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. cyclonewriter (973)   ranked 810 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

This song is very true, the world changes at a rapid pace each and every day. Some of the cnages are for the better and some of them for the worse. Either way, we have to learn to live with the changes. I think the reason this song has done so well is because we all can identify with it. Great post...

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2. myLot reputation of 100/100. Heavensent53 (2615)   ranked 40 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

Hello biwaski, That sounds like a good song. I grew up in those days, and I have thought about it. My children and grandchildren will really not know those simpler times. To me it seems like we were more relaxed, (but we were kids:)
I remember my mother was thin, and had a tiny waist, with dresses that had a full skirt, gathered or pleated, and she always wore red lipstick. Long pants were uncommon, but she wear them gardening.
We were either playing or working outside, we only went in the house for meals, after it got dark, or when Mama called. We even had an outside bathroom until I was about 10, as we lived in the country.


myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

I can just picture your mom in her long pants working in the garden. What a simpler time it was back then!

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. canjo13317 (303)   ranked 5,287 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

i can relate. i remember when i was young and though about people who grew up without television, cars, stuff like that. i thought that i would never "outgrow" anything that was happening in my life. as i look back, i can remember the computer when it took up a whole room and when you programmed it and printed it the printout was little dots. you had to feed the paper in to rerun the program. kind of like a reel to reel tape player. you remember those, don't you? or 35mm movie projectors. now i sit here on my laptop. amazing. it really does make me wonder what the next generation will "outgrow". cool topic. thanks for the trip back in time.


myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

I also remember the huge cellphones that were one big rectangular box with a fat antenna sticking out of the top. It's amazing to see how those have changed in the past ten years or so as well.


myLot reputation of 94/100. canjo13317 (303)   ranked 5,287 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

you had to plug them into the car lighter to actually power them up. and the sad thing is, it doesn't seem that long ago.:(

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. Lifez2short (1408)   ranked 1,034 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

Yes things have definitely changed a lot from when we were kids. I just got done doing a discussion on how things have changed as far as letting kids play outside. It's sad but I guess there are somethings we just can not controle.

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5. Janthegran (6)   ranked 22,801 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

Aint that the TRUTH?!?

I have been reflecting a lot this lately about the different childhoods and teenage years, my children, grandchildren, myself, my mothers and my grandmothers and indeed my great grandmothers have experienced.

Do you know I think WE had the best!

So much so that I am actually writing a Social History type of book for my Grand children and hopefully THEIR grandchildren to go alongside the Geneology CD that I am completing. I thought a social history would be far more interesting then a load of dusty crusty names and dates, and faces of people they have not got a clue about. I know I would love to have had that done for me. So as I said before on reflection and as its turning out, yep, WE GOT THE BEST!!!


myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

That is a great idea! I think I may 'borrow' that and start working on something for my family as well.

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. TeresaK (8081)   ranked 1,526 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

Except for the part about the mother who smoked and drank, I would say that pretty much summed up my life. And while I've tried to keep my children's lives as simple as possible, as well, it's not that easy when they think that they have to keep up with the rest of the world.


myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

It's hard for children to be children these days with all the new technology that is out. I live in the same neighborhood that I grew up in, and I remember the neighborhood being full of us kids playing outside. Now, I don't see any children outside and I know that there are lots of families in the area. It kind of makes me wonder what they are doing instead.


myLot reputation of 87/100. TeresaK (8081)   ranked 1,526 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

When my three were young, there were times they thought that I was a mean mom, and they had no problem telling me so. LOL Especially in the summertime, I would tell them that they couldn't watch tv or play video games until they went outside and got some exercise, rode their bikes, climbed trees, or just ran around in the yard, for at least an hour. Most of the time they would start playing and get caught up in what they were doing, and be out there for hours...but the idea that I was MAKING them go out instead of letting them sit around and vegetate, just made me the meanest mother EVER. LOL


myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

*LoL* You're so mean to MAKE your kids go out and play. I think more parents should do that. It can't be healthy to let your child sit in front of the tv or play video games all day.

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7. myLot reputation of 98/100. cherbe (2303)   ranked 582 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

Oh biwasaki that is soooooo true!
Personally I think it was better in our time/ our world then it is now.
Yes there are a lot of really cool and good things now but at what cost is it to are kids?
We are all so busy all the time we have no time for each other.
Kids are left to the tv, computers and video games and hardly outside to play.
Finding friends playing outside can be quite hard now and pretty rare at least where I live anyways.
I always remember going out side and you could find a friend to play with pretty much instantly.
No phone calls to say can we make a play date... it was just a knock on the door and can "so and so come out to play"
I like tht lyrics to that song they are very true we do live in a different world and time then our kids do now. For better or worse who really knows only time will tell I guess.


myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

I remember that too! No phone calls to set up play dates, just go outside and someone would be there. And you wouldn't have to worry about whether or not it was safe to be outside. I wish my kids could have that experience, but the times have changed so much since I was their age.


myLot reputation of 98/100. cherbe (2303)   ranked 582 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

I'm with you on that one biwasaki:) they were the good old times of not fearing who was wear or who might attack you or take your kids away.

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. susieq223 (1976)   ranked 42 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

You are so right. We could probably add about 50 more verses to that poem! I wonder, though, if all "older" people always kind of long for "the good old days" no matter when those days were? There are many things I do like about these days--the computer being one. (Well--I do have a love/hate relationship with my computer, but most of the time I enjoy it.) On the other hand, I am glad I am my age. I would not want to be young and just starting out now.

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9. myLot reputation of 84/100. oneandonemakesix (24038)   ranked 1,477 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

I wouldn't want to be a kid again either. Especially if I had to grow up in today's society.


myLot reputation of 84/100. oneandonemakesix (24038)   ranked 1,477 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

I can agree to that.

As cruel as kids were when I was a kid, its gotten worse and well.........needless to say kids today have all new fears....

Someone taking a weapon to school when I was akid was not one of them....you had the occasional kid who brought drugs to school....but it didn't happen often...

I watch some of the kids out behind where we live and well needless to say, Its sad to see how some of them taunt and tease others.

But truthfully sometimes I do long for the simpler life....

(but I do still want my bottled water;-P )

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. KissThis (2636)   ranked 227 out of 38,550 in life   3 years ago

I miss the good old days. Life was simplier and you didn't have to worry as much. I would love to be able to take my children back to the good old days.

I remember doing most of those things. My son ran up to me today and asked if he could go inside to get a drink. I looked over at him and said " When I was your age we didn't go inside to get a drink. We would turn on the water hose and grab a drink." He looked at me as if I asked him to commit murder.

I sure do miss those good old days.


myLot reputation of 98/100. biwasaki (1045)   ranked 668 out of 38,550 in life  3 years ago

*LoL* I can just picture my daughter's face if I told her to drink from the hose. Remember when everyone thought bottled water was a crazy idea? Now it's a necessity.

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