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dovey89 (36)   ranked 5,686 out of 11,899 in love3 years ago

i have a friend who is still inlove to his exbf who cheated on her. everytime they meet, a guy always want her to make love on him knowing that he's still having a gf. And because the girl is very inlove to the guy, she can't find any reason to refuse. as a friend, im pretty much concern to her. if you are on my situation, what would you advice to a friend? would you want her to stay on that situation or not?

 
 
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tags:  love, let go, move on, cheating
 
1. myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7158)   ranked 62 out of 11,899 in love   3 years ago

This is not love that your friend is feeling. There are many reasons why a girl would stay with a boyfriend that is not treating her right, but they all pretty much add up to low self-esteem.
It would be different if they were married, a marriage vow changes everything. You should encourage your friend to talk to a counselor about her relationship. This kind of thing can become a very unhealthy pattern in her life.
You should also help your friend to feel better about herself. Maybe you can compliment some of the things that you like about her. Make sure that you are sincere though. Sometimes our friends can help us to see good qualities in ourselves that we never knew were there. She needs to realize that she deserves better.


dovey89 (36)   ranked 5,686 out of 11,899 in love  3 years ago

well, i really do want what's the best for her... thanks for the response=)

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. huilee (683)   ranked 439 out of 11,899 in love   3 years ago

hell no man...
u have a gf, why do u need me to make love to u?
right?
if not, if u really love me, leave her...
u cant expect to have both of the world man...
but i suppose, if u were to tell the girl, she wouldnt listen, because the person involves cant see anything...

perhaps, u could in turn narrates it as ur own experience, or another friends experience and let her know that the same thing is happening to her...
u need to help her get out of all this shites man...
but im glad u r there to care for her...


dovey89 (36)   ranked 5,686 out of 11,899 in love  3 years ago

thats cool.. i will take your advice thanks

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3. dwynne (70)   ranked 10,368 out of 11,899 in love   3 years ago

Your friend is not on her right mind at this time maybe because of the breakup. But it's good that you are there to guide her. She needs a little shaking, and that may take time. Just be very patient in making her go back to her senses. Make her realize that she's just adding more pain to the wound. Talk to her a lot!


dovey89 (36)   ranked 5,686 out of 11,899 in love  3 years ago

i cant help seeing her that way.. yeah im still finding new tricks to wake her senses up... thanks for the response


dwynne (70)   ranked 10,368 out of 11,899 in love  3 years ago

and do it real quick before it's too late. more heartaches and pains ahead!

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. sheryl_natividad (124)   ranked 1,271 out of 11,899 in love   3 years ago

what a guy. his just using your fren for his own need. if i were you if you knw the other gf of the guy tell her whats her boyfrends doing.


dovey89 (36)   ranked 5,686 out of 11,899 in love  3 years ago

if only i have an idea about his gf i would.. but i dunno who the girl is... thanks for the response, i appreciate it


myLot reputation of 80/100. sheryl_natividad (124)   ranked 1,271 out of 11,899 in love  3 years ago

even you fren?

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5. myLot reputation of 69/100. boracay2862 (901)   ranked 2,646 out of 11,899 in love   3 years ago

hi! hello! for me a real friend would always wants to see her friend to be happy not to be use abuse or just play around. no one is perfect but we usually want to be right then to be wrong.... have a nice day!

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. rikki8 (181)   ranked 11,499 out of 11,899 in love   3 years ago

Very simply " it takes two to tango". I think they are not inlove but in lust or inflame with one another. With love comes understanding and trust. When you are taken and still want to have sex with an ex partner, definitely, there is something wrong with the present relatioship then or something missing. If you were totally happy and contented with your present partner, why look for somebody else to have sex with unless you were just toying with that person. Or you just cannot have enough sex with your present partner. Both ways, you certainly do not deserve to be in a relationship if that is the case!

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