Misery is the secret to happiness. We can not avoid miseries so accept them.  

Yes, I agree with that to a point. If miseries happen on occasion and it is not an ongoing thing. So people seemed to be plagued by miseries or bad luck, if you will. Then what? Do you just accept that as part of your life? It seems that my brother is in constant misery. If it is not one thing, it is another. I admire him for the way he laughs about it off when I know he is really hurting inside. It seems the more he tries to walk one step ahead he falls two steps behind. He DOES accept it, I am not so sure that I could accept ill happenings so easily if it were constantly happening to me.

You really get tired facing misfortunes which come in battallions. agreed that it is foreboding of ensuing happiness. But isn't it heartbreaking to suffer a lot in silence .?

There is no such thing as bad luck, just bad thoughts. We are the creators of how we live our life, you don't inherit it, so we live the way we choose to. If bad things keep happening its because you are attracting it to you like a magnet. Like attracts like, you need to bring happy positive thoughts into your thinking and good things will happen. If you keep saying "I don't want this and I don't want that" that's all you are going to get. You need to ask for good things like "I want a lot of money so much money that I have it coming out of my ears" and it will come, not right away but it will. You need to read the book called The Secret by Rhonda Byrnes, it is a very uplifting book and will tell you why bad things keep happening, believe me I have read the book once and I am currently reading it again and it has changed my life and it will do the same for you. Life is supposed to be happy not full of misery.