what could say or think the people!!!

I think in a way no matter what we say we do, in one way or other we actually care about what other people think - especially when it comes to people who are close to us and people who we care about.

I used to care a lot about what would people think and that made my life hell. I learned to not care anymore and I do feel much better. Of course I try to be reasonable and not do stupid things. But now I do things to please myself not other people.

I used to do things in the past just because people would think good about me. I couldn't say no to some things for the same reason: I cared about what would people think. That made my life miserable because it made me do things that I didn't want to do. But now I can say no and I don't mind about what would people think. And there is always people who would criticize and think bad about you, so why bother? Good luck vendurilla.