Does your spouse aprove of Vibrators?

My husband is the same as he doesn't want me to have one either. I have asked for it a few times in the past years. Once it was my birthday, he wanted to know what present I wanted and I told him I wanted a vibrator. His answer was disgusting.:-(((

The thing you need to stress with him is that it isn't just for your pleasure, it's for his as well. (Not in*that* way) But no, tell him it's just another way that*he* can pleasure you, and let him do that. Let him take charge with the vibrator.

Stress to him that as much as you love what he does, it's humanly impossible for his fingers to do what a vibrator can, and stick to that argument. Tell him that it ISN'T a replacement for him - it's just something that HE can help add to the sex.

This is a fear I think most men have but it comes from one thing. If you now need a vibrator it tells him he no longer is enough to satisfy you. This is a big concern of all men. If you could convince him that you would get it so that he could use it on you I think you would find him more receptive. But if it's just for you...and there really is no reason why not....he feels like it is only a matter of time and that is all you will want. That is a very big threat.

You have to know that one of the most important things to a man is how attracted his lady is to him. Extremly important.

I guess I have never liked using toys. If I have my husband there I don't need anything else. I have never seen the whole reason for using something else than what your husband can do for you and with you.

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My fiance and I joke about that all the time, because he lives in the USA, and I live in Canada. Because neither of us are citizens of the other country, we spend some time apart. LOL People have to do SOMETHING when they are away from eachother. It's a joke between the two of us.