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myLot reputation of 79/100. maybel13 (170)   ranked 1,882 out of 5,020 in family 5 years ago

YOur mom is aware of the situation that you have a boyfriend at a young age ( lets say 16-17 years old) and she's very supportive of you because she gives you the trust that you'll be responsible. Your mother however is strict that she reinforces all the time that you must not have an intercourse with anyone until you got married. Now, this thing happened that you got yourself pregnant. What shall you do? Would you tell her immediately? But your afraid about her reaction..
That situation is very difficult and it's unfortunate that you have to worry about figuring out on how and when to tell your mother about your pregnancy, thinking that you're still too young fot it. But with all of this, you have to accept first the situation you're facing and the reaction of your mother once you tell her. Although your mom may feel dissapointed, but she cant do anything about it but to accept. This may serve as a lesson to you that you must obey and listen to your parent's advises.


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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. Gemmygirl1 (2628)   ranked 732 out of 5,020 in family   5 years ago

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. mightycrumbgirl (290)   ranked 4,554 out of 5,020 in family   5 years ago

This is a very difficult situation, but I'm fortunate to have very loving and understanding parents. if this were to happen to me, I know that my parent would support me and do everything they could to help. Of course they would be disappointed, and they would probably be upset, but I would not hesitate to tell both my mother and father, because I know that they would be very understanding.

It's a shame that so many young girls these days feel the need to hide something like this from their parents. I know it's a difficult situation for a parent to come to terms with - and also extremely difficult for the girl, too, and i consider myself very lucky to have parents who I know I can go to for help.

An unplanned pregnancy can come as a shock to everyone, and I think it's a shame that there's so much of a stigma around it - people assume that the girl was being careless, or sleeping around, but very often it's due to failure of contraception and other reasons that cannot always be helped. Many people feel ashamed, and afraid that they will bring a bad name to their family, so they keep it to themselves. However, I think that I would go to my parents straight away, and let them know, so they would have time to accept the situation.

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. shane1987 (1301)   5 years ago

hi there my friend, its a nice question, all i can say to this is dont be afraid to tell your mom that your pregnant because she is our mom and i know that she will still accept us because mom loves theres kids. i know that if we tell our mom that we are pregnant she might help us also. because our mom knows the best.


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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. wendy805 (147)   ranked 3,498 out of 5,020 in family   5 years ago

frankly speaking,i have been in such a situation twice, and my way to do it is to conceal from my parents.at that time, i have gone through a very, very hard time.i don't think my bf can know my pain well,he just think it is his responsibility.he can not understand me very well at that time.i was totally alone. at that time, i cried a lot.even i was so lonely and hard,i did not tell my mother,because i can't stand their dispointment and anxiety about me.i am always good girl in their eye,i dont want to destroy it.i know it is silly, but i did so.and it was really hard time.

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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. wonderful1 (1936)   ranked 140 out of 5,020 in family   5 years ago

I am afraid to tell my mom that I'm pregnant. When I was 20 years old, I'm pregnant. I am very terrible about it. My former bf is not responsible man, he is terrible too, and he doesnt know how to do it. Finally, I have a miscarriage and I say goodbye to him.
Now I find a bf, he is responsible man and he loves me very much. I want to be pregnant in the future.

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6. mandie_mae (86)   5 years ago

well i got pregnant with my daughter when i was 18. i didnt want to tell my mom ata ll. she found out on her own ofcourse. but it took her 5 months to figure it out! lol! she was mad that i hadnt told her yet but happy to have a new granddaughter.

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. mansha (4849)   ranked 103 out of 5,020 in family   5 years ago

APart form being a lesson to the young, I think the earliest anyone tells about it sooner something cqan be done about it.Like terminating prregnancy and save a young life. I am no way in favor of abortion but with so many incidents of premature births and other gynaec troubles at the age of sixteen and even after birth complications, I would suggest young people to go for abortion because thats the best decision in that kind of situation.

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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. wendy805 (147)   ranked 3,498 out of 5,020 in family   5 years ago

life is such a joke. now i myself in again in such a situation!
i will not be beat down by the life's joke!

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. wendy805 (147)   ranked 3,498 out of 5,020 in family   5 years ago

life is such a joke to me. now i am in such a situation! however,i will not be beat down by the life's joke!

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