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 I am into deep relationship, with a very sweet girl. But i have one problem since i am into relationship with her. She likes to have oral sex...But in response she totally denies to give me back oral sex. Some time she enjoys to limits and she moans,..But later on she like to have my Pen#s in her p#ssy. But when i need her to pleasure me she totally deny to make me happy.Instead she get angry or annoyed.Please i am in deep trouble.Some time i gets frustrated that she is not deep into my love. But as a whole she is loyal to me. So please help me in this regard.If any one have any suggestion to make her pleasure me as she always needs.Thanks
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1.  Booffy (242) | 3 years ago |  yes mate ... don't force the issue, if you into her as much as you say then you keep pleasing her this way but don't insist she return the pleasure .... in time it will happen.... just let her proceed at her speed, and be kind to her ... resprct her view on this and as i say it will happen
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| kazoo26 (4) | 3 years ago | thanks for the advice..i love her as i can do..but some time i do feel insecure and disrespected due to this behavior, when she completely reply me negatively..and some more i am not a kind of person who really insist too much for the oral. | |
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| Booffy (242) | 3 years ago | Thank you myluv... i was brought up in another generation, maybe with different values, I bow to yourself and people your age age ... and on reflection i agree with you ... yes i should be talked about | |
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 babyboo3980 (1333) | 3 years ago |  saying be patient and that it will happen isn't always the case.. I was with my ex for 4 years, and I pleasured him every single time he wanted it, and he never in the 4 yrs we were together, reciprocated the favor for me, and I did try and talk to him about it, but it never helped. Yes I understand that you can't force someone to do it, but if you like oral a whole lot, but the person doesn't reciprocate, that, to me is wrong...If one person gets it, the other should too..If not, then do away with oral all together...That way, there will be nothing to fight over anymore, and this way is fair because neither one of you are getting it.
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| Booffy (242) | 3 years ago | well it seems that i am living in a different era ... i never had this problem because i gave and recieved with pleasure ... i still say though that respect is upper most | |
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| 2. vicki2876 (3261) | 3 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| kazoo26 (4) | 3 years ago | Thanks for the advice and help.Actually i am not really into oral!! i do like it once in a while, but she keep insist for oral if i offer a ride. I really love her because she don't want to loose me at any cost.So shall i be rude or negative to her...I think no thats why i can't deny her any wish which i can fulfill. Some time she act that she is interested but she don't do or talk about this issue with me.Even i tries to talk to her once in a while.But i would say again that the time i have spent with her until now is wonderful.Its going to be more than 3 years and we have came in deep love and sympathy with each others. But at the end in our sexual life she is satisfied with me, so do i..but some time her this strict behaviors makes me really frustrated. | |
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| babyboo3980 (1333) | 3 years ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content. | |
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| 3. alnilam (462) | 3 years ago |  you must not assume anything. talk about it with here but do not pressure here or give her aggressive questions. there could be multiple reasons. i did not want to do it to because i got this stupid fear that i will throw up on him while doing it and the more i thought about that, the more chance it had to really happen, when we discussed my "fear" everything was OK, because he reassured me that if a thing like that happens he would not mind (i mean he will not exactly be happy, but we will go through it). so talk about it with her. the answer could be very simple, but you must be willing to listen to her.
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| 4. jess_d_blue (158) | 3 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| myluv4yesash (170) | 3 years ago |  I do agree with you, he shouldn't force the subject, but he definitely needs to bring it up to her and hopefully things will work out. But yes definitely NO FORCE..:)
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5.  Ejobsuccess (345) | 3 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| myluv4yesash (170) | 3 years ago | See this is where I'm going to dissagree with my buddy ejobsuccess, don't take it personal buddy. I don't agree with the fact that if she doesn't do it for him, he shouldn't do it for her. That's just going to cause more friction to the relationship and it's just going to be harder. Next thing you know it, they'll be taking revenge in all the little small things in life. I say, TALKING about it is the key. And I do agree with you, if she gives him the run around, then clearly, she either has a problem. Wether it's a psychological trauma she might've had in a previous relationship or it could be that she just cant' bring herself to do it, but whatever the case may be, IT NEEDS TO BE DISCUSSED and RESOLVED FAST! | |
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| 6. wifeytype (47) | 3 years ago |  I agree with the other ladies here... come right out and ASK her what is going on. My suspicion is she has some reason she doesn't do it; but you won't know unless you talk to her. Since you are in a "deep relationship" as you say, you will need to discuss things like this openly. But I also agree DON'T force her!! That would definitely turn her off and possibly make her not even want to do anything... And don't write it off as she doesn't love you. This might have nothing to do with love, just sexual comfort. It sounds like she probably loves you a lot.
I would say if she is open to talk about, discuss what ways you two could make it more comfortable or acceptable for her. Good luck.
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| 7. melissa29 (92) | 3 years ago |  I must agree with the rest of the posters here. Just sit down and talk with her about it. She may be afraid to for some reason or another or she may not like it. As a woman myself, I don't always do it--for me I sometimes don't feel like it, but my husband loves it--so I try to do it as often as I can. Good luck!
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| 8. wisedragon (2185) | 3 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| 9. myluv4yesash (170) | 3 years ago | I agree with most of your other commentors. I think you should come out clean and tell her how much you love to please her and would love to be pleased in return. Always keep your sexual life a topic you are comfortable to talk about at all times. You both should be comfortable enough to say things to each other without beating around the bush. Lol, bush. Anyways, I think that if she really values your love, your needs as a man, she will please all your sexual needs as your partner.
Now, if you come out clean and things don't get resolved, or she might not want to talk about it, or simply gets upset, I think you have a problem. I don't agree with your first comment at all. You shouldn't ignore the subject at all. It clearly is something that bothers you and it should be spoken about like two mature adults. Again, if as you bring up the subject, she feels as though she wants no part of it, kazoo26, I think things won't work out for you guys. Sexual pleasure is one of the most important needs of a relationship, and if it doesn't get satisfied by your partners, it will someday lead to cheating, separation, etc etc.
Good luck... | |
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| kazoo26 (4) | 3 years ago | thanks for the advice, most probably it can resolved like this.But here got the problem that she don't really want to discuss about any such topic nor she is interested to talk about. She consider that i am a young boy who just follow the lust....that makes me feel not to discuss too much.... i ope she will change one day and will be nice partner in all dimensions. | |
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| 10. babbla21 (71) | 3 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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