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myLot reputation of 96/100. hersmart4ever (4396)   ranked 135 out of 35,362 in people3 years ago

It happened to me only once and that was when I was in the first year. I had a very pretty classmate and she has also been a very close friend of mine. I do not know why I love looking at her and I feel inspired whenever I see her. But that was long ago and I said it happened only once. Well, I was always sure of my gender now. I am a 100% woman and I think the reason why I am confused then is that I just appreciate her beauty so much. Besides, I was so young then.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 77/100. rinaaus (967)   ranked 3,682 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

it wasn't mean confusing about gender! I'd like to look at beautiful girl too. We're all like to look at beautiful things, so I don't see any problem with that.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. angel_of_charm (2710)   ranked 1,625 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

i was like that too you know..i feel inspired when i see good looking girls which seems to be perfect to me..i admire them but i don't want to get involved to them..i am still a straight girl..just cant help but admire them because they seem to be so perfect to me and i wish i have the same thing too

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. craftcatcher (2277)   ranked 452 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

I don't think that's a gender issue, you didn't feel like a man did you? It may have been a short term sexuality issue but everyone can appreciate beauty, male or female, and it's not unusual to be attracted to someone you find beautiful.

You were always 100% woman.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. Ariander (478)   ranked 827 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

I think I have two answers to this. One is that (concerning gender), yes, I've wanted to be a guy before. Or rather, I wanted to have the common perceived characteristics of a male (not actually be a male/have a male body) up until a few years ago. Even though the world is changing, I still think that males are usually portrayed as braver, more confident, etc (even though that is not always the case) Also, I up until recently I didn't like "girly" stuff (like make-up, chatting about guys, watching "chick flicks" etc) at all. Now I like more feminine stuff, but I'd still rather be a prince than a princess if that makes sense (:
Concerning sexuality, I've never really had a crush on a girl before, even when I've really really admired a girl's personality or looks. There just has never been that "specialness" as with having a crush guys.

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. sunshinecup (5911)   ranked 1,050 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

No I can't say I ever have been confused with it. I think other's were about me for awhile because I was such a Tom Boy and choose to play and hang around boys more so than girls, but other than that no.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. josan181237 (609)   ranked 2,538 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

never. i'm very sure i am 100% woman. hehe. i maybe boyish but i'm definitely a woman. i just don't wear skirts and fancy clothes. i'm more comfortable wearing cargo pants and shirts. i only wear skirts when required or when there's an occasion or a job interview. i like loose clothes because i can move freely without being conscious if i'm showing too much skin. hehe=)

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. andrejuly84 (807)   ranked 5,510 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

i am 100% woman,i am very sure.never happened to me to feel attract by another woman and i don't know but i'm not agree with homosexuality

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. lecanis (7212)   ranked 215 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

I don't really understand how that would be a gender issue unless you felt you were male... what you're talking about would be questioning your sexual orientation.

I've had gender issues my whole life, because I've never been interested in enough things that other people consider "feminine". I don't feel like I should be male, but I don't really feel like I'm all that feminine, so I used to worry that something was wrong with me. I finally gave up and decided being me was enough.

As for sexual orientation, I've known for a long time that I'm bisexual, long enough that I don't even remember when I figured it out. My first crush as a little kid was on another girl, and the one after that on a boy.=p

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9. myLot reputation of 87/100. ayseteyze (189)   ranked 3,418 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

i agree that it's not a gender problem. there may be some people, even boy or girl, that you can not stop looking to them. being confused about your gender may be the case when you find yourself thinking about that person or having some physical attractions to her.

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. dbhattji (1811)   ranked 736 out of 35,362 in people   3 years ago

I don't understand how appreciating the beauty of someone should confuse you - if I like the looks of another or their dressing style and I try to be like them then there is nothing wrong in that - specially many boys like heroes and try to emulate them.

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