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myLot reputation of 96/100. hersmart4ever (4396)   ranked 135 out of 35,431 in people3 years ago

What do you think is the best way to deal with overly jealous partners? They would usually check on our cell phones, wallets, demand for passwords, demand that they should bring them along with us when we have to go somewhere, etc. If your partner is like this, what would you do?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. matte5 (596)   ranked 898 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

Hello.
I hawe lived with a partener who was like that and after one year I hawe to brake up it will not go well living with someone who is jealous, you can do nothing and you dont hawe a life and it will kill you as a person.
Hawe a nice day.


myLot reputation of 75/100. free_forward (133)   ranked 3,461 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

Wish you have a nice tomorrow!
Just so!

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. sunshinecup (5911)   ranked 1,054 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

Dump them and move on. I had one once that was like that, not at the start mind you but months later when he got comfortable. It didn't last long, once I seen he wasn't going to change and I couldn't do nothing for him but give in which was somthing I couldn't live with, I just broke it off and moved on.


myLot reputation of 75/100. free_forward (133)   ranked 3,461 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

You are right!
Congratulations!

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20543)   ranked 851 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

Run like crazy, far far away. That is not a healthy relationship, and it could get to be an unsafe relationship as well. I am my own person, and I deserve my own freedom. I would not stay in that situation for a minute. Love is not fearful and demanding.


myLot reputation of 96/100. hersmart4ever (4396)   ranked 135 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

That was a very fine comment. Thanks.


NecroBiotic (16)  3 years ago

yeah... and that kind of people never change

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. easyliving (1541)   ranked 4,664 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

If my partner was like that I would leave them. There is absolutely no reason a person should have to be treated like a common criminal unless of course they are one. Now if you have given reason for them to be so jelous and possessing than it takes a long, long time to get that trust back if ever.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. abroji (1639)   ranked 257 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

Before selecting a partner for our business we should observe and understand the charecter of the person. I will not engage with someone who is not closely attached with me. Even then there are chance for that person to develope some jelousy towards me. In that case I will be cautious and keep most intimate things away from him/her. If I find the person unbearable I will finally detatch trucks with that person.

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6. myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7158)   ranked 2,159 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

Partners like this are way more harmful than we may think. We may be flattered by their actions and think that they are cute. But in truth, we need to run, keep on running and never look back this is very dangerous situation to be in.
Jealousy is nothing to play with. Any person who will demand anything of you is no good for you. These are the men who say things like, if I can't have you, no one can and then blow your brains out.
There is a lady who was on the Oprah Winfrey show that they call, "The Lady Without A Face." Her boyfriend promised her that he would kill her and her family. Instead of taking him seriously, she allowed the mother to move in.
To make a long story short, he fatally shot the mother in the stomach and shot his girlfriend in the face and left her for dead. The mother was able to make it to a neighbors house to call 911. When the paramedics arrived, they were so sure that the woman was dead that they were stepping over her face.
She survived, but her face is permenantly disfigured and she hast to live with the guilt of what happened to her mother for the rest of her life. I was in a potenially abusive relationship when I heard this story and I got out of it.
Now, I am working on myself daily and waiting for God to send me the right man for me. It does not make any sense for me to play Russian Roulette in love, when I can wait on the Lord for my Adam.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. lecanis (7212)   ranked 214 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

I would definitely leave a partner like that. I would say "If you can't trust me, then obviously we shouldn't be together." I really can't stand jealousy, to be honest. It's one of the biggest destroyers of relationships. I would even say it destroys more relationships than cheating does, because many people who cheat only do it after repeatedly being unjustly accused by their partners.

If I were ever with a jealous partner, I would tell them they had a very short time to stop that behavior, and if it didn't stop, I would leave them.

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8. myLot reputation of 75/100. free_forward (133)   ranked 3,461 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

Sometimes say 'no' to them!
It is essencial and can protect you!

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9. myLot reputation of 47/100. revdauphinee (4120)   ranked 5,089 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

i would leave because if you dont have trust then you dont realy have anything worth working on!

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. andrejuly84 (807)   ranked 5,515 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

my partner is something like this and still don't know what to do to calm him down and don't know if he would ever change and renounce to his ill jealousy.he's getting me nuts.oh,i just can't resist with this.if i ask him to don't be so jealous he says: "and what do you want me to do"to shut up and let you f*** with others?"
how to explain him that i don't need to do this and if i would want to do it i could do it without he would find even if he wants to control everything i do


rubix18 (23)  3 years ago

me too.. i have a boyfriend now who is really jealous. i dont know what to do.. yes its good to be jealous to our partner but in a nice way and not too much. we have our own lives. Trust is an essential thing in a relationship. Jealousy is a destroyer. It also connects to being insecure. I don't know maybe he's just afraid of his own ghost. Sometimes, I want to quit the relationship. But I love him, but his jealousy or being overprotected pisses me off. It seems like, I cant breathe anymore. He's always checking on my site. It seems like I'm a criminal. I'm not ever treated this before with my past relationships. But now, I am into this relationship which really I cant bear anymore. Oh I dont know what to do. What I've been to with my life. But after those doubts he will tell me, on the next day ---- sorry for being stupid. But I'ts always like that. How long will I understand him and how long can I have patience with his silliness or misconceptions about me? I want to be me, I want to be free but having a supportive and trusted partner. Oh I wish he will change for the betterment of the relationship. I wish and pray for that...

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