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sjchristian (45)   ranked 1,344 out of 2,199 in wife 5 years ago

I think we have a healthy sexual life, on average its about 3-4 times a week. Mostly because our life schedules are incompatible.
I take care of the 2 kids starting about 7-7:30am he wakes up about 10 goes to the gym and gets home about 1 hangs with the kids, eats lunch, showers and leaves for work by 3pm. He doesn't get home until about midnight sometimes closer to 1am.
It's summer time so it's hard to steal away from the kids for a while to do the do. And I am completely uncomfortable about doing our thang while my oldest is running around the house doing 10 y.o kid stuff and g-forbid he has friends over.
I think we are pretty normal, even the times when we go a week to a week and a half without "adult time".

 

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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. ljegbers (5726)   5 years ago

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. tina12679 (914)   ranked 2,131 out of 2,199 in wife   5 years ago

wow you are doing a whole lot better then me and my hubby LOL. He works and I dont right now (hoping to change that) so i am at home with the 3 kids all day and when he gets home at 5 pm he showers eats super either watches a little tv or plays his PS2 then goes off to bed around 9 to get back up in the morning and do it all over again. Whats even worse I have developed on heck of a snore so when we sleep together I keep him awake so out of courtesy I have been sleeping on the couch during the week. and he also works on Saturday a half day so the only night I get to sleep in bed is saturday night and then we have sunday at home together and there are times we steal away and go do our thing. But I would say on a average MONTH we only do the do about 5 or 6 times. If that really. Thata a good month LOL

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. sedel1027 (12989)   ranked 11 out of 2,199 in wife   5 years ago

I think we are above average for most couples, we do the deed daily, sometimes more often. We are on pretty much the same schedule, get up around 7am. I work from 7:30-1:30, he works 9-5. If his boss doesn't feed them lunch, we get together for lunch before I go pick up my son (during the school year he takes the bus home and gets home much later in the day). I take online classes so usually my afternoons are taken up with doing homework. We usually have the kiddo in bed no later than 9:30 during the week and we usually stay up until midnight. So even if we can't grab the chance while my son is busy doing other things or at a friends house, we can find time before bed.

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4. myLot reputation of 37/100. coolguy01 (2517)   5 years ago

Whow , your husband must be in real good shape,or he drinks few energy drinks daily. Or you know some real good tricks..... 3-4 a week it's must above average. The only time I had 3-4 times a week when I was a lover and not a husband. Keep up the good work and always enjoy adult time LOL.

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. andrejuly84 (807)   5 years ago

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. mamasan34 (4084)   ranked 187 out of 2,199 in wife   5 years ago

Considering you are on the average of 3-4 times a week, you are very fortunate! Many marriages go weeks without any activity. So, good for you for making the time together! This is often the most overlooked part of marriage and it is a very important one.

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. Ravenladyj (19028)   ranked 230 out of 2,199 in wife   5 years ago

LOL well there was a time when we were goin at it a few times a day or at least once a day..these days though with all that has gone on in the past 9 yrs we're only doing it a couple times a yr (seriously)...

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8. myLot reputation of 90/100. mistissa (1196)   ranked 1,964 out of 2,199 in wife   5 years ago

Once a week and sometimes 2. I know it is not a lot, but we are so busy with everything else. That is why we don't have a lot of time for each other. And when we do we are both very tired

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9. myLot reputation of 82/100. candiec2005 (745)   5 years ago

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10. celovich (24)   5 years ago

wooow with two kids, i think you guys are doing more than alright! Congrats on having such a healthy relationship! I think thats even good for people who DONT have kids.

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