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myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)4 years ago

do you believe parents today are too laid back when it comes to their children.

 
 
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tags:  parents, children, kids, strict, laid back
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. saphire539 (1173)   4 years ago

No i think there are still alot of parents out there that are still strict with there kids


myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)  4 years ago

thank your for your response

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. wahmbuddy (323)   4 years ago

Yes I think a lot of parents are too laid back. I also think that a lot are afraid to discipline their children, and by that I DON'T mean hitting them. Over the last 10 - 15 years it has become more difficult to act as a parent without someone else stepping in. I think it is possible to love your children and bring them up to know right from wrong and to respect ppl and things.


myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)  4 years ago

I agree. I also believe the children use this to their advantage. thanks for your response


myLot reputation of 97/100. lizabeth (499)  4 years ago

I agree. Some parents don't realize that trying to be a friend hurts them in the long run. Children need guidance.


myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)  4 years ago

true you need to be a parent first a friend second.


myLot reputation of 93/100. wahmbuddy (323)  4 years ago

I agree with both of you.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. uzaircs (1166)   4 years ago

i belirve it


myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)  4 years ago

thank you for response.

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. achilles7 (1047)   4 years ago

the prime duty of the parent is to correct their kids when they are wrong and appreciate when they are doing what they ought to do.Encouragement is also essential like punishments or scolding. Be dare to scold and give plenty of appraisal.


myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)  4 years ago

Praise is necessary, without praise gives children less self confidence and no incentive to do good. thanks for your response

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. srhelmer (5534)   4 years ago

I believe many parents are lost when it comes to disciplining their kids.
If they spank them, it's abuse.
If they yell at them, it's abuse.
If they lock them in their room, it's neglect.
And, unfortunately, the only methods left don't work.


myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)  4 years ago

I agree with that. and as I said before children use this knowledge to their advantage. thanks for reply

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. tentwo67 (2451)   4 years ago

I think that there is a full spectrum of parenting out there. I think that there is probably more parental neglect these days than in the past - it can be so easy to sit a child in front of the television and go about your own business. I think there are also people who are going to the extreme of being a control freak about their kids to try to produce a super progeny. Then there are a lot of folks in between who are trying their best and doing better some days than others. I think regardless of our ages, we are all still kids inside, and some days are easier than others to make the pieces fit. I count myself in there. Some days it is really a struggle.


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myLot reputation of 98/100. grump0ne (656)  4 years ago

very well said..thanks for reply.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. themyl (593)   4 years ago

In my opinion from observations, I think that most parents are not laid back when it comes to their children. On the other hand, some parents seem not to care about their children and what happens to them.
About a month ago my son’s friend (a 9-year-old boy) was run over by a pick-up truck on the road. The little boy was about 2 miles away from his house. This is how they were because of lack of parental guidance.
The little boy died a few days later, God rest his soul.
We are NOT the types of parents that allow our kids to go to their friend’s house, call us Over protective or whatever, but we Love our Children and don’t want any harm to befall them.

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8. myLot reputation of 70/100. manzician (4522)   4 years ago

Hmmm... Actually it depends from person to person.. Some are and some are not...Aneewayz... THanks for your question.... Its really nice to be here at mylot... are you guys here for money or just for fun....

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. aztravelagent (225)   4 years ago

I depends on the parents. We do not allow our children to eat or drink anywhere except at the kitchen table. We do not let our children watch mainstream tv. They watch the noggin channel, disney channel, pbs kids, and the like. They are 6 and 4. They do not use the words stupid, idiot, shut up, etc. They have never heard the word crap, until we mistakenly let them watch Jurassic Park recently.


myLot reputation of 93/100. aztravelagent (225)  4 years ago

ps...they also do not drink soda. They drink water and milk. The younger one likes juice, but we limit her intake to one serving a week. The older one does not like juice. They eat several fruits and veggies everyday.

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10. fuschiamoon (74)   4 years ago

I would probably be seen by many people to be "too laid back" with my kids. I believe in letting them have the freedom to make their own decisons and to learn from those decisons. I give them advice and guidance but do not control every aspect of their lives.

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