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myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619) 5 years ago

I just simply notice, people post topics, some submit replies, and vice versa, and haven't seen somebody as yet addressing each one their name.

Is it more safer to be known only by our myLot username or shall we say callsigns?

What are your apprehension why you prefer to be address by friends using your callsigns or myLot username?

Are friendship drawn from myLot not that real as we claim it to be?

My real first name is really Lowell and friends call me Nikolai, my VHF frequency call.

Those that want to share their views please do.

 

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lecanis (7304) response was accepted on 8/29/2007.
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. lecanis (7304)   5 years ago

Some of my friends know my real name, in fact a couple of them know my full name. However...

Just because someone addresses me by my username doesn't make me feel that the friendship isn't real. My username exists for a reason other than to protect my identity... it is a fond nickname given to me by someone I love very much, and it is part of the name of a spirit who had been his protector and friend for many years... as she has been mine for many years now. So using her name online has a meaning for me, perhaps just as much or more meaning than using my "real" name.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

Hello lecanis.

Very well said. I couldn't say nor comment more on your statement. I immidiately gave you BR for that without giving it a second thought.

I like the way you express it, that it does not necessarily mean or follow that friendship isn't real simply coz your friends call you by your username.

I really couldn't agree more. My friends here to whenever we are out and having some fun, they prefer calling my callsign rather than my first name. Username has no other purpose but to protect one's identity.

I really appreciate what you just shared.

Thank you for that.


myLot reputation of 96/100. lecanis (7304)  5 years ago

Thanks for the best response. =)

I've made many great friends here, and while some of those friendships have moved to other mediums (telephone and such) many of them are still online-only. That doens't mean that these people aren't very dear to me, or that I don't think of them throughout my day. Even if I think of them by their usernames rather than their names, it's the emotions and not the names that matter. =)

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. OreoCookie3 (22470)   5 years ago

I have a few friends that know my real name.. my first and my last name... but I like using my user name. I had an account before with my real name and I closed the account because I felt too vulnerable.. you never know who might be on here that knows you in real life. I am not sure I want to be identified by people on here,unless I want to let them know myself.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

Yes thanks OreoCookie3...

Most poeple just rather feel more safer protecting their identity than to be known publicly.

There must be some good reason rather than expose one's identity.

That's exactly what I have noticed, coz am using mine without hesitation that probably my identity is expose.

Well I have nothing to hide anyway, for as long as I never share online my bank accounts. Only using one that if in case hacked isn't that much.

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. ssh123 (18170)   5 years ago

I have announced about the importance of my name 100 times openly in this forum and elsewhere. There is nothing wrong. It is better to be frank than hiding. It is no use hiding indeed.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

That's exactly my point, which is why it made me post this one just to know why some are so reluctant to be known online.

What really harn could be done to you when your identity is exposed? To me am not hiding anything except too personal one and bank accounts, I made sure I never post them anywhere online.

How could someone hurt you on the internet other than stealing your account? Physically impossible. More riskier in real life than online.

Well anyway each has its own reasons, and mine is just exactly that.

I really do respect those that doesn't want to be identified.

Thank you my friend.


myLot reputation of 88/100. ssh123 (18170)  5 years ago

You are welcome.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. williamjisir (14142)   5 years ago

I think that it is ok to have either username or real name to mylot friends. Name is only a symbol for us to greet each other. My username contains both the username and the real name, two in one.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

Hello williamjisir,

Yes and after reading all your views regarding the issue invovle. Either a friend will call us by our username or realname doesn't mean ther's no friendship involve.

It's good to note you are using both.

Thanks a lot. have a nice day William.


myLot reputation of 98/100. williamjisir (14142)  5 years ago

Thanks, friend. Have a nice day too.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. hersmart4ever (4461)   5 years ago

In some of my post, youll see some people call me by my real name. I disclosed about my name here before and some people remembered it. What i do not disclose is my surname. It is okay for me to let every know what my real name is but I wont give my complete name. By the way, I am Hermie.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

Hello Hermie,

I hope you won't mind me calling you by your first name. Honestly I find it more formal and rather more comfortable addressing people by their real name. Thanks for giving it here. Yes it's okey if we don't disclose online our complete name for some good and personal reasons, and I toally respect and subscribed to that.

So Hermie, its real nice to know your by your real name, mince is complete open as it is my real name i use as my username, but my friends though uses to call me rather with my callsign nikolai and wouldn't mind either.

So I hope by next time I could call you Hermie, as I am trying to remember all those that comes out in the open and tell me their names.

Am looking forward for more and nice interaction with you. I prefer to label it interaction rather than discussion, hope you won't mind.

I've notice you got around 3,818 posts that shows you started at myLot a lot earlier.

Everytime I see posts ranging from that to a more than 10000, it gives me more encouragement and confirmation that myLot is exactly a real nice place to hang around.

Nice to meet you Hermie, hope to catch more of your topic discussions. Good luck...

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. sunita64 (5687)   5 years ago

Even on net I have not used any fake name my real name is sunita only. However I feel people use other names for security purpose. But till date I have not used any trouble using my real name besides I feel really unreal if I try to use some other name.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

Hello sunita64,

Me too, i've been using my real name for lamost 4 years now and so far didn't find any trouble using it. But i think it's good reason too protecting your identity online. Basically its security reason why others use login names or username.

In forums I prefer using my real name for same reason that i find a bit formal as i feel uncomfortable not using it.

There is nothing really special about me that i have to hide my identity heheh

Thansk a lot, we hare thesame views here.

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7. myLot reputation of 76/100. kennedee (152)   5 years ago

yes. and i'm using my real name here.
I don't think there would be a problem if I will broadcast my name to the world isn't?


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

(smile), yes that's what i been thinking too. maybe for as long as you have nothing to hide, there's no trouble about it at all. though i find it a good practice. well i've been on internet for so long a time, so far all went well. but am just extra-careful.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. lani0529 (1037)   5 years ago

Hello lowell!(",)

Some of my friends here knows my real name and as you can see I'm using half of my name but I don't give my last name. I think others uses call signs that describes them as a person while others use other people's name or even their pet names. I can say others play with their names to make it unique, stylish and catchy.

I have friends who revealed their names to me and I address them as such.
For me, it doesn't matter we call each other as long as in our hearts we believe that we are friends.

Great day!(",)


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

hello lani,

you are the 2nd person who calls me by my name here, and it feels great.

well yes i understand why others prefer to use other names and its kind of interesting too, being unique, catchy and stylish.

thanks for airing your side here and for revealing your name. Lani is a nice name.

nice day ahead of you too, and thanks again.


myLot reputation of 98/100. lani0529 (1037)  5 years ago

Hey, Lowell!(",)

I have nothing to hide that's why I'm using it. Anyway, it seems that you are really devoting your time to reply to everyone who comments to your discussion. I do appreciate it alot. Everytime I answer a discussion, I'm always looking forward to the reply of the one who started the discussion.

Thanks again and enjoy your day!(",)

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. bhubaneshwar (5468)   5 years ago

Most mylot members and my friends know my real name, which is same as my user name bhubaneshwar. Friends call me as Prof Saraf or Dr.Saraf. Very close address me as Bhuwan. As a Numerologist myself, I know the impotance of names.
Just now, I have started a discussion 'Name change', see it and respond.
I well come you to mylot. Check my profile and be my friend. Thanks.
DR.B.SARAF Ph.D.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

Hello Doc,

I prefer to call you Doc if its okey with you, it sounds more formal. Yes we share the same reason, my username is my real name to.

So by profession, you really are a Nuemerologist? That's amazing. Yeah, I will add you to my list and look for the topic regarding Name Change, and try to participate if I can.

Okey I will check you profile.

Thanks for dropping by.

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10. myLot reputation of 100/100. joyce959 (1274)   5 years ago

Hi Lowell. My real name is Joyce and that's what I use as my username in myLot. However, I can't disclose my surname to all ... maybe to just a few who have proven that they are really true and thrustworthy friends.

We should understand and respect the decision of some myLot users who don't want to disclose their real names, its their prerogative.

Have a nice day ahead and Happy MyLotting.


myLot reputation of 82/100. lowellpendon (619)  5 years ago

Hello Joyce, wow what a nice name you got there. So we share the same thoughts of making our name our username at the same time.

Yes I do respect others that uses different username, its their prerogative, and we have to respect it.

I actually ask this question if it changes one's view regarding friendship they call if they hide their identity of prefer not to be address by their real name.

So I think it has no bearing at all to friendship here. One may call you by your username but that doesn't mean friendship isn't there.

Anyway it's so nice of your to share with us your sweet real name Joyce.

Again thanks for coming over and hope to see you around. And yes happy myLotting to you too.

Enjoy and have fun too.


myLot reputation of 100/100. joyce959 (1274)  5 years ago

You're welcome Lowell....

Yeh, friends are friends no matter how you call or address them here. MyLot community has many nice and interesting friends.

Have a good day ahead.

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