He's younger than me!!

September 28, 2007 4:20pm CST
I've been seeing my fella for almost 3 years now. He's 10 years younger. I feel at times that even though being with me is his choice, that I'm holding him back. I have children and he wants one, though not yet. I feel he should be with someone who he can have the first experince with, first house first child etc I've been there got the t-shirt. He doesn't seem worried, but I am-what do you think? should I be worried/
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Sep 07
Hi twilight, I am awed at your sense of reasoning and understanding. You are very balanced and unbiased and ofcourse selfless. It's very difficult to let go of love just like that specially when you two know that the love is there. Age can never get into your way as long as the trust and understanding is there. I am sure that your partner is as sensitive and mature as you are. It's 3 years! obviously, we should the bond is very strong. sweetie, why are you thinking abput what could have beens, why not eenjoy the time you are into, why not live to the fullest. We never know about the future, thinking about it will only spoil the moment. So, just love, love and love and just be the sweet kind. I am sure you will have a blessed life. Love and hugs.
29 Sep 07
Thank you so much for that comment, I've come over all emotional. I just would hate the thought of him in years to come, feeling robbed. But, time will tell and your right we should live for the now-thanks again
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Sep 07
Good luck. Blessed be.
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
29 Sep 07
Because you are feeling the way you do it shows just what a caring person you are, they are very unselfish thoughts, but sometimes love doesn't care about those sorts of things, I am sure he would have thought all about these things, I think life is about being happy and if being happy means a life with you and you with him just enjoy, you may be more important to him than all the other stuff so just accept it and be happy...
29 Sep 07
Thanks for your response. He says he is happy with me and wants a life with me. So i suppose I've got to try push my fears aside. whatever will be will be-thanks again