Being sent to Chemo Doctor

That's not so far off, Lakota and good that you're being seen to quickly. I wouldn't worry too much about having the same doctor as your hubby did because I'm sure he did his very best for hubby and will for you. As for visiting his office, if the memories come back, turn them into good ones... you're following in your hubby's footsteps... taking the same path, and staying close to him, and he's watching over you, his spirit in the office beside you, reaching out to hold your hand. Sweetheart, I know how in love with that man you still are, and nothing but good can come from so much love. Your numerous friends here are still sending you healing energies and prayers too, which will hasten you on the road to recovery, mark my words. Yours, although called the same thing, is a different strain to your hubby's and your strength and positive attitude will carry you through this, if only for his memory and your family's sake. Think about VMKS... go read that again. He's a great example of strength and determination and I know in my heart that you're just the same as he. You're gonna make it through, my friend. Brightest Blessings, love and hugs. xoxox

It will set some of you and I both know that but if you have managed to fight this then I am sure you will that to and you know where to come when you need to talk and get it all out Love you

Good luck to you and I hope things go well with that Dr.. You need one that you know for a fact is good and will tell you how it is.

LKo, You have such an upbeat look on life-you make me so proud to call you friend.BTW,did you get the stents taken out for the draining yet?If so how did that go? :hugs: +'s |:)

Sweety I do understand how difficult it must be to cope with the cancer , the chemo and going to the same Dr as your late husband did but I also know that you are a strong woman and you will get through it. I have been thinking of you a lot lately sweety and hope that you are doing well and not in as much pain! I will be here to support you in any way I can if you need me and I know for a fact that there are others here who you are close to that will want to help support you too! xxxxx

My prayers are still with you Lakota. Yes building oneself with vitamins is a good idea, and I believe there is some kind of medication one can take now that lessens some of the side-effects of chemo--maybe you could ask about this? The best and only thing one can do is rest while going through it...and let the body heal itself...Everyone reacts differently to treatment I hear....some people lose weight while others gain...Has your doctor given any hints on how to keep your nutrition needs going? To keep you strong while going through this? once again, my prayers are with you my friend and take care of yourself! (((hugs))

...you've been in my prayers.. and now I will pray about the doctor's office not being a bad place for you.. Taking the vitamins sounds very sensible! love and prayers..

i m sorry to hear that happened in you dear lakota12. i just wish that you already well at now. eventhough i m new friend to you but i praying for your happiness always :)

Just try and not think about it when ya go into his office just think about getting well and being around for us for many years to come. It won't be easy but you are a very strong womwen and can handle it

Well it is almost time to start Chemo- Be sure to let us know how long and how you are doing- It’s a tough road ahead- but you can do it! : ) Keep smiling- I hope you have someone to help you there when you get tired- etc. Good luck- and I’m sending to you positive thoughts and well wishes! Keep us posted if you can!

I hope you feel better soon, Lakota. Rest a lot and stay peaceful. My mom has been cancer free for 5 years now. Looks like you have good friends praying for you. I will do so too.

I love the way the doctors seem to be on the ball for you. It seems like you got an advantage taking the vitamins and stuff early. I am glad you are feeling much better. You are still in my prayers. ((Hugs))

Hi Lakota, I hope all is going well with you and this next appointment will be a good one. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.

It sounds as though you are doing your best to prepare yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, physically and spiritually for what is ahead. I think your decision to fortify your body with extra nutrients is a good one and they will no doubt help you as you go through the Chemo treatments. It is wonderful to have the supplements you are taking on such good recommendation from someone who's been through it and is doing well 8 years later. That is what all of us who care about you are pulling for where you are concerned. I also hope going back to see that doctor does not add emotional discomfort by bringing back memories of what you and he went through together. Just remember your dream in the hospital...and continue to pace yourself and draw from all the love, light and energetic support being sent your way...candles and all! Love and light filled blessings.. Raia