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myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression3 years ago

Ever since I lost my job last year I just feel like I'm not contributing. It's easier not to work because of kids and school....but I just feel WORTHLESS! My car payment is starting to really cause money troubles and I love my car. I couldn't stand not having a vehicle....what are everyone else's views?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. dreamy1 (1758)   ranked 465 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

Why do you feel worthless? I'd love to be a stay at home mom. I'm not a mom but I'm at home now because I'm not working but I am trying to start a home business. You need to do things that make you feel good. There's a lot you can do that's worthwhile. You could start your own business, volunteer, tutor, take classes, join a gym, visit sick children in hospitals, visit Nursing Homes. If money is the issue you can find things to do at home and bring in income.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

I feel that way because I'm not making any money that really helps out. I'm doing surveys, ptc/ptr sites.....it's just not cutting it Every home business I look into involves a bunch of money or ends up being a joke


myLot reputation of 99/100. babyangie27 (1217)   ranked 11 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Yes, I have Yuwie also....I have a blog but I don't make any money from it. Thanks for the info!


myLot reputation of 94/100. dreamy1 (1758)   ranked 465 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Thank-you! I will check these sites out:)

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. babyangie27 (1217)   ranked 11 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

I have been dealing with the same issues for over 4 years now,it is best for me to stay at home because my daughter has cerebral palsy,and epilepsy,but we are down to one car cuz the other broke down and we just can't afford to fix it,talk to other mom's,friends,family and your doctor,if you keep feeling this way they might be able to get you some kind of help,it is hard but you will make it through,things are getting alittle better my way,I wish you the best.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

I am sorry to hear that about your daughter. Yes, as time passes things usually get better. I just wish I could find a way to make a good extra income that is constant....

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. Nykkee (1425)   ranked 870 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

I feel worthless all the time. I don't work at this time because my husband preferes me to be at home so he doesn't have to do anything around the house (except take out the garbage, it's heavy, and the bin is taller than me), because I don't have a license or a car to get to a job outside the house, and because I have major problems with anxiety and depression. I feel bad because I don't earn money, Ibut I also felt bad when I was earning money because I couldn't keep up the house right at the same time. No matter what i do I feel like crap so I don't think being at home makes the difference. But anyway, your not alone in feeling crappy. I'm right there with you.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Yeah, see even if I went back to work, I would miss being at home, so it's a no-win situation, I guess. I just wish I could find a way to feel more positive, ya know?!


jjgirl2 (1)   ranked 3,799 out of 4,381 in depression  1 year ago

I agree. I feel totally depressed and i work but get ragged on for not making enough. its depressing and it sucks.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. doubleloveyou (837)   ranked 426 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

My wife stays at home and cares for our children. God has bless us. If you are looking for a way to make some extra cash I may be able to help. I just hired 5 people off mylot in the last couple of day to do some work for me. I pay $50 and then I show you how you can make 100-200 a month. It's not a whole lot but it help some. If you are interested you must be from the US or Canada. I do have some open slots for the weekend paying $50. If interested make me a friend and the send me a message.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

I realize now it's too late for the weekend jobs, but I will send you a friend request. I appreciate your offer, keep me in mind when something else comes up!

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. maddysmommy (10990)   ranked 45 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

I wouldn't say worthless was the right word for me as I contribute a lot to our family even though its not in monetary form. HOWEVER at times when I want to do things, I know I can't, because we can't afford to spend on things that are not necessary (if you know what I mean). I am at the stage where I have a lot of time on my hands during the day and I need to fill that time in instead of being at home, watching tv and not doing much other than the usual mundane household chores. This is where I feel that having a part time job would help to fill that void and at the same time earning some extra $$ for me and my family. It would also mean I can buy those things I have wanted which we can't afford now LOL


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Yes I understand where you're coming from. I think even a part-time job might cause problems, if it interfered with what time the kids get off the bus. Then you still have to worry about when school is out or one of the kids are sick....If I could find a legit way of making money on-line, that would be ideal. But it seems everything I look into costs a lot or is a scam....


myLot reputation of 86/100. heartuvgold (342)   ranked 105 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Making money "online" usually isn't all it's cracked up to be. Network marketing is a great way to make money from home. And it doesn't have to be done online. I could recommend something that I think you would really like, and it wouldn't cost much to get started. You could earn as much as an attorney within a couple of years with very little effort on your part. A lot of so called online business opportunities usually make money for you only if you have a downline of several hundred. That's not realistic for most people.
But with MLM you can realistically earn hundreds or even thousands per month part time if you have the right mentoring and follow a step by step plan for success. I can help with that.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  2 years ago

Send me a friend request and let me know what program you are talking about, Thanks for respondinghappy

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6. myLot reputation of 91/100. jillbeth (2224)   ranked 882 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

Being a mother is the most important job in the world! It is God's highest calling for womanhood. Raising healthy, happy children is hard work and they need a mother who knows her self-worth! It's a job that doesn't pay financially, but emotionally. A woman with children definitely needs a car, especially if there is an emergency. Are there ways you can cut back on other expenses so you can make your car payments, or find some type of work you can do from home to help out financially? If you enjoy writing, check out Associated Content. Or think about what other skills you have that you could offer people.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

I used to be an Accounting Clerk, I did that for over 10 years...I can't write, so Associated Content and Helium don't work too good for me. Everything I tried to write for AC, was rejected. We got rid of our digital cable, so that helped a bit. Our internet is still dial-up so it's not very expensive. Just wish I could find a good legit job on-line.

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. mbs730 (1889)   ranked 330 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

You are most definitely not alone in how you feel. I can't even get a good work from home job and don't have time to work outside of the home (most work from home jobs are difficult) But the reason you probably feel worthless is because you probably are a hard worker and feel UNAPPRECIATED!!! If that is true then welcome to the club!


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Yes, I have never been a lazy person, but ever since I've been home, I have gotten a bit lazy....not intentionally, I guess I just keep thinking I'll do chores later since I'm home all the time and then I still end up waiting til the last minute! But, yes I felt unappreciated at my job and I feel that way at home as well....

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8. myLot reputation of 75/100. Angel4you730 (109)   ranked 2,760 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

Personally, i think the fact that you even stay home and take care of your kids already makes you wortwhile. Think about how many kids there are out there that would loev to have a mother that was willing to spend time with them or make sure they have food on the table or help them out with their homework.. It seems so many womem today our caught up in their office work that they forget about their house work.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Yes, I do feel good about being able to be here for my kids. I just want to help out money-wise somehow...

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9. myLot reputation of 87/100. ayou82 (3185)   ranked 4,225 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

Dont feel worhtless. Its good to be at home you are able to see your kids and you do your responsibility as the home maker. Theres a lot of things you can do to earn money start up a small bussiness that you can do at home at the same time you can monitor your kids' activities.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

I have been trying for quite some time to find a legit on-line job. Everything costs too much money or ends up being a scam of some sort...

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 293 out of 4,381 in depression   3 years ago

Hi!!
Get a hobby, do something fun.
Maybe one of your hobby´s will make you money.
Painting, cooking, baking,internet...
You are not worthless.Though I know what you are going though, as I have been there myself .
And have recently lost my job because of health problems.
I am only 41.
I try to keep busy.
And you have your children still to look after.
Well, that itself is a full time job.
Try to be happy, that rubs off on the children.
When you are happy, they are happy. When they are happy, you are happy.
Take care, have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 34/100. Netsbridge (1051)   ranked 899 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Very good points, Margojoe! However, I think our problem here is a case of mistaken identity - women who thought they would only be complete and worthwhile after marriage and/or childbirth. Check out my response for expansion.


myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 293 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Respons for expansion? Where is that?
I have read things about that today.
Take care.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jovimom (523)   ranked 178 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

That is my worst fault, trying to stay positive and happy no matter what. I really need to work on that, thanks for the advice!


myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 293 out of 4,381 in depression  3 years ago

Your welcome.
Take care.

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