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myLot reputation of 85/100. oneandonemakesix (23975) 5 years ago

You hear others talking about you, and maybe its not such good things, do you take it personally or do you do what Montgomery Gentry Sing in their song What do you think about that:

>Some people care about
what other people think
Worry ‘bout what they say
Let a little gossip
Comin’ from a loose lip
Ruin a perfect day
Saying “blah, blah, blah”
Just a-jacking their jaws
Gotta let it roll of my back
I don’t give a durn
What other people think
What do ya think about that?<

the whole song lyrics can be read here:
http://www.metrolyrics.co...

Its easy to let what people say bother us, and sometimes they say things just to be mean and spiteful sometimes our face but even so can you just let it go, and be who you are?

Mooch

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. luvstochat (6696)   ranked 1,110 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

If they are gossiping about me I just let it go. If they have nothing better to do than gossip about me they have a sad life! Gossip so many times gets spread into different stories and when the last person hears it the story is completely different and has no truth to it. That is why I stay away from gossip as much as possibl.e

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2. myLot reputation of 77/100. angelface23 (2067)   ranked 2,692 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

In the past I would let it get to me. I would take it very personally and then a war would start with me and that person but nowadays I just shrug it off. Talk $hit if ya want to but it's no sweat off my back. Now if it's people running my business around town then I will get pissed about that.

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. Cancer2005 (1831)   5 years ago

I wish I could believe that but i am not sure we are being honest with ourseleves It takes a remarkable person to say they couldnot care at all if some one says bad things or gossip about them.I know we say that but i do not believe it is the truth and maybe we donot even know that but trust me down deep things may be resting of a time bomb. Letting Gossip roll off your back to me is waiting for hell to freeze over Thanks for sharing Good Luck

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. OreoCookie3 (22476)   5 years ago

I'm not sure that ever happened to me, but if it did, I might let them know I heard them, especially if what they said was hurtful. I would be nice, but I would kind of clear my throat and let them know I heard them and say... "I heard that" and wait for their come back. Then I might say something like.. "well, if you are talking about me, you are leaving someone else alone..so have at it."

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. rogue13xmen13 (10457)   ranked 1,971 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

Not always, sometimes, I will comfront people and set the record straight, other times, I will just be me and to heck with what others say about me.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. ctrymuziklvr (4712)   ranked 385 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

Awesome song! Of course I love Montgomery Gentry and especially this song. Most of the time I can let this stuff roll off my back but there have been times and it's usually here on mylot when someone says something that hits me the wrong way and sets me off. It never happens to me in real life though...hmmmm curious huh?

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. Sillychick (2159)   ranked 373 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

It depends on who is saying it and what they say. I don't care much about what strangers think. But if one of my parents says something, that really stings, and I have a hard time getting over it. I guess if I care about a person, and think highly of them, their opinion matters to me.

The one exception to this is when someone makes a comment about my parenting abilities- or even just a disapproving look. I get very hurt by this because I think I am a good mother, and I try really hard. I have never worked harder at anything.

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8. myLot reputation of 64/100. BayleighGray (1788)   ranked 4,636 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

Hi Mooch,

With me, it really depends on who is saying what. I mean if Im really trust worthy of this person and Im close with them, then yes it will hurt, and hurt deeply.

If its someone that really doesnt know me, I just chalk it up to jealousy or something silly and let it go. I mean it might still bother me a bit, but Im not going to get too upset about it.

Bay Lay Gray xx

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9. myLot reputation of 74/100. hhhxxccc (222)   ranked 8,129 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

I try my best to not let it borrow me, but the moment i have some thinking time to myself. BAM. all of it constantly runs through my mind over and over. I've always have had a little bit of an anxiety problem, and this is defiantly where i have most of my problems. High School was hell for me lol

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10. myLot reputation of 83/100. xleslieanne (585)   ranked 7,551 out of 32,944 in life   5 years ago

i try not to let gossip about me affect me, but sometimes it's just hard for me. unfortunately i do care what most people think about me most of the time and so if there's gossip going around about me i'm affected by it.


yeoffthefcat (1)  3 years ago

So am I, however, it may help to realize that those around you are merely mortal, just like you are. In addition to this, there is a story in the Bible about throwing the first stone.

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