if you find your lover in the act?

I think it is alot better to think the situation over again. If that person had loved me then that person would never do that thinking how hurt I might be. But if that mistake happened then I think it is alot better to talk it over rather than just thinking it by myself. I would talk with that person about that situation and would also like to make sure from that person that this things never happens again.

i think that if you lover really loves you she will come back to you. I also think that most do something like that because they not thinking at the time they made decision. Also we all make miss ttakes and also we all need to learn how to forgive.

This would be most unusal but you should not take anything for granted in life.

This has not happened to me but I think I read that the husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend is the last to know..

I think words would fail me if I found out my wife was with another person...as you should not take anyone for granted.