It Christmas Eve, jerk!  

I'm sorry you'r having a bad Christmas , I honestly am . I know how it is , mine isn't going so hot either . I'll just be glad when it;s all over.
As to why men suck , lol. I don't really know , but alot of them sure do.

moonbutters

Well if I was your man I would have stayed with the family and called the friend to give him my best wishes.

How come a guy like me misses his family and that idiot dont want to be with his???

Try to have SOME fun for your Holidays!!

Merry X-Mas to you and kids!!!

Men are inferior, that is why they are jerks. I freaking hate the "waiting for dingus" game. Drives me nuts. Luckily hubby does not pull that crap very often becasue the consequences of pissing me of like that are not pleasant. But he used to, and it made me crazy.
You have my sympathy and you also have my approval if you want to rain hell upon him when he finally does come home. But try not to let it ruin your Christmas, you can just as easily beat his as$ on 12/26 as you can on 12/25. Whatever dumb thing he's doing is not worth ruining the holiday for yourslef and the younguns.

Someone has said,

We don't devote enough scientific research to finding a cure for jerks.

My ex- was just like that. My current is wonderful, he bends over backwards to do things right. Thankfully my son learned from current and not his father.

Unfortunately, some girls are jerks too...and he gets treated by them like they were his father. He has dumped a few girls for that reason you described above.

I'm so sorry you're having issues.. Hell is everyone having a crappy Christmas eve or what? At least you have the kids to spend it with though.. so enjoy the time with them. You're hubby is a tard.. I wouldn't suggest dealing with him tonight cause ya might kill him. Men can be dipshyts sometimes.. it sucks I know.

If it makes ya feel any better I'm spending Christmas eve alone. Its been me the tv, some baleys and a plate of french fries. Oh yea.. great holiday its turning out to be.

Awww, sweetie I am sorry to hear this. I know how men can be this time of the year. My first husband was never at home for christmas and if he was he was always drunk. It is sad that he has little thought for you as to your son calling and you was not able to talk with him. I would be ready to rip his head off when he came in the door. I hope that you and your kids have a great christmas. you should make you husband feel really bad and just ingore him tomarrow. Big Hugs to you and your kids. Love ya!

Hello zu

I'm sorry to hear you're having such a rough Christmas Eve and that you are so hurt. I don't know why men can be such jerks, but I will say it's not exclusive to men.

I hope it that your holiday turns better. All people are different and sometimes they can be exasperating and hurtful without even knowing that they are doing it. The mind is powerful and it is possible, if we are willing to let go of the past, whether it be a few years ago or a few hours ago.. :-) Derek

Sorry to hear that and you have every right to be a peeved. If his lateness is caused by "having a few too many". You could hope that he will have a hangover and so you can encourage the kids to play loudly and turn the Christmas music up very loud and hide the Aspirins! LOL.