So many things too little time what do you do?

I think you need Flylady http://flylady.net/!

She has excellent tips and hints for getting organised so that everything fits into the day. Although a lot of the site deals with 'housework' things, many of her tips and strategies can apply to any busy person.

Families do take up a lot of time and, of course, they are really the main reason why you are working extra in the first place. Remember that the best form of advertising is word of mouth. Flyers are expensive and time consuming to distribute and, knowing the way that I deal with flyers, I wonder how effective they really are. I suppose that you could pay someone to distribute them (one needn't pay a great deal), which is an added cost to the advertising budget. Sometimes it is worth paying someone else, though, to save yourself time.

That is a tough situation. I guess maybe I would suggest giving your children some responsibilities to help with your business if they are able.
That depends on what your business is and how old your children are.

You could make a day with the kids to go out and place your fliers around. This will get them involved and excited to be part of your business. You can even treat them at the end with lunch or something.