When is the best time to toilet train?  |
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I puzzles me that most of western society waits so long to toilet train their babies. I am sure the average here in Australia must be around 3. You see so many toddlers of that age still wearing nappies and there is also a wide range of products available in terms of a nappy for this group. In places like Russia and China, babies start toilet training as young as six months. This seems much more sensible to me. Both my children were toilet trained before the age of 2. What are your thoughts and when did you leave nappies behind?
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1. dania_elm (224) | 2 years ago | 3 of my 5 were potty trained by 18 months. one by age 2. the other was little hehind and he waited until 3. when they are off the bottle at 12 months and walking i started potty training mine. if ur child gets u a diaper when it does its business--potty train it!!!
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | Yes that is always a tell-tale signs isn't it!
Thanks for the comment
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2. graedragon (223) | 2 years ago | My 2 girls were the easiest to potty train. My son on the other hand had many issues with it. He was three before I could get him to go on the toilet. Not that I didn't try. My girls were potty trained by 2. my youngest though was great. Before she was even 2 she wanted to you the toilet
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | I have heard lots of mums say that girls are much easier. I only have girls but they were pretty easy, in fact my first picked it up so quick that I couldn't believe it was for real! On the other hand though I have a friend with 2 boys and they didn't waste time in nappies. Both got the potty thing really quick.
Thanks for your comment
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3. eden32 (2986) | 2 years ago | My daughter took it upon herself to start using the potty just before she turned 2. I had pulled out the potty chair to get her use to seeing it, I hadn't planned on even trying for a few months yet. One day she just started using it & never needed any extra pointers, encouragement or whatever from me. My two sons on the other hand I thought would be in college before they figured it out. The older was probably 3.5 before he was using the potty more often than not, but 4 before he was fully using it. My youngest was just past 4 when he stopped having accidents. Boys seem to both not really care about having accidents and not have the muscle control as early as girls. I may be having selective memory, but I don't recall my daughter ever having an accident once she started using the potty.
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | Great story eden, thanks for sharing. I wonder if there are any studies on why boys are slower in this sometimes.
Certainly seems to be like a trend here
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4. lilybug (15322) | 2 years ago | My son was just barely 3 when he was FULLY potty trained. He was a stubborn child. He knew when he needed to go he just chose not too go. My daughter is 11 months old and has used the potty many times since she was about 9 months old. She follows me into the bathroom and I put her on the toilet. Most of the time she will go shortly after sitting down, but she is nowhere near potty trained yet. I think it is mostly luck.
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | Yes lady luck was certainly a helping hand with my second daughter. It all helps it sinks in!
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5. mtdewgurl74 (10311) | 2 years ago | Those who had their trained by two are lucky..The doctor would just say don't force it let it happen on their terms, they will let you know when they are ready. But that can agitate alot of parents it did my mother with my little sister who was 4 before being fully potty trained. Didn't have problem at first then we traveld to visit family and she got scared because of those self flushing toilets and to hurry her up my sister in law told her a monster was in there going to get her. talk about scared she refused to go to any more bathrooms after that for awhile. My brother told her that a monster was on ours that wanted her to feed it..stupid idea..But with patience I helped my mom potty train her. Only had trouble when she got a urinary tract infection. So best thing is not to scare them or push them into it to soon because some kids(the stubborn ones) will just make it that much harder on you to potty train them. And make sure they aren't under alot of stress make going fun if possible like racing to see who gets there first then wiggle around while they use it and make them laugh pretty soon they will start going on their own. I have seen 5 year olds in diapers and seen 4 year olds sucking pacifiers and bottles.
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | I couldn't agree with you more. You should never ever under any circumstance apply any pressure for your child to use the potty. To a certain extent going to the toilet is an instinctive process. One that is not easily speed up. It must be a relaxed process. The comprehension will eventually develop.
As for the 5 year old diapers and 4 year olds with dummies and the like, it is all wrong and on so many different levels! I am all for extending childhood but all babies grow up and by the age of three these baby items should be gone.
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6. Modestah (7932) | 2 years ago | I think 15-18 mos is the ideal time to start getting serious about it - as that is the time when physiologically the child's brain neurons are developed enough to understand and control their eliminations.
I started at about that age with mine, my son was potty trained to urine before 18 mos but for fecal matter he was closer to 2 years
one daughter began at 18 mos and was complete by 2, no night time dipes or anything
my youngest was a bit slower - we started, it did not hold her interest, she had a difficult time controlling her bladder until she was a little over 2, and was not completely trained and reliable till 3 years old through the night.
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | Again another spot on answer. I have to agree with what you say. Of course there will be differences between children but I think for the most part this could easily apply to most parents.
Education and effort can go a long way! Thanks for sharing
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7. subha12 (16450) | 2 years ago | i think from 15-18 months is the best time. i have seen my little niece to be potty trained by this time.In our country mainlyt the babies are potty tarined at early age. I think its good habit.
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | Yes I agree the earlier the better.
Thanks for sharing
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8. MommaOfAllTrades (351) | 2 years ago | I think 6 months is way too young. I did not toilet train my babies until they were ready. With that said, it was also forced upon them. By the time they were 2.5, I had already talked and demonstrated the whole process. On Christmas day, I ran out of diapers and no stores were open. I told my daughter sorry, No more diapers! and that was it. For my youngest, she was starting daycare and needed to be trained so we did the big countdown, 10 more diapers.... 3, 2, 1... all done!
It worked for me but I know a lot of parents have a harder time.
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | That is a fantastic story and a great way to approach the subject. It is great when you can communicate in that manner with your children.
I think the 6 month thing is based on the elimination communication theory stuff. Where you learn to read your baby's signals. Great idea but a lot of work or rather time and attention. Not that easy after the first child. Plus the countries I mentioned are very poor and can't afford nappies so they have no option.
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9. mag_keizer2007 (671) | 2 years ago | My daughter is 2 and she is fully potty trained and so was my 7 year old...she has accidents but she did so well. I started them both when they were 18 months and took my time and had to be really patient with them...I think some people are just lazy to tell you the truth and leave it till there child can tell them exactly when and where they can go to the bathroom. That is my opinion
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | Couldn't disagree with you on the lazy aspect mag. Thanks for sharing:)
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LouRhi (831) | 2 years ago | Yes it certainly does depend on the child's maturity or comprehension.
Yes I to know of the nappy free thing. I have also heard it as EC(Elimination Communication)I don't really understand how it can work in the first 3 or even 6 months. But I do agree that if you pay enough attention you would be able to get it right 90% of the time. It is an exceptionally high level of effort that is needed though, plus messy if you get it wrong.
I will probably adapt some of the thoughts if I have another baby but I will just do it with a nappy on.
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