sign in • sign up
web | myLot | discussions | blogs | news | photos
homeinterestsdiscussionsblogsnewsmessages friendsphotosearningsmyLot

Can you forgive easily? Is sorry an easy word? email this discussion to a friend?

princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life7 months ago

Hi All,

I was having this discussion with my bestfriend the other night and just wondered what you all thought.

Can you forgive people easily if they have upset you?

Do you often say sorry whether you are in the wrong or not?

OK so I know it depends on the situation and how much that person has hurt you, betrayed you etc but can you forgive. I am a stubborn person even when I argue with my partner I hate to say sorry haha, but over the years I have changed a lot and can forgive easier and say sorry easier but for those that have really hurt me or betrayed me I still can not forgive them and hold a grudge, do you think as we get older we become more forgiving xx

 
 
life
sponsors
LIFE - Adult Care
This model of care is centered around the belief that it is better for older adults and for their families if their chronic care needs are provided in the community whenever possible.
www.lifeupenn.org

Jesus Loves You
Here is a prayer that can change your life.
www.Jesus2020.com

Passionup Secret Love Letters& Poems
Free Greeting Cards, Love Poems, Romantic Poetry, and Love Letters.
www.PassionUp.com

moonbutters (991) response was accepted on 1/12/2008.
denotes best response.
tags:  sorry, life, forgiveness, forgive, forgiving
 
1. myLot reputation of 88/100. maggiemoon (434)   ranked 1,326 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

it's the attitude and the habit but no good or bad.
A man never saying sorry won't be welcomed by many people,and certainly less friends.Equality is important.If you do something wrong badly but not say sorry,what would your friends think of you?Fair play is needed.


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi Maggiemoon,

Thanks for your reply, I can relate to what you are saying but there are friends and enemies in life unfortunately this happens where someone you trust or whatever then betrays you and for me personally I find it hard to forgive.

I have learned over the years to say sorry or at least a little more;) after all we are all human and make mistakes and mistakes are part of the learning curve. xx

LIFE - Adult Care This model of care is centered around the belief that it is better for older adults and for their families if their chronic care needs are provided in the community whenever possible. www.lifeupenn.org
 
2. myLot reputation of 91/100. balasri (5931)   ranked 1,538 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

I forgive easily and saying sorry is easy to me.But for most of the people saying sorry seems to be very easy without meaning it.


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi ya,

Thanks for your reply, yep I agree often without any meaning in the word.

Jesus Loves You Here is a prayer that can change your life. www.Jesus2020.com
 
3. myLot reputation of 85/100. Modestah (7281)   ranked 811 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

I think it is important to forgive others, even if they do not ask for or seek forgiveness.
I am always quick to ask God for mercy, so then, who am I to not be merciful to my fellow man for their injuries against me?


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi Modestah,

Thank you - not sure if that works but I do hope so x

Passionup Secret Love Letters & Poems Free Greeting Cards, Love Poems, Romantic Poetry, and Love Letters. www.PassionUp.com
 
4. myLot reputation of 96/100. moonbutters (991)   ranked 678 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

Hi Princess,

Yes, I think age has alot to do with it. I'm a stubborn person too and always have been. But as time passes, I'm realizing something new. At least to me. Other people make mistakes too. LOL. That may seem odd to say, and in a way it is to me, but I've lived my life only thinking of My mistakes, not realizing that some of the things people did that hurt me were mistakes as well. This "new found intellect" has litterally changed the way I view people and makes it much easier to not only say, " I'm sorry ", but also to accecpt it when someone else says it.

Thanks for the post,,

moonbutters


myLot reputation of 96/100. moonbutters (991)   ranked 678 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Sorry,

You did have a question there.. lol .. Yes, I do forgive easily.. My issue is ...do others forgive me?

moonbutters


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi Moonbutters,

Hehe thanks for the reply, you sound very similar to me at the moment x

Parenting Made Easy Parenting ideas, advice, support. Advancing the family-fun for kids. www.Kaboose.com/Parenting
 
5. myLot reputation of 96/100. williamjisir (8471)   ranked 282 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

Hello dear princess. I think that I can forgive easily. I won't remember it for long. But if it is someone who has hurt me and spread rumors against me, it is not so easy. I will just try to be away from the person with as little as communication as possible. I used to have such a colleague, but it is ok for us now as we are working in different sections. Seemingly, we still greet each other when seeing each other, but I am glad that we seldom have a chance to see each other. lol


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi ya,

Thanks for your reply, yep definately lol keep them away hehe x

Free Book: Making Life Work Get free book with great advice. Make your life work with success. www.gnmagazine.org/life
 
6. myLot reputation of 97/100. moneyandgc (2573)   ranked 886 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

It all depends on the person who hurt me, and like you said also; it depends on what they did and the severity of it. I can usually forgive someone but it takes me a long time, especially if trust is involved. Even if I do forgive, rarely do I forget!
Saying that I am sorry is difficult for me to do. I do it though. Sometimes, depending on who it is, I do it in a written format. Writing down my thoughts comes easier to me.


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi ya,

Thanks for your reply, I agree I can forgive but I cant seem to forget easily. I also find writing my thoughts easier than expressing them verbally x

Why Bother With Baptism? Faith Only? Faith Only - ONE place in the Bible. It says NOT by faith only. www.WhyBaptism.org
 
7. myLot reputation of 97/100. Armstrong7886 (216)   ranked 1,562 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

The whole "I can forgive but I won't forget" cliche, Well that is me all the way. I find that I can forgive people in pretty much any situation no matter how big or small it is. But most things I never forget. I make sure I remember these things because I find that I won't get hurt as easily in the future thus not even having to worry about forgiving people because I avoid the problem.


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi ya,

Thanks for your reply, another one like me that cant forgive easily and your right in what you say that way you wont get hurt xxx

forgiving 100,000 Stores. Deals. Reviews. forgiving & More. shopping.yahoo.com
 
8. andy1000000 (34)   ranked 11,790 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

I say sorry too much and forgive too easilly. I mostly mean it when I say it though. I'm alsways worried people will think ill of me otherwise.


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi ya,

Thank you for your reply, maybe I should be a little more like that x

Apply God's Laws to Your Life New book: The Kingdom by Steve Krotoski. Know Jesus. Only $9.99. TheKingdomBook.com
 
9. myLot reputation of 82/100. angemac23 (950)   ranked 7,125 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

It depends on what the person did....I had people in my life who did some pretty bad things to me and I have NEVER forgiven them and I never will....I did not deserve what they did to me and I would never have done the same to them therefore they were not worthy enough for an apology. I can forgive when it is something minor or not serious.


princess2008 (72)   ranked 2,706 out of 24,542 in life  7 months ago

Hi ya,

Thanks for your reply, Im the same and basically this was why we had the discussion as to whether I should forgive a friend that betrayed me and I say no because I would never do that to them! anyway hehe thanks xx

Forgiveness - Love to Heal Tape or CD January Sale: This energy tape develops a balanced, centered and grounded state with a complete feeling of being loved. Its energy is for opening and healing your heart (4th) chakra. www.fssuniverse.org
 
10. myLot reputation of 78/100. zhaopao (512)   ranked 1,567 out of 24,542 in life   7 months ago

sometimes yes but most of the times... yes. You must love your enemies. Even God loved His enemies.

Sorry Game from Boardgames.com Sorry game plus every game under the sun from your online games superstore, Boardgames.com. www.boardgames.com
 
sponsors
Parenting Made Easy
Parenting ideas, advice, support. Advancing the family-fun for kids.
www.Kaboose.com/Parenting

Free Book: Making Life Work
Get free book with great advice. Make your life work with success.
www.gnmagazine.org/life

Why Bother With Baptism? Faith Only?
Faith Only - ONE place in the Bible. It says NOT by faith only.
www.WhyBaptism.org

similar discussions
Why do people aplogise for their 'rants'?
I have come across quite a number of discussions that are labelled 'rants' and 'sorry, rant',...
"Sorry" doesn't cut it!
Ok now I am a little perturbed. I received a text message yesturday from an unknown sender that...
any one does hurt or offend on my comment here post here?
any one does hurt or offend on my comment i am sorry? people only hope you understand i know i hurt...
help mylot family how to add link?
I have a very big problem i have an interview next week about this job that all i have to do is add...
Naming a new kitten
Last month my father found a tiny kitten in his yard. We guessed its age around 3 weeks. Well guess...
I want to knew how search engines will work
hi, can u please post the details about working of an search engines
saying sorry..
will you agree or disagree if i say that "Saying sorry does not make things better"?.. because i...
Sorry: Is it too big to say?
Have you ever felt uncomfortable saying sorry to anybody? Yes sometimes it becomes very difficult...
is there anything that you've done, you wished you apologized for but didn't?
I might have said something to offend someone, or when i was in junior high i was probably really...
Do you admit your mistakes?
If you've committed a mistake, (intentional or not)do you admit it? do you say sorry? or you don't...
sponsors
Parenting Made Easy
Parenting ideas, advice, support. Advancing the family-fun for kids.
www.Kaboose.com/Parenting
Free Book: Making Life Work
Get free book with great advice. Make your life work with success.
www.gnmagazine.org/life
Why Bother With Baptism? Faith Only?
Faith Only - ONE place in the Bible. It says NOT by faith only.
www.WhyBaptism.org
forgiving
100,000 Stores. Deals. Reviews. forgiving & More.
shopping.yahoo.com
Apply God's Laws to Your Life
New book: The Kingdom by Steve Krotoski. Know Jesus. Only $9.99.
TheKingdomBook.com
Forgiveness - Love to Heal Tape or CD
January Sale: This energy tape develops a balanced, centered and grounded state with a complete feeling of being loved. Its energy is for opening and healing your heart (4th) chakra.
www.fssuniverse.org
Sorry Game from Boardgames.com
Sorry game plus every game under the sun from your online games superstore, Boardgames.com.
www.boardgames.com
myLot population: 136,796
privacy | terms | about myLot | legal | contact | FAQs | RSS | guidelines | advertise with us    ©2008 myLot®. All Rights Reserved.