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myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex 5 years ago

Well, rarely for me i went out on the town last night. For a treat I went to an old gay bar i used to spend many a happy hour in. All the girls were there and it sounded like a real party was in swing, then one old - hehehe - friend asked me why i was there when i had a husband and kids. Well i was shocked at such blatent chavenism. Just because i met a male and had his spawn does not change me, I am still who i was before being impregnated, I still prefer sex with women and only ever have recreational sex with women, sex with a male is purely functional, nothing more. If I had been a colder person I could just as easily have used a turkey baister than a male. Now I find the term breeder offensive when it was spat at me in the way it was last night, im just Sue.
Am I wrong?
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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. Ravenladyj (19028)   ranked 61 out of 790 in sex   5 years ago

Oooh I wouldnt have been too impressed either! In fact I (knowing me and my temper LOL) would have seriously gone off on this person! I don't think you are wrong at all...I think this other person was way out of line!


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Well thankyou for your suport Raven, I was a little upset and realised why i have kept away from that scene for as long as i have
blessed be


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Okay, I remember now where I'd just seen your name, Ravenlady - it was here! Good on ya!


yulius_candr (10)   ranked 548 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

hehheheeheheee

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. scammerwear (647)   5 years ago

Maybe she's just bitter that she ain't getting any of you lately ;)


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

hahaha well maybe so, i will bear that in mind lol
blessed be

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15572)   5 years ago

A person's sexual orientation does not bother me at all but you are the first person among my many lesbian or bisexual friends who have ever called their children spawn. Now I think the distinction in question is whether you are human or just fishy! Your poor children!!
definition:
spawn(spôn)
n.
The eggs of aquatic animals such as bivalve mollusks, fishes, and amphibians.
Offspring occurring in numbers; brood.
Mycelia of mushrooms or other fungi grown in specially prepared organic matter for planting in beds.

v., spawned, spawn·ing, spawns.

v.intr.
To deposit eggs; produce spawn.
To produce offspring in large numbers.
v.tr


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

thankyou for giving me the benefit of your literacy skills, i am in your debt
blessed be


myLot reputation of 80/100. whiteheather39 (15572)  5 years ago

You are very welcome. May Neptune (god of the sea) be with you.


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

hahaha thank you for your input

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. Ohara_1983 (3480)   ranked 194 out of 790 in sex   5 years ago

wow, how do you deal that eskarena that you have already children & have a partner, what your hubby will say to you, about your friend we dont know what they really think but im sure they will think negative to you, even you do or not, you know already people what they will see specially the thing that you mention it will be wierd to them.


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

its only weired if they close their minds
good to see you around my friend
blessed be

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5. myLot reputation of 82/100. DLOPEZ240 (1105)   5 years ago

No,your not wrong at all.You know thats the way you feel.Iam more even favor of turkey baister too,so forget what people say.F*CK IT***


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

thats great, thankyou


myLot reputation of 82/100. DLOPEZ240 (1105)  5 years ago

Sure,no problem**

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (12221)   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Ah, Pye, I'm so glad you spoke up here. And spawn or not, darlin', I love ya to pieces! Hey, this is awful, but once I had a yeast infection, a really bad one, (this was many many years ago), it was a long holiday weekend, but only the beginning of it, so I couldn't get to the doctor for any meds. I had heard that yogurt (plain) could be helpful, as it contained whatever it is that combats yeast - SO - I went to the store and got some plain yogurt, put it in a turkey baster, and yes, I really did what I needed to do. Ha! It actually helped - I got to the doctor the first of the week and got the medicine I needed, but at least I was able to get through the weekend.
Some story, huh? lolololol


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

hahaha, love you pye and thanks for the response. We have always kept the baster in mind lol

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

its a strange thing, i thought we were friends. Its strange you really never can tell. Thankyou for your words of support


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

You are most entirely welcome:)

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8. myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Why do you immediately assume that she tricked him? It seems to me that you are indeed judging her - you didn't ask her anything about it first, simply assumed that she was deceitful. What does that say about you?


myLot reputation of 81/100. dvschic (1200)  5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)  5 years ago

Novataylor,I don't know if she tricked him or not,she didn't actually say if she tricked him but I said especially
if he didn't know he was being used.In that sentence there I say especially if he didn't know he was being used.The
word if in that sentence reveals that I don't know if she tricked him.


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)  5 years ago

Yeah,sure we can agree to disagree.Hey,if that relationship works,thats great,if all are happy then good for them.They
should all be happy about the situation,thats all.


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Yes, they should. And, frankly, I'm sure they are.


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

hey, he knew the score when he got with me, nothing is hidden, we dont lie


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Well, gee, I wonder why that's no surprise to me? Duh! Funny, I'll bet it'll be one to certain others!


myLot reputation of 87/100. signorpetho (211)   ranked 236 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Hehehe...
What an interesting respond... you get many comments here, it's become a very nice discuccion. It's my knowledge now.

haha.. very very interesting

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9. myLot reputation of 81/100. dvschic (1200)   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)  5 years ago

Whew ! Yeah,I guess I've been blasted.I don't have anything against lesbians,bisexuals or transsexuals.Thanks for
explaining the heirarchy to being a lesbian.I'm just saying that all people should be truthful in a relationship,
any relationship.I sure don't know if she was truthful or not.


myLot reputation of 81/100. dvschic (1200)  5 years ago

oh u didn't get blasted, the original poster got blasted at the bar.

there shouldn't be a heirarchy and i definately agree honesty is the policy.

love is love, we should all just focus on what makes US happy and leave others to find their own happiness as well.


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

I was waiting for this one, dvschic :)


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

wow you girls have got it all worked out, i just get through life. I dont and i wont, hate anyone
blessed be


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 24 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

Ya know, there are just some things that have to be stood up for, and this was clearly one of them, and not just for me, obviously. Did you know you were going to get this kind of support? Feels good, huh?

Yes, there are haters everywhere, you see them all the time. Bravo for you that you won't do it. It's hard sometimes not to, but we have to have the strength and courage of our convictions. Clearly you do. You too, dvschic.


myLot reputation of 81/100. dvschic (1200)  5 years ago

we do pretty well, plus us bi's have to stick together, if not, the haters will take over and ban any gray areas... they want it all black and white...

sometimes lessies are just as bad as men..


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

thank you girls,
Its great that you see all sides
blessed be

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10. myLot reputation of 81/100. oscarbartoni (1956)   5 years ago

I am a straight man engaged to a bisexual woman and we have an understanding that if either one of us finds another woman that it would be a process where everyone involved would have to get along with everyone else. so far we have not found anyone but we are looking, not too hard but if the right woman comes along then we will go for it. A relationship should not involve lies to each other.


myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)  5 years ago

So you could each find another woman and still stay together.I'm glad that you are up front with each other in the
beggining.I never knew of this type of relationship before.


myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)  5 years ago

So you could each find another woman and still stay together.I'm glad that you are up front with each other in the
beggining.I never knew of this type of relationship before.


myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)  5 years ago

So you could each find another woman and still stay together.I'm glad that you are up front with each other in the
beginning. I never knew of this type of relationship before.


myLot reputation of 75/100. janisspaggiari59 (352)  5 years ago

Sorry,I only posted it once.Really,I don't know what happened.


myLot reputation of 94/100. ESKARENA1 (12122)   ranked 277 out of 790 in sex  5 years ago

i agree, lying is the killer but our relationship works

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